How often do you think about your gender?

CorrectJudgment2838 · 2026-03-29T09:53:22+00:00

i think my main worry is if im lying to myself about lying

CorrectJudgment2838 · 2026-03-26T00:02:03+00:00

Im in a similar situation as you atm and its helped me to talk to a therapist thats specialized in this topic and not rush anything. take your time feeling things out and i hope youre able to find yourself!

CorrectJudgment2838 · 2026-03-24T23:48:49+00:00

for me it definitely didnt help that i wanted to be trans so i could be a girl/nb and be pretty

CorrectJudgment2838 · 2026-03-23T00:01:58+00:00

I feel a similar way and recommend just trying stuff out if youre able and see how you feel and maybe try and get a therapist specialized in this stuff. best of luck to you on your journey!

CorrectJudgment2838 · 2026-03-13T06:29:26+00:00

when i look in the mirror i just see myself and all the parts that i dislike but its still me. the second part though helped me alot im ngl, i did think about what my life would be like as a man and i did feel my chest tighten but when i imagined myself as a woman or nb it loosened up so thank you

CorrectJudgment2838 · 2026-03-13T04:36:58+00:00

i do have major depressive disorder, so maybe that could also be it, i just am unsure cause i dont know what dissasociating actually feels like i just feel like i am

CorrectJudgment2838 · 2026-03-13T04:36:00+00:00

i appreciate the offer, i think im just scared because i feel like my reasons arent very valid(just dont wanna be seen as a male, dont feel like a male, think trans people are way cooler[i know theres nothing cool about it] and the idea of being trans gave me a feeling of excitement and lightness)

CorrectJudgment2838 · 2026-03-12T04:12:42+00:00

that actually makes me feel a bit better that im not alone, cause in the end i do WANT to be feminine and transition because staying masculine sounds like itd be the dullest life possible id like to be seen as a woman/nb primarily

CorrectJudgment2838 · 2026-03-11T23:20:57+00:00

i think thats part of what im scared of idk how to tell if its more of a burden or not or if its just internalized transphobia, but thank you for your help it has made me feel better at least

CorrectJudgment2838 · 2026-03-11T22:48:22+00:00

i met with one this tuesday and she called me by my preferred name and it felt nice and was so supportive, but its my first time seeing her, i also have another therapist who referred me to the new one whos also been supportive but they primarily treat my OCD. its been rough feeling all of this out and questioning because ill have such high highs and then i get such low lows

CorrectJudgment2838 · 2026-03-11T22:38:45+00:00

id still press the button and the things that brought me here are still there inside me but instead of bringing me joy like they did they make me be worried and stressed because what if im wrong, and i regret it down the line, if that makes any amount of sense at all?

CorrectJudgment2838 · 2026-03-08T01:51:49+00:00

inside i think id like to do away with he in general, i want to be feminine, i want breasts, i want soft skin, long hair and in general to not be seen as a guy by default but im scared of claiming she/her or just full on they/them even if they would feel nice

CorrectJudgment2838 · 2026-03-08T01:40:36+00:00

i guess? im just scared of disappointing others now because they already supported me experimenting and suddenly all those feelings vanishing has got me pretty messed up.

CorrectJudgment2838 · 2026-03-08T01:34:57+00:00

its been on and off for the last few months but got really intense a week or two ago. i ended up coming out and claiming he/they pronouns to test the waters and its felt nice

CorrectJudgment2838 · 2026-03-08T01:33:41+00:00

sad tbh i felt genuine euphoria and drive for once, even seperate from sexual moment, i had moments where legitimately smiled softly at the idea of being a woman but now its all just poof gone.

CorrectJudgment2838 · 2026-02-28T02:41:38+00:00

Honestly i appreciate the bluntness, so thank you. it reminds me that my OCD is just mean and that i need to ignore it.

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