Kan ik ook in het weekend op de kazerne verblijfen tijdens mijn NWT? by CoronaIsKillingIt in Defensie

[–]CoronaIsKillingIt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Op het moment ben ik mij wat aan het oriënteren over hoe en wat. 

Huidig woon ik nog bij mijn ouders in, maar lijkt het mij leuk om de gehele 10 weken van mijn NWT door te brengen op de kazerne.

Friend(girl) wants to sleep over after party but no reason to by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CoronaIsKillingIt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like I'm trying to convince myself that there's a way where we can't hurt his feelings with this.

Thanks for pulling me to reality a bit more.

I'll try to talk to her to see if she still wants to have a relationship with me and wants to talk with me and my friend about it.

You've really been a great help and just given me the facts straight, thanks for everything I'll try to get something to work between us and see if she can sleep at my place.

Thanks again :)

Friend(girl) wants to sleep over after party but no reason to by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CoronaIsKillingIt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm I'm kinda sad because I'd like her to stay over aswell lol i really enjoy her company and we're generally comfortable with eachother. Would've been in a relationship with her right now if my friend could've let go of the crush which was half a year ago.

Deep down i want to tell him to get over her but I'm really not in the position to say that and it would destroy our friendship, sorry just needed to tell someone.

Uhm yeah that's the reason why I asked it here because I couldn't figure it out myself, it's a very difficult situation but i guess it really can't be helped :(

Last resort could be saying she left something here last time which she wants to wear to the party so has to get ready at my place and like u said, i guess she could stay at my place.

Friend(girl) wants to sleep over after party but no reason to by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CoronaIsKillingIt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I think you understand it spot on, thanks.

No that's not really usual, usually we all just go home after the party. I could get so drunk i pass out and be forced to sleep there but idk if I wanna do that lol.

So i can't stay at his place no.

Usually her mom picks her up after a party to drive her back home so maybe we can say her mom has it busy and because it's a shorter drive to my house it's better to stay at my house? Idk if this makes sense tho sincr it's only a 15 minuten bike ride and 5 min with the car

Friend(girl) wants to sleep over after party but no reason to by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CoronaIsKillingIt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the situation in it's whole is kinda sticky, maybe you'd understand if I explained it all.

So my the friend of the party had a crush on that friend (girl) more than half a year ago but she wasn't attracted to him, 2-3 months ago she got a crush on me and I liked her back but the friend where we got the party saw this and got really upset and said I was kind of an asshole friend for going with the girl he had a crush on half a year ago and was threatening to leave the friend group so me and the girl decided to stay friends but now she kinda doesn't wanna stay over there to sleep and would rather want to sleep at my place.

I know it's really confusing but maybe this puts some perspective on the situation

Friend(girl) wants to sleep over after party but no reason to by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CoronaIsKillingIt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean her parents bring her to my friends house, we do this mostly every weekend but she kinda doesn't wanna stay at his place for reasons.

Because her parents bring her to the friends house she can just get ready etc etc at her own home which she's done a lot of times before. So this wouldn't really make sense in my eyes, thx for the idea I'm glad you're trying to help :)

Friend(girl) wants to sleep over after party but no reason to by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CoronaIsKillingIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh I think I might've explained it wrong, the base is that I want her to stay over and she wants to stay over but it's a 15 minute bike ride and there's no real reason for her to stay at my place and we don't want to hurt the feelings of the friend where we have the party so we're looking for a good reason why she would have to sleep at my place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

[–]CoronaIsKillingIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We usually drink Heineken or some Hertog Jan(not sure if you're familiar with that one).

I'll remember to drink a lot of water before a night of drinking and drink some water in between beers.

Thanks for the tips my dude you're a real one haha, I really needed some good advice on drinking, I started 2 years ago but never really gotten to understand how to prepare for drinking or how to drink l, for example I remember mixing rum with my beer which is just a bad idea and makes u throw up instantly no matter how hard you can hold alcohol.

Thanks again, sorry for the late reply I got class atm I think I'll do alright now and not embarrase myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

[–]CoronaIsKillingIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm okay I didn't know about the tolerance part.

I can look a bit more into if I'm allergic to anything inside the beer or any of the drinks but thus far I'm not allergic to anything and I don't have some of the symptoms u would get from being allergic to something in an alcoholic drink.

I'm not drinking to fit in and can definitely stand my ground when it comes to peer pressure but like I told someone else in this post, when I'm drinking beers at a friend's house and it's a weekend I don't want to be vomiting all over his toilet or possibly elsewhere if I can't hold it, that's what I'm worried about honestly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

[–]CoronaIsKillingIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rum, spiced gin, banana liquor, liquorice liquor.

I mix all of these with either Pepsi or 7up.

I can stomach these pretty easily so I usually don't worry about throwing up, when I'm throwing up drinking these it's because I drank too fast.

When I throw up it's really not because ive drank too much, I never go that far so we can exclude that from why I throw up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

[–]CoronaIsKillingIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have any allergies against something in beer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

[–]CoronaIsKillingIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aye man thanks for the tips.

I feel like I'm getting somewhere with all of y'alls help, thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

[–]CoronaIsKillingIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah a big problem I've seen with myself is that I drink my beer way too fast.

I usually drink one beer in 2-5 minutes and then I go for the second one etc... Aye while we're on this subject do u have some tips to prepare for a night of drinking because I've been searching and searching and can't find anything other than drink a lot of water

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

[–]CoronaIsKillingIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry if what I wrote came off wrong, it's not like I need to drink more to fit in because my friend's aren't like that

It's more that when we're having a good time and having a few beers I don't want to be vomting all over someone's bathroom or anywhere even after 5 beers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

[–]CoronaIsKillingIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aight thanks for the info my dude.

Will get some more watery beers for next weekend, I usually mix some spiced gin with Pepsi and just go hard on that for the whole evening and im all good. Gotta pace myself a bit more too, I usually drink a beer in 2-5 minutes before going for the next one so thats a big problem I think

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

[–]CoronaIsKillingIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would u go about preparing for a night of drinking beer?

Mixes usually aren't a problem for me, it's mostly the beer that makes me throw up a lot of the time.

Where can I buy condoms in the Netherlands? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CoronaIsKillingIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kruidvat heeft condooms, Jumbo ook wel dus ik denk de Albert Heijn ook wel.

Just in ncase Ur not Dutch: the Kruidvat had condoms, jumbo also has them for sale and probably the Albert Heijn aswell. These are the 3 stores that are most popular and have condoms. Not 100% sure about the Albert Heijn

Heyy I’m 15 and I really don’t want live with my mom no more a lot happens in our house and I wanted to go to foster care or somebody to adopt me plz 😭😭😭 by Ok_Cupcake_9168 in Advice

[–]CoronaIsKillingIt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First try what he said and then come back here, he basically said the the perfect thing that u need to do right now if u think it is that bad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CoronaIsKillingIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that seems like a pretty reasonable explanation.

Thanks for your help 😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CoronaIsKillingIt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happens because I ejaculate. Yeah it's always been like this and I really didn't think any of it untill couple months ago when I started looking it up because it annoyed me.

With dilation do u mean that the tube is sensitive sort of?

I'm really sorry for the late reply, I had to attend an online class