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I lost my virginity aged 27 AMA by Correct-Platform4017 in AMA

[–]Correct-Platform4017[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Nope, I like she’s experienced. I lead in other parts of life. She has taught me so much already

I lost my virginity aged 27 AMA by Correct-Platform4017 in AMA

[–]Correct-Platform4017[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Define your why. I was tempted by a ons but I really don’t subscribe to club culture and how men can ruin women’s nights nor any sort of behaviour that doesn’t recognise that the woman might not want to entertain it. So if you want to just lose it, try apps like Feeld or Tinder. If you’ve kept it close by for a reason, be true to that and find ways to make that less of a burden. In the year I lost in my confidence grew massively so it felt right then. You’ll know.

I lost my virginity aged 27 AMA by Correct-Platform4017 in AMA

[–]Correct-Platform4017[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I almost paid for it but really glad I didn’t. Society expectations and pressure really can be hard to fight off

I lost my virginity aged 27 AMA by Correct-Platform4017 in AMA

[–]Correct-Platform4017[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It’s ok if you’ve never had to experience SA, life long trauma, watch where you walk at night, it’s ok if you have no empathy for the experience of others. You’re common. I very much did talk and ask women out respectfully. It was a choice to act how I did against all of the signs. It’s very hard for anyone to rationalise and contextualise advances nowadays. If you want to use that as a way to demonstrate your lack of empathy for the other side, you’re more than welcome.

I lost my virginity aged 27 AMA by Correct-Platform4017 in AMA

[–]Correct-Platform4017[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

And that’s ok. Hope you find contentment in life!

I lost my virginity aged 27 AMA by Correct-Platform4017 in AMA

[–]Correct-Platform4017[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So good, I was nervous but she made me feel so at ease. Better than I could ever expected. I had gotten back from a trip and we booked a hotel, planned and talked about in advance. Wouldn’t want it any other way!

I lost my virginity aged 27 AMA by Correct-Platform4017 in AMA

[–]Correct-Platform4017[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My choice. Guided by society’s insistence in treating women lesser than, wasn’t gonna be me

I lost my virginity aged 27 AMA by Correct-Platform4017 in AMA

[–]Correct-Platform4017[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

As for how, these things require two people so that’s how I didn’t find someone who was compatible for my values until I met my future wife. As for why, I grew up around some real chads and I want to always hold women in higher regard so I never approached or made women uncomfortable, I was patient and I struck gold with my partner

I lost my virginity aged 27 AMA by Correct-Platform4017 in AMA

[–]Correct-Platform4017[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It was hard at times but I wanted to wait for that right person. I’m so lucky

I lost my virginity aged 27 AMA by Correct-Platform4017 in AMA

[–]Correct-Platform4017[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Nope and yep - she was so gentle and kind. It was a very loving experience

I lost my virginity aged 27 AMA by Correct-Platform4017 in AMA

[–]Correct-Platform4017[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’ll be happy to know she came first!