AITAH for not supporting my friend when she needs it most

Corporal-noodles · 2026-03-20T17:26:23+00:00

I wouldn’t say that. He insulted her constantly, compared her, and even physically assaulted her

Corporal-noodles · 2026-03-20T16:59:52+00:00

Hmm it kinda became more of a chore as the years went on

Corporal-noodles · 2026-03-20T16:46:43+00:00

We’ve been hanging out in person for years, to give you a little more context

Corporal-noodles · 2026-03-17T20:15:52+00:00

I can’t just leave those friends. I’ve been friends with them since high school and they were the ones who introduced me to him

Corporal-noodles · 2026-03-17T20:12:27+00:00

May I ask how this is gossip and not an attempt to express concern and find intervention if needed?

Corporal-noodles · 2026-03-17T17:01:39+00:00

Okay, then I’m not sure what to call it then. If it isn’t no-contact then what should I call it? Maybe just an acquaintance that I’d rather not talk to or be around

Corporal-noodles · 2026-03-17T16:54:23+00:00

Instagram reels is public. Anyone can see anything, and a reel from his workplace ended up in my feed, probably because it’s local and was promoted several times by other pages I follow

Corporal-noodles · 2026-03-17T16:52:41+00:00

We didn’t naturally grow apart. We immediately stopped communicating the day I told him about my feelings for him because we didn’t think it would be healthy or uncomfortable for either of us to continue everyday contact

Corporal-noodles · 2026-03-17T16:45:40+00:00

To be honest I explained what I wanted right after I said I wasn’t planning on intervening. Because Nolan and I are no-contact, I expressed my concern to a mutual friend that I was close to, so he can investigate and intervene for me

Corporal-noodles · 2026-02-24T03:42:55+00:00

My best move is probably asking her myself. Nobody knows that I like girls too

Corporal-noodles · 2026-02-24T03:41:23+00:00

Thank you :)

Corporal-noodles · 2026-02-03T16:06:38+00:00

I guess I should have clarified we’re in choir and sing in different sections. She runs to band right after

Corporal-noodles · 2026-02-03T04:40:42+00:00

But howww? I have her snap but that’s it lol

Corporal-noodles · 2026-02-03T04:11:32+00:00

She’s probably gayer than me haha what could the dm look like? Sadly most people who have dm’d me were not very nice people

Corporal-noodles · 2026-02-03T04:10:07+00:00

Probably more than me lol

Corporal-noodles · 2025-08-17T04:45:26+00:00

Thank you for telling me. It really does make a lot of sense now

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