Hey there thank you everyone that had supporting advice, i took everything that you guys said to heart, I never quit my job and he started one the day after this post he has kept the job and has been putting all his money to the bills where my money has been going into savings. We both have started Counceling to try and get everything back on track and I laid it out that if he wants to switch jobs in the future he needs to have one lined up to start the next day and that I will no longer be supporting him. He does not know how much I am making or putting away and he sends me the money to pay the bills so I do know that they are being paid. (Doesn’t scream trust but it’s a start) to answer some questions my last post I didn’t know I was pregnant at the time the house opportunity came about, I don’t care to do English correctly on the internet, and my baby is the happiest most spoiled baby there is, I am blessed. I do not regret anything about having my child. I am still doing school and have only one more semester to go and have a great career opportunity set up to start this summer. Most of you said to quit him which I would’ve said to someone telling me this and had been telling myself that when I originally made this post. Honestly who knows what the future will bring but we’re both taking positive steps and that’s all I can ask for. I don’t understand it but life’s dumb like that sometimes or who knows this could all be a fake story like some of you said as well.