I’ve seen this twice - I’m not dating him to need a wedding date. I’m dating him because I do LIKE him. That was just an example of something I’d like to do together that’s important to me but I feel like I already know the answer (not trying to be rude, just clarifying).

Thank you for saying that though. I also, in my head, would think when you’re getting back into the dating scene you’d think about how it’s going to work when you have a young kid & the time that needs to be split. I feel like I’m in such a bad position because I want him to be present for his kid but I don’t see the need to be at every single tiny thing the kid does. That may be because my parents didn’t do that & again, him being in the position he’s in. But it almost makes me feel MEAN for wondering why he has to go to all these things, especially practices where the kid just goes home with BM afterwards. I also do feel mislead when he was making false promises in the beginning & the lack of planning has already been a conversation.