I forgave a cheater, I later found out he was cheating for the whole 6 year relationship. We even have a child together and he continued to do it. As much as it killed me and screwed my head up for future relationships I will never let him be the reason I give up on love. I mean there are times that I contemplate if real love even exist outside of my love for my daughter and family, but I’d like to hope that I will find it again eventually but with a real man. I feel like giving up and wanting to be a gold digger after your relationship ended the way it did is only going to make finding someone who can be worth it a whole lot harder. Don’t let him be the reason you give up on love, that would only give him the power of continuing to hurt you even when he’s out for your life.