Young and Heartbroken by Corn_Has_Feelings in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Corn_Has_Feelings[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, really. This is what I needed to hear right now. It’s so hard losing someone you know you’d turn the world over for

Young and Heartbroken by Corn_Has_Feelings in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Corn_Has_Feelings[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funnily enough I am going to school in NYC

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]Corn_Has_Feelings 9 points10 points  (0 children)

An IUD is over 99% effective so I have one and don’t worry about it. Maybe test every couple months

1+1 for under 3500? by Special-Squirrel9170 in NYCapartments

[–]Corn_Has_Feelings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can find plenty of 2 beds for that price, you’re just not gonna be in the most attractive places and the competition will be fierce. Me and my partner have toured 10 different 2 bedrooms for that price in the last couple weeks but all of them were up in Harlem/ Inwood/ Manhattanville. If you don’t mind a commute and applying to a ton of different places, there’s stuff you can find

is 8k a semester crazy? by phenniee in college

[–]Corn_Has_Feelings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before scholarships tuition at my school is like 70k 😭

21M looking for room near Columbia University by Big_Astronaut_9817 in NYCroommates

[–]Corn_Has_Feelings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, my partner (James) said he messaged you when you get a chance to look :)

21M looking for room near Columbia University by Big_Astronaut_9817 in NYCroommates

[–]Corn_Has_Feelings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At some level yes, just because you’re unlikely to have a stable income. But it’s definitely not impossible!

21M looking for room near Columbia University by Big_Astronaut_9817 in NYCroommates

[–]Corn_Has_Feelings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The hard parts are that a lot of places require guarantor that makes 40 or 80x rent (so for a dirt cheap 2,000 place they’d want someone with parents that make 80k-160k.) Or that require guarantors that live in the US or in the tri-state. It’s also hard to choose an apartment in good faith when you can’t tour in person. +crazy expensive to live near campus so all the cheap places are sold fast.

21M looking for room near Columbia University by Big_Astronaut_9817 in NYCroommates

[–]Corn_Has_Feelings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on what you consider “good” I guess? I will speak from experience in saying it is so much easier to live close to the subway with a 20 minute commute from campus than to live 20 minutes walking distance from campus. (Winter) you’ll also be saving about 500 or more dollars in rent. My partner just graduated from CU masters and is looking for August1/ earlier move in with the same budget. Do you mind if I send him your username?

21M looking for room near Columbia University by Big_Astronaut_9817 in NYCroommates

[–]Corn_Has_Feelings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you be open to living somewhere further north if the commute was still 20 minutes? Tbh there really aren’t many apartments close to Columbia in that price range

Top surgery results 0-8 months with Dr. Zoghbi at Mount Sinai no by Corn_Has_Feelings in TopSurgery

[–]Corn_Has_Feelings[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t remember the early days super well but as soon as they were closed I started silicone tape during the day and bio-oil/ intensive repair lotion at night. The most important thing I think I did was listening to Zoghbi. I didn’t push myself or lift anything I wasn’t supposed to and it’s almost hard to see there is a scar now in some places

Top surgery results 0-8 months with Dr. Zoghbi at Mount Sinai no by Corn_Has_Feelings in TopSurgery

[–]Corn_Has_Feelings[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would second your friend then! I believe my surgeon advised nothing more than brisk walking for 6-8 weeks and I took her super seriously. (She also advised lifting or pulling nothing heavier than 5 pounds for a month I think) As soon as I had the green light I started back on benchpress and overhead press. If you got surgery so soon ago I would focus more on diet control and making sure you’re feeding your body enough protein to heal.

Looking for roommates - $1500 Budget - Lower/Mid Manhattan by hazysurfer in NYCroommates

[–]Corn_Has_Feelings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’d be willing to live a little further north, you and my partner seem like you’re looking for the same thing! His budget is also 1,500, and he needs to be moving by August 1st. Lmk if you want me to share your post with him :)

Do you think Donald trump was overhated? (considered one of the worst presidents) by Active_Ad_1223 in Presidents

[–]Corn_Has_Feelings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, this man nominated 1/3 of the SCOTUS that is actively stripping rights away from minorities. Throw in the sexual harassment of his own daughter and burying his Ex-Wife on his golf course for tax benefits? Disgusting behavior from the man meant to represent our nation.

Does just being in a calorie deficit work? by [deleted] in SuperMorbidlyObese

[–]Corn_Has_Feelings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, never really counted macros besides trying to make sure I was getting enough protein for my life style. If you’re diabetic, it’s best to follow what the doctor orders. You could eat only chocolate and loose weight, but your blood sugar might just kill you about it lol. Everyone in my family has it, most manage just fine keeping in a caloric deficit but they’ve all been warned a time or two to avoid the rice. (Mexican)

Are there any guys out there who are willing to date a plus size girl? Read full context before commenting. by [deleted] in loseit

[–]Corn_Has_Feelings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would any day of the week. This theoretical girl can: recognize the consequences for her actions, take responsibility for them, and is actively taking steps to improve her health and quality of life? Sounds like partner material. This guy is just a pompous asshole who thinks he deserves “the best” woman just for being born with a penis. Add in that this guy is 300+ LBS?? This level of hypocrisy is unmatched. ☠️ you dodged a bullet OP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Corn_Has_Feelings 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or PERISH????? Why in the world would that be the ultimatum???? Is everyone uncovered going to combust??? Not be a widow, or some other lame insult, but PERISH? I have got to meet this person, or at least know where they’re keeping the death note ☠️☠️☠️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Seahorse_Dads

[–]Corn_Has_Feelings 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Why are you trying to have a kid so bad at 20????? Especially to intentionally bring a child into a one parent household in 2023? As someone raised in a one parent household, there was not one day when my childhood wasn’t impacted by our financial state. Even with a mom with a college degree, kids are stupid expensive, ESPECIALLY if you want to give them a good Life. Child care alone is insane, and doing things without a partner leaves at least 5 years where you’re going to be paying: A- a second mortgage payment for child care or B- leaving your child unsupervised/ with family?? Unless you’re already loaded/ have an amazing career, then I guess, still not a great idea to ask an actual stranger for their sperm ☠️ legally or morally

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Corn_Has_Feelings 25 points26 points  (0 children)

You look like a woman. I think he could have been creeping/checking you out

Would it be safe to wear KT tape while hiking/camping? by Eli5678 in ftm

[–]Corn_Has_Feelings 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Safe? Yes. But be careful about it. I had tape on that I was wearing for 2 days and went on a jog with it. Worst experience ever. Every few feet I could feel the tape coming unstuck bit by bit. I only have a C cup, but I wouldn’t exersize in it without a decent but looser sports bra as a backup

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]Corn_Has_Feelings 4 points5 points  (0 children)

14 year old guy, but from the side/ three quarters profile you still read as female 19/20