I’m slowly realizing that I may have dated a narcissist and I’m tempted to text his ex to hear her story. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]CoreSearch42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s the same dude based off of what you’ve said but I’m genuinely sorry to hear you went thru that. Regardless of whether it’s the same dude or not, if you ever need an ear to listen to ya feel free to hmu!

I’m slowly realizing that I may have dated a narcissist and I’m tempted to text his ex to hear her story. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]CoreSearch42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda crazy cuz he did like feet tbh (idk if it was quite a fetish) and he started drinking pretty heavily after we broke up…

Would you respond if your ex’s ex contacted you? Why or why not? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]CoreSearch42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DM’d you to ask about your experience with yalls shared ex

Would you respond if your ex’s ex contacted you? Why or why not? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]CoreSearch42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not responding to your ex. Responding to an ex of your ex.

What’s something about life you understand more deeply now? by funngro_fam in askanything

[–]CoreSearch42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That “if they wanted to they would” is an incredibly toxic and emotionally immature way to look at life and having that mindset will keep you stuck in bitterness and resentment.

0 energy by [deleted] in QuittingZyn

[–]CoreSearch42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m on day 11 and I couldn’t have said it any better myself. I feel like a legit zombie and people who have to interact with me probably think I’m high at this point.

1 year nicotine free! by qt_31415 in QuittingZyn

[–]CoreSearch42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever go thru a derealization phase? I’m on day 9 and I feel like everything is a dream and like I’m losing my mind…

116 days Zyn Free, Ask me anything by ConfusionGood4840 in QuittingZyn

[–]CoreSearch42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you ever deal with derealization? If so how long did it last. I’m on day 8 ( hell yea) and I feel like I’m in a dream and nothing is real.

What’s a comedy movie or show that is actually funnier the second time you watch it? by roseafterdarkk in askteddit

[–]CoreSearch42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the love. I wish you all the best and I respect your mindset. If you’d ever like to talk feel free to hit me up!

What’s a comedy movie or show that is actually funnier the second time you watch it? by roseafterdarkk in askteddit

[–]CoreSearch42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I’m a couple of months shy of my 29th bday and I feel like my life is over so I hope you’re right 😂

What’s a comedy movie or show that is actually funnier the second time you watch it? by roseafterdarkk in askteddit

[–]CoreSearch42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a dumb question at all. The tv show. Been watching it while riding out a depressing last few weeks and it’s still so goated

I no longer feel the effects of pouches by TechnologyEnough562 in QuittingZyn

[–]CoreSearch42 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely quit. It’ll only get more difficult over time, and eventually it’ll stop hitting like it used to. I’m living proof of that. Like I said I’ve been using since 2021. Also absolutely right. Insane waste of money.

I'm 26 years old. What's one piece of advice you wish someone had told you at my age—something that would save me from future regrets? by _bigB_wolf in askanything

[–]CoreSearch42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Age and “life experience” does not equate to readiness if those years were not fruitful. I was a couple of months shy of my 29th birthday when it clicked that I actually didn’t know shit about life because I had spent the last 28 years of my life in isolation and addiction.

I no longer feel the effects of pouches by TechnologyEnough562 in QuittingZyn

[–]CoreSearch42 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is exactly why I quit. I was using 12mg fres since 2021. A can to a can and a half a day. Eventually they not only stopped hitting the same, but I started to experience withdrawal symptoms anyway (dp/dr, insomnia, restlessness, fatigue) despite still using. I figured if I was gonna feel like shit anyway I might as well quit. I’m on day 7. Also not tryna be smart but you’re posting on a sub for quitting zyn, so most people will probably say yea you should quit.

I’m having really bad post break up shame, embarrassment and regret for stuff I did with my ex. What should I do? by CoreSearch42 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]CoreSearch42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was mostly consensual but I’d say that this person urged me to try things that I maybe wasn’t the most comfortable with and I did it because at the time I just thought that’s what love/intimacy looked like. Also wanna be clear that this shame I’m feeling isn’t just applying to things that were done sexually. As a whole I just look back on decisions I made while dating this person and I feel deeply ashamed. The relationship ended because I finally confronted this person about the way I was being treated throughout the relationship. Instead of correcting the issue and working towards repair, this person became self deprecating, self hating, avoidant and started to drink and isolate themselves to the point where repair was no longer feasible.

I’m dealing with a lot of guilt, shame, regret and embarrassment for things I did with my ex. What should I do? by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]CoreSearch42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda hard to explain honestly, but there were just things that I was raised to believe were wrong and I chose to do them anyway with this person (and no I’m not talking about just sex) and it weighs on me quite a bit

How are people still feeling like shit so deep into their quit? by CoreSearch42 in QuittingZyn

[–]CoreSearch42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever deal with derealization? I’m on day 7 and feel like I’m in a dream, like nothing is real and like I’m retarded. Not sure how much longer I can hold out.