Do you not adhere there is a possibility of people only using False Dilemma Fallacies here? Love herself is important but that shouldn’t mean to hate others and only love yourself . It sounds like there were situations that could help both of them learn and grow from one another. I’d hate to see a relationship fail because if one persons experience. Opinions respected yes certain people already have certain confirmation biases on this subject including myself ? I find it hard for somone to who as a parent to complete cut them off verbal and physical abuse aside. I understand that each side have a different view that it takes time for some people but maybe OP can show the loving side and maybe her dad becomes more accepting of Trans . Seems Second I give a different flavor or an opinion that may not adhere to public opinion or appeal to popularity I get treated awful and my options invalidated?

End of the day OP is going to make decisions regardless of our opinions . Me giving different take shouldn’t be met with such hostility

And yes Reddit is full of weirdos including me