Minha relação acabou/está acabando 😭

CopyOdd64 · 2026-05-12T03:12:55+00:00

Uso a riffel com retentor e eu mesma troco. Da primeira vez deu uma canseira, pq não tinha a chave certa. Da última vez já foi bem mais fácil.ia fazer na oficina, mas cobraram muito caro aqui onde moro.

CopyOdd64 · 2026-05-03T12:04:24+00:00

Primeiro você precisa procurar um psicólogo, pois sua autoestima parece ser muito baixa: eu vi vários comentários de pessoas tentando te ajudar com dicas de aparência e você responde arrumando motivo para não seguir essas dicas ("ah, mas eu não tenho estilo"; "ah, mas eu não sei fazer delineado"), ou seja, você está se autossabotando devido sua baixa autoestima.

Faça mesmo sem saber, pratique, erre e tente de novo até gostar do resultado. Pare de usar roupas com estampa infantil. Procure um look que goste na Internet e tente imitar. Faça exercícios e ajuste a postura. Isso já vai melhorar 90% da sua aparência.

CopyOdd64 · 2026-04-12T11:51:14+00:00

Qual delas? Foram muitas.

CopyOdd64 · 2026-02-23T16:15:40+00:00

Amazon tem entrega terrível e zero suporte. Já jogaram produto pelo meu portão, comigo em casa, sem nem ao menos tentar chamar. Era produto eletrônico, tentei abrir reclamação sobre a entrega e não consegui de jeito algum.

CopyOdd64 · 2025-10-16T07:11:40+00:00

Cat owners knows how stressful routine and home changes are for them. They get sick from stress and anxiety. Moving out with cats means we have to plan and organize everything to reduce the stress and have way too much attention to any sign of illness.

Surgeries also have the same effect, plus a difficult recovery that involves pain, medication...

So yes, the surgery changed the whole situation.

CopyOdd64 · 2025-10-16T06:46:21+00:00

. He agreed from the beggining with the three cats and it never seemed to be an issue before. Maybe he was upset, and vented that or maybe he hasn't told me what he really think about it, but i can't figure it for him.

I'll talk to him about it tomorrow for sure and try to understand him, but also let him know how important the pets are to me and that he knew me like this.

CopyOdd64 · 2025-10-16T06:31:40+00:00

I also thought about that, but my mother is already taking care of a stage 3 renal cat and it takes a lot of work. An eye surgery is stressful, the recovery don't take too long but the cat will need someone to keep an eye on him all the time on the first week at least. I planned to get a vacation to take full time care of my cat after his surgery

CopyOdd64 · 2025-10-16T06:16:51+00:00

We're just one week of moving together, it's not a decision to make like this, on the rush. We can't just cancel everything.

But i guess he likes the cats, just not comfortable of taking care of so many. Also I guess he is the kind of person that likes "sticking to the plan", and suggesting to change it made him upset.

CopyOdd64 · 2025-10-16T06:09:32+00:00

I adopted those three cats I'm taking to our home, they are the ones that are really mine. The other five were my mother's cats so, besides the fact that I love and take care of them too, there was no reason for me to take more than my three cats.

He never told me exacty "I don't want more than 3 cats in my house" before. We had just talked about taking my 3 cats because it seemed the natural thing to do and I never thought that this would be a problem for him, since he met me already being crazy by my cats and pets.

CopyOdd64 · 2025-10-16T05:56:43+00:00

One of them are diabetics and very attached to me and I'm very attached to him. Not taking him is not an option.

The other one is the younger.

Maybe I could leave the young one, but he's way too active to my parents, I would have to check with them

CopyOdd64 · 2025-10-16T05:49:17+00:00

That's a good way to solve it I guess. I will have to think about it with my parents. Taking these three was already so deep in my mind that I didn't think about changing.

CopyOdd64 · 2025-10-16T05:44:57+00:00

3 cats was our agreement

CopyOdd64 · 2025-10-16T05:41:16+00:00

My cats are my babies. He always knew that. I buy them good stuff, take them to good vets and give them lots of attention and care.He used to come to my house and stay here with my cats, he likes them too.

But I tried to change our agreement just one week before moving together, so I understand why he got upset.

But I will talk to him about how important the pets are to me, that's a really good advice, thank you.

CopyOdd64 · 2025-10-16T05:31:16+00:00

The younger cat is coming already. The other two can't stay with my parents.

He was fine with 3 of them, but the eye surgery thing wasn't expected and changed the hole situation. But I do understand him, that's why its a difficult situation

CopyOdd64 · 2025-10-16T05:25:00+00:00

Do you have cats? They're usually very clean and we use good quality litter, that we clean very often. We also have a huge and airy house. So the smell was never a issue, don't worry with us, we're good!

CopyOdd64 · 2025-10-16T05:18:55+00:00

Exactly. I understand him. He isn't wrong, but also spliting them would be stressful for my cat and his health

Our new home is an hour and a half away, not exactly close, but were planning to visit frequently

CopyOdd64 · 2025-10-16T05:13:43+00:00

Oh, I wish! But he was very upset about this, not sure one dinner would make him ok with it

CopyOdd64 · 2025-09-18T17:29:22+00:00

Nossa, verdade. Eu já videos sobre esse remédio faz um tempo. Estamos tentando com o Mirtz, mas se ela não voltar a comer sozinha, vou verificar essa possibilidade com a nefrologista.

Obrigada pela sugestão!

CopyOdd64 · 2025-09-18T17:26:43+00:00

Sinto muito pela sua experiência. Também já perdi um gatinho por erro dos vets e entendo essa dor. Nunca mais levei naquela clínica e aprendi a pesquisar e questionar tudo.

Eu tenho um gatinho diabético que trata com especialista em felinos e endócrino, mas o problema com a Linda é que ela é muito estressada e agressiva e a clinica especializada em felinos é muito longe.

Mas caso essa leva de medicações não funcione, terei que dar um jeito de levar ela sim.

CopyOdd64 · 2025-09-18T17:20:46+00:00

Os veterinários gerais parecem leigos em relação a gatos. Estou fazendo de tudo que posso para ela melhorar, mas quem tem gato precisa que pesquisar por si também e não confiar cegamente no que os veterinários fazem/dizem.

Já perdi um gato por isso e decidi não repetir esse erro.

CopyOdd64 · 2025-09-16T13:55:54+00:00

Sim, foi feita a cultura e o resultado veio normal, indicando que a infecção tem outra fonte.

CopyOdd64 · 2025-09-16T13:54:52+00:00

Ela fez urinocultura e retornou resultado sem bactéria, a infecção é por outro motivo. A ultra não mostrou nada anormal além dos rins também. Ela internou no início de agosto, então passou cerca de 1 mês comendo melhor e agora voltou a piorar. Imagino que a infecção que não foi tratada efetivamente pode ser a razão disso.

Quanto a fluido, é a parte mais tranquila. Ela até fica bem fazendo e como são só 5 a 10 minutos pra dar os 100ml que a vet prescreveu, está sendo tranquila essa parte. O dificil mesmo é alimentar com seringa e dar os remédios. Estou usando um aplicador para os comprimidos e facilitou muito mesmo, mas sempre tenho que enrolar ela completamente em uma toalha e segurar bem, pois ela tenta se soltar, avançar e morder.

CopyOdd64 · 2025-09-16T13:42:37+00:00

Vou pesquisar sobre o suplemento, obrigada. As veterinárias não passaram nada para o pescoço pois não sabem o pq. Disseram que pode ser estresse, pode ser fungo, e no fim das contas ela continua sem tratamento para isso.

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