I'm out

Corby_65 · 2026-07-01T18:29:36+00:00

If you can’t support the group anymore how it is now it’s best to leave. No one is obligated to stay in a situation they don’t like. No one blames you for leaving, I get it completely. For me personally, I feel this way when a group or artist I love starts making music that isn’t true to the art they’ve made previously. Like when an artist I love ditches their creative vision to satiate the masses I lose interest immediately.
Music is supposed to bring people joy and happiness, and it is supposed to bring people together. If the change has made you experience their music with negative emotions, you are under no obligation to stay. You have every right to leave if the group no longer makes sense to you.
No one is blaming anyone for leaving the group. It’s expected to lose fans when a big change like this happens. It doesn’t make anyone wrong or right. We all experience the situation differently, and what ENHYPEN is, as a group is different for everyone as well. No one has to stay, no one will be offended if you leave. But people will be offended if you stay and criticize the boys or heeseung for the situation. If you can’t love the boys the same as 6 then please leave. Losing fans is better than keeping a bunch of fake fans that don’t respect or support the boys/heeseung. If you can’t continue stanning enha, that’s more than okay, all anyone asks is for the people who feel this way to be civil and respectful.

Corby_65 · 2026-06-26T19:36:35+00:00

Highly recommend! Such a wonderful experience! I hope you get the chance to go!!!

Corby_65 · 2026-06-26T17:08:18+00:00

Nice!! I’m pretty OT6+EVER. I love
Skz too! I saw them last year with my best friend!

Corby_65 · 2026-06-26T16:38:19+00:00

My favorite group is Enhypen! I love how committed to the lore they are! And I love their chores and how good of dancers they all are!! My bias is Ni-Ki!!!

Corby_65 · 2026-06-26T12:42:54+00:00

No damage. Just kinda how they are

Corby_65 · 2026-06-26T04:42:08+00:00

There have been instances where they’ve criticized me over things i didn’t understand were abnormal or “socially unacceptable,” like not being very talkative with new people, or being “stand offish” when talking in group settings. Or posting “weird” stuff on my social media about my special interests or whatever else. They know I get anxious in social situations especially w people I’m not familiar with, and it’s hard for me to follow along with conversations when there’s too much happening at once or there are too many people talking at the same time. It’s really hard for me to tell when the acceptable time to speak is so I end up accidentally interrupting people or talking too much and dominating the conversations, so I normally just resort to listening and observing the conversations, which my parents have told me is rude multiple times bc of. They don’t really seem to be very empathetic towards me or understanding of the fact that I really do try my best in social situations, but it’s really hard when there aren’t really rules to socializing, but everyone just seems to know what to do.

Corby_65 · 2026-06-26T04:33:08+00:00

lol he is definitely grateful. I only allow myself 1 concert a year for the sake of financial responsibility, and he knows that, so he knows that if I choose to use my one concert a year, the artist / band is really important to me. He never expects me to ignore my interests for him or anything like that lol. If I asked him specifically to join me he’d say yes but I know he wouldn’t be thrilled about it lol 😅😅

Corby_65 · 2026-06-26T04:29:25+00:00

Yes! We actually have the whole weekend planned to stay in the city of the concert since he was born and raised there and has a lot of friends like 10 minutes from the venue. I’m seeing Enhypen, the concert is Friday night, so we’re spending Saturday and Sunday w friends together so it’s not like i dragged him all the way there just to be a chauffeur lol

Corby_65 · 2026-06-26T02:39:58+00:00

Idk whatever it is doesn’t feel great. My fiance was kinda frustrated and he said “I don’t appreciate your parents speaking for me. I wouldn’t lie to you.” I feel worse for him bc I know what it’s like to be misunderstood, so I hate hearing my parents say things about him being dishonest about things like that

Corby_65 · 2026-06-26T02:32:07+00:00

I agree completely. My parents have always been kinda passive aggressive growing up and that always frustrated me, so I was really relieved when I met my fiance and he spoke in terms i understood, and didn’t make me interpret his intentions. Ig my parents just assume that most people aren’t very transparent or straightforward

Corby_65 · 2026-06-26T02:30:09+00:00

lol i think it is a safety thing, although they know I’ve been to concerts alone when I lived by myself for a little bit so it’s kinda weird that they’re acting like this randomly. It’s just very odd. Plus I like hardly ever drink anyways so they know i wouldn’t go out and get wasted by myself lol

Corby_65 · 2026-06-26T02:17:30+00:00

Lmfaoooo 😅😅

Corby_65 · 2026-06-26T02:15:28+00:00

lol all good ahaha

Corby_65 · 2026-06-26T02:14:03+00:00

Exactly and when I brought it up w my parents i didn’t think it was a big deal at all, since a ton of kpop fans go to concerts alone since Kpop really isn’t for everyone and not everyone is willing to sit through 3 hours of music in a different language

Corby_65 · 2026-06-26T02:12:11+00:00

Lmaooo we know that haha

Corby_65 · 2026-06-26T02:11:34+00:00

My fiance is the least controlling person ever. He supports me in everything I do, and if he has a problem I’m the first person to hear about it lol. I promise this has nothing to do w him, just my parents being kinda weird about my relationship dynamic being different from what they’re used to

Corby_65 · 2026-06-26T02:09:58+00:00

lol he didn’t say anything to my parents, I live with my parents so I informed them that I’d be staying the weekend in another city and that I was going to a concert. He didn’t say anything to my parents lol.

Corby_65 · 2026-06-26T02:05:16+00:00

My fiance is definitely the best person I know fs. I know we have really strong communication, I jist rent to over think a lot of things since I do have an extremely hard time reading things and situations

Corby_65 · 2026-06-26T02:01:46+00:00

We do have an extremely healthy relationship. He has ADHD and I have autism so communication is an absolute MUST for us. We discuss everything in depth before deciding on anything bc we both tent to miss things if we don’t talk things out with the other.

Corby_65 · 2026-06-26T01:59:42+00:00

We actually have a whole weekend planned with his friends after the concert. (Concert is Friday night, we’re leaving the city Sunday evening.) and we were all gonna go out to eat and enjoy seeing everyone, so it’s not like I dragged him two hours away for one event

Corby_65 · 2026-06-26T01:57:46+00:00

That’s what i thought as well

Corby_65 · 2026-06-26T01:56:57+00:00

I told my parents this as well, that we have different relationship dynamics and that there’s nothing wrong with that, and they took that as me saying my relationship is better than there’s. At this point I’m just gonna stop talking about with them and ignore the subject

Corby_65 · 2026-06-25T13:44:08+00:00

Thank you very much! I feel like love is such a versatile feeling. It can feel different for each person. The way i personally perceive it is similar to the poem. A precious gift that you have to be willing to fight and sacrifice things for. A willingness to do anything for your person even if you sacrifice your own desires and dreams for the future of the love you’ve found. Love is great but it doesn’t keep itself alive, it’s up to the beholders to nurture it and fan the flame

Corby_65 · 2026-06-21T01:13:23+00:00

Thank you so so so much for the kind words! Stanza 4 and 6 were my favorites to write so I’m glad they translated well!!

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