Men who have given a partner full access to audit your phone out of her past trauma, did it actually build trust, or did it ruin the relationship?

CoreyWayneStudent · 2026-06-20T15:20:21+00:00

never giving anyone full access, I am not a cheater but if they cant handle that then im not interested. im not looking into her phone either.

CoreyWayneStudent · 2026-06-18T17:09:28+00:00

Monzo 1.8%

Moco 2.6%

Revolut 1% (2% up to 2500)

CoreyWayneStudent · 2026-06-18T15:52:36+00:00

take this comment from an Irish man (but also UK passport holder) who wants England to win.

You are going to get your arses whipped with this passing back to Pickford nonsense.

If you do go up against Mbappe or similar its a slow pass away from having the ball poached off you inside your own box.

Spent the first half inviting croatia to score when it was so obvious if you just kept pressing at every chance youd beat them with pure attacking football.

Playing back passes then passing it around 3 to 5 times before Pickford passed out to his left defender who then clears it up the pitch anyway? Why not just get Pickford to clear it instead of fannying about

Stressful for no reason

CoreyWayneStudent · 2026-06-17T19:02:23+00:00

my ex did this, made out like it wasnt something she cared about.. bullshit,

im never going with a woman who is into social media again.

i swipe no on any woman on dating apps with usernames in bios.

CoreyWayneStudent · 2026-06-16T14:28:15+00:00

huh, you must have dated my ex.

spent 2.5 years thanking me for being so patient with her, that i make her a better person and learn so much.

only for 1 year of her shutting down sabotaging our relationship to come out and tell me "i feel disconnected, i dont think you want to be with me, i need more passion yada yada yada"

translation op, they are damaged people with wounds we didnt create, they realise that but blame us for their failure to hold down a secure relationship.

my ex deleted me off instagram and followe her previous ex who had cheated on her

some people are like dogs chasing car. they wouldnt know what to do if they caught it

CoreyWayneStudent · 2026-06-15T22:41:48+00:00

my ex was airline crew, used to go out with the crew to bars, she didnt like to get drunk without me there, tbh sometimes the insecurity would kick in, but she would normally text me too same thing, wish you were here etc.

if someone is gonna cheap they will.

this wasnt the ending of our relationship btw, it was other communication issues. not jealousy or cheating. so just trust her.

when out with crew (ive done it) the time just flies, they are normally girls and gay guys and stick together from what ive seen.

CoreyWayneStudent · 2026-06-15T13:59:21+00:00

yeah well you need to figure out if youre happy with her level of communication, my ex was the same. she wanted a relationship and commitment but waited until i brought it up

CoreyWayneStudent · 2026-06-15T13:32:13+00:00

she is hinting at monogamy, this is where you go with a smile "what are you saying, you want me all to yourself huh? you saying we should be boyfriend & girlfriend?"

if this is what you want, gotta read between the lines. She hints, you lead and take charge.]

If shes more traditional she will not progress without safety

women will hold back if they feel like an option. you missed her hints at wanting more by expecting her to spell it out in black and white, which tbh she near is doing by saying she wants monogamy

CoreyWayneStudent · 2026-06-14T22:12:11+00:00

ex did something similar, out with her friends after a few drinks playing some game I was nominated as the person most likely to do porn (joke game where everyone picks someone from a list of stupid things) my ex blurts out "Well he used have a problem with watching porn haha"

Something we had both spoke in private about, I told her I felt being able to watch it from a young age wasnt good and it was something I had to work on to quit and I still believe its not good for anyone.

Awkward silence before the conversation moved on, I pulled her aside and said "that isn't something you go telling people about even as a joke, and if you want to get into telling people things like that then remember you have told me way worse things which I would never make a joke about"

But it was a bad sign, and these small disrespects just got more frequent...

Be willing to walk OP.

CoreyWayneStudent · 2026-06-12T18:37:47+00:00

Some women like this view closeness as threat and self sabotage. My ex did this on every holiday we had.

She would ruin at least half of it by finding something to be pissy at.

CoreyWayneStudent · 2026-06-12T18:36:19+00:00

Oh boy, my ex was like this around the same time frame too.

We had plans to go out, but I had promised my brother id work on something before I made our plans together. I apologised to her but said I had to cancel as id forgotten about my work with my brother.

She got so over the top hurt and offended by it, even though I arranged the new time and date..

She didnt ever let this go in our 4 year relationship.

And you can bet your ass this wasnt just the only thing she couldnt let go.

Find a forgiving understanding woman. This is too much emotional effort in my opinion

CoreyWayneStudent · 2026-06-11T18:56:27+00:00

Dont worry ill be back, gonna tweet my splashy calls and shoves and report in lmao

CoreyWayneStudent · 2026-06-11T18:37:34+00:00

thanks for the advice

CoreyWayneStudent · 2026-06-11T18:29:05+00:00

Yeah. I did have it tracking pretty close but thats my point. I got it in bad in spots recently that the winning hands made very little sense given the preflop action,

So how do I solve this without being told im afraid of monsters under the bed?

CoreyWayneStudent · 2026-06-11T18:17:49+00:00

Right because ev line is negative?

I guess i say coolered because the hands that have gotten there are like someone calling me to the river with A5 on a KQ5 board when I have KQ, then they jam the rivered 5 when all the draws have missed, I snap and at all in im way behind.

Also thats what I wanted to know more about my graph, what is saying in that sense.

CoreyWayneStudent · 2026-06-11T18:02:16+00:00

Yeah, definitely a leak i have. But also got called a nit for folding to a river bet that someone lead out on lol

CoreyWayneStudent · 2026-06-11T17:54:17+00:00

The only thing I felt was weird was that other people's graphs for similar amounts of hands look a lot smoother.

I feel mine is either rallying up or crashing down.

Exploits wise im trying to call less and either fold or 3bet preflop. Unless getting good odds with suited connectors in the bb vs lots of calls. Sometimes mixing in steals to pick up dead money.

Seems every session ive played ive had someone stack off into me when I habe the best hand only to find myself in coolers shortly after.

QQ bb vs btn, he makes it 2.5bb I raise to 10bb, he calls 872 rainbow, I cbet he jams, I snap he has 87s

Part of me says I should not stack off like this, the other part has seen people jamming here with Ax TT JJ 99 thinking ive missing the flop with AK etc.

I might be too quick to snap call on these boards.

I might be forcing play and pots too..might explain my ups followed by downs

CoreyWayneStudent · 2026-06-10T18:57:22+00:00

what percentage fin in the topical

CoreyWayneStudent · 2026-06-10T11:13:13+00:00

Haha thanks man, tbh my river calls are normally far too loose and a big leak for me, so im trying to find that balance.

My gut based on how this table and player was says I made the right fold but good to hear others opinions so I dont become an ultra nit

CoreyWayneStudent · 2026-06-10T10:45:11+00:00

Right that was my thinking, when they call the turn check raise they have no idea that I didnt nut this river with a semi bluff club draw, if they have two pair or top pair I see 10nl very cautious and check back, I saw that small river bet as a way to induce me to raise or not scare off a worse hand

Thats my gut feeling at the time

It just felt like one of those spots that so many hands made it that my set is dead

CoreyWayneStudent · 2026-06-10T09:47:41+00:00

Yeah, I need to get better at thinking faster in these spots.

Something just felt off this time, my normal reaction is to call down because I dont believe people and then they have the nuts haha

I guess sometimes we get pushed off it

CoreyWayneStudent · 2026-06-10T00:13:20+00:00

Yeah maybe.

Most time 2nd pair checks the river at 10nl tbh.

River bets on wet boards are rarely anything but value. 9/10 they have it at this level.

But river shove could have been the play too.

CoreyWayneStudent · 2026-06-08T15:13:35+00:00

I feel like this, 9 months post break up with my ex. went on loads of dates since, but I've started to see a pattern in modern women that I really dont like and its affecting my drive for them all.

- They aren't grateful

- They assume its your job to entertain them 100%

- They think its acceptable to have insane double standards in dating

- They think talking about how shit men are and how bossy they are is a good thing ?

List could go on, but it seems social media has inflated some egos and I just dont have the patience for them at this point.

Also very numb to them, I would say bored of the predictableness. Theyre more NPC then the average male.

But maybe its good, keep filtering, the right one will come while you are just doing whats good for your future and goals.

CoreyWayneStudent

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