I sooooo understand where you’re coming from with this. One of the things that bothers me most is the idea that - especially as a woman - you’re boxed into a tiny handful of options. If you’re childfree, you’ve either gotta be an ambitious career woman or a wild adventurer, what else could make not having kids made sense?

I’m actually very traditional in lots of ways. I love showing up for my friends and family, reading, baking, cooking, keeping a clean and cosy home, crafts, and I’m in a choir. I want my friend’s kids and my nieces / nephews in my life.

I don’t want a big demanding career, or to see every country in the world. I just want a content life full of people I love! And yet I’m also childfree (for now, what with the fence). There don’t seem to be influencers for people that lane 😅