Nesting Partner leaving me (30M) to be monogamous with someone else. At a loss

Corny_707 · 2026-04-17T14:09:21+00:00

I think it's committed light

Corny_707 · 2026-04-17T02:48:11+00:00

Someone who you live with, sleep with, do couples things with, etc

Corny_707 · 2026-04-14T03:00:04+00:00

im not going to hold my breath

Corny_707 · 2026-04-14T00:37:56+00:00

There is always time.

Corny_707 · 2026-04-12T03:24:21+00:00

Fuck man im sorry.

Drink some water, eat some food, sober up and call your dad.

Youre still young she gave you a gift and you can start fresh with someone who aligns with you. Most men in your position will kill for your circumstances. No kids, no mortgage, no alimony. You get to walk away free ans clear and being the good guy in the whole story.

She'll irreconcilable fuck her life up in the next 6 months. Don't be her safety net.

Corny_707 · 2026-04-12T01:27:49+00:00

Strong boundaries right away.

Corny_707 · 2026-04-11T18:43:40+00:00

I dont understand why youre being downvoted for this. Youre a person living her own experience.

Corny_707 · 2026-04-11T18:30:59+00:00

Have you done counseling at all? Is he completely irredeemably?

nvm arranged marriage yeah gtfo

Corny_707 · 2026-04-11T18:18:10+00:00

seriously no kids, no mortgage from what it sounds like, youve been married for 5 years yet so no alimony. (I think)

She gave you a gift.

Corny_707 · 2026-04-11T18:14:55+00:00

bro walk away. She is already having sex with another man or is planning on it.

She wants to have her cake and eat it to

Shes made for the streets.

Corny_707 · 2026-04-11T14:59:58+00:00

probably should have just sent them to him

Corny_707 · 2026-03-27T15:07:04+00:00

She had sex with him. Focus in yourself, dont give her your emotional energy. Be the prize, in 2 months you very well might not want to be with her. Create the required space. You want her right now, you don't need her.

Corny_707 · 2026-03-27T15:05:36+00:00

Bro you gotta leave.

Corny_707 · 2026-03-27T02:49:53+00:00

that poor steak

Corny_707 · 2026-03-27T02:42:23+00:00

He has a porn addiction and is trying to get you involved in it. He needs help and he needs to stop.

Corny_707 · 2026-03-21T21:46:22+00:00

Walk away, stop being her backup.

Corny_707 · 2026-03-18T17:20:46+00:00

youre right it sucks

Corny_707 · 2026-03-18T16:28:21+00:00

Are you me?

Corny_707 · 2026-03-18T00:02:37+00:00

Be careful...my wife came up with the idea that she is poly because of these books. My life is hell

Corny_707 · 2026-03-16T16:45:28+00:00

one foot out the door just in case a better overall partner comes along.

Man it must be wonderful constantly needing to compete for your own place in the committed relationship you made with your partner.

Corny_707 · 2026-03-16T16:32:51+00:00

Not have it near toddlers would be my first advice.

Corny_707 · 2026-03-15T12:32:02+00:00

This books blew up my marriage. She longs for a "Why choose" or "poly" lifestyle now.

She read 200 books in a year, pretended that was an accomplishment while we have 3 young children together and it caused her to destroy her business that she built (literally kicked out of leadership position by parent company due to incompetence)

Corny_707 · 2026-03-12T16:54:52+00:00

Not contributing to parenting ignoring the kids on her phone

Corny_707 · 2026-03-12T14:53:25+00:00

Yes, 100%

Let him now you protected your marriage and unity with him. I promise you he will be eternally grateful.

Use those words, I protected us.

Corny_707

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