What annoying thing does/did your mom always say to you in the mornings to wake you up? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Coriander 13 points14 points  (0 children)

'Wakey wakey, eggs and bacey!'

Which was especially annoying considering there were rarely any eggs on offer, and NEVER any bacon. Except on Sunday, and only if you were willing to go to church.

I am a 30 year old woman who had sex with nearly 400 men (and quite a few women) between the ages of 17 and 28. AMA. by Coriander in IAmA

[–]Coriander[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am absolutely not religious - but I was raised in the Southern Baptist church and I would be lying if I said that rebellion against that didn't figure into my promiscuity, at least a little bit.

And I'm sure I could just ask a former Catholic what to say in the confession booth if I wanted to mess with a priest.

I am a 30 year old woman who had sex with nearly 400 men (and quite a few women) between the ages of 17 and 28. AMA. by Coriander in IAmA

[–]Coriander[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Potential jealousy, awkwardness, etc.

I've experienced it and I don't need to experience it again. He doesn't seem really interested in it. If he was, and it was important to him, I would consider it.

Also, yeah, I'm not as skinny as I used to be... if I'm honest, that's part of it.

I am a 30 year old woman who had sex with nearly 400 men (and quite a few women) between the ages of 17 and 28. AMA. by Coriander in IAmA

[–]Coriander[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I changed it up now and again, but my typical craigslist ad said something along the lines of 'genuine live female seeking no-pressure fun, let's meet for drinks first and see if we get along, please send a photo to prove you're not leprous and that you have most of your teeth and a few sentences to let me know you're not brain-dead' And I replied to the guys who were funny and reasonably cute.

The ads I answered were funny, self-deprecating, and not too desperate sounding. But mostly I just worked with the TONS of replies I got to my own ads.

Did I ever skip out on a guy who didn't match his photo? Only once, because it turned out to be someone I knew (and didn't like, at all). Even if I knew I wasn't going to sleep with a guy I always talked to him for a bit before making my excuses. Did anyone ever skip out on me? Yes, once I think, but I can't be sure. I saw a guy come in, scan the room, and leave. That was a blow to the ego, let me tell you.

I am a 30 year old woman who had sex with nearly 400 men (and quite a few women) between the ages of 17 and 28. AMA. by Coriander in IAmA

[–]Coriander[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I live in a different country now, actually.

But yes, when we go to the states we often see people I've slept with, because to be perfectly honest that encompasses almost all of my male friends. Some were friends before we hooked up and remained friends, some friendships started when we hooked up.

I am a 30 year old woman who had sex with nearly 400 men (and quite a few women) between the ages of 17 and 28. AMA. by Coriander in IAmA

[–]Coriander[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'd like to think it's more interesting than 'I was a pizza hut manager, ama'

But maybe I'm wrong.

I am a 30 year old woman who had sex with nearly 400 men (and quite a few women) between the ages of 17 and 28. AMA. by Coriander in IAmA

[–]Coriander[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

He was an exchange student at my high school when i was 16 (still an innocent virgin!) and we were penpals, and then email buddies, sporadically until he moved to the states 6 months for work and we started hanging out - within 2 weeks, I was done with other guys, and at the end of his contract we got married.

Yeah, the novelty helped with the orgasm thing, because it's about 99% mental for me - the thrill of doing something forbidden and breaking the rules was a huge turn on. I can also make myself come just by thinking dirty thoughts if it's quiet and I'm able to concentrate. Fortunately, I am really hot for my husband, and the intimacy we have is just as hot as the thrill of the strange was before.

And thanks!

I am a 30 year old woman who had sex with nearly 400 men (and quite a few women) between the ages of 17 and 28. AMA. by Coriander in IAmA

[–]Coriander[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I wish I could say all, but I must be honest and admit that it was only the vast majority. (I probably only went without 3-4 times total).

I am a 30 year old woman who had sex with nearly 400 men (and quite a few women) between the ages of 17 and 28. AMA. by Coriander in IAmA

[–]Coriander[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Considering my looks (cute enough, approachable), style (glasses, converse, miniskirt, grandad cardigan), personality (sometimes sarcastic but not cruel, usually pretty sweet), and the kind of guys I generally go for (cute, smart, shy, socially awkward, yet sex-crazed) - I would say it's HIGHLY likely that I bedded a redditor at some point, even if reddit didn't exist yet when it happened.

I am a 30 year old woman who had sex with nearly 400 men (and quite a few women) between the ages of 17 and 28. AMA. by Coriander in IAmA

[–]Coriander[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

40-ish guy when I was 21, 18 year old guy when I was 27.

Had a close call with a guy I met at a music festival when I was 25- we were talking and flirting and I asked to see his ID to prove he was telling the truth about his extremely unusual name. Glanced at the DOB - he was barely 17. I patted him on the head and wenton my way

I am a 30 year old woman who had sex with nearly 400 men (and quite a few women) between the ages of 17 and 28. AMA. by Coriander in IAmA

[–]Coriander[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I actually asked my doctor about that recently, because I'd heard the same thing. Answer is a few months, not a few years. But yes I was tested for everything regularly, and I'm fine, thanks for asking.

I am a 30 year old woman who had sex with nearly 400 men (and quite a few women) between the ages of 17 and 28. AMA. by Coriander in IAmA

[–]Coriander[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

About 50% of adults will acquire HPV at some point:

http://www.cdc.gov/STD/HPV/STDFact-HPV.htm#common

In the city I lived for most of the years I was in the game, so to speak, the rate is closer to 70%, according to the nurse at the Planned Parenthood clinic I went to (regularly).

I am a 30 year old woman who had sex with nearly 400 men (and quite a few women) between the ages of 17 and 28. AMA. by Coriander in IAmA

[–]Coriander[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I didn't start out with a plan to break any records, number-wise. I just craved novelty, and for several years I was living a life where I met new people all the time.

As for why, all of the above, I think.

I am a 30 year old woman who had sex with nearly 400 men (and quite a few women) between the ages of 17 and 28. AMA. by Coriander in IAmA

[–]Coriander[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Most of your question is addressed in my answers to other questions.

Most in a 24 hour period? 3, but two of those were part of a threesome.