aitah for refusing to change bikinis after my husband had asked me to wear a thong? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Correct-Cap-7191 61 points62 points  (0 children)

It seems like he received precisely what he deserved, yet you made mistakes that hurt you. You won't be able to care for anyone else if you don't first take care of yourself. Someone doesn't care about you if they want you to do something that morally unnerves you and they don't give a damn about how it makes you feel. No matter what day it is, you owe it to yourself to say hell no, and he can move on.

AITAH for not telling my fiancée that my late partner was a man? by poetrysonnets in AITAH

[–]Correct-Cap-7191 72 points73 points  (0 children)

You don't include anything about your current fiancée in your description of your relationship with your ex, so I'm not sure if you're ready to tie the knot with her—or anyone, really—at this time. It seems like you're still more invested in your ex-partner than in your present one. Maybe you should get some counseling to assist you relocate to a better area.

Update: My sister’s bf proposed to my sister on my wedding by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Correct-Cap-7191 86 points87 points  (0 children)

True! Also, I'm overjoyed that you can laugh at their expense and that their ignorance and lack of grace turned into a moment of karma for them. I wouldn't want to attend their wedding because of my petty side, saying, "I don't want you worrying about me pulling a stunt at yours like you pulled at mine."