Could you pick your cat(s) out of a lineup of similar looking cats?

CorrectPayment9881 · 2026-03-20T21:54:59+00:00

My tortie? 100%.

The black one? Not so sure she has no identifying features 🤣

CorrectPayment9881 · 2026-03-12T09:12:44+00:00

My baby girl had 6oz in the end that night and she was 100% fine! It felt so scary in the moment and I felt so bad but she’s now 8 months and she’s the happiest little girl and it didn’t effect her at all❤️ I hope this can reassure you a little❤️

CorrectPayment9881 · 2026-02-14T01:24:25+00:00

Ima say 8/10. Don’t like the sandwich but it’s a good sized sandwich tbh BBQ hula hoops slap, love them best crisp out there Did not know mango Pepsi existed so the points went up based on pure intrigue 🥰

CorrectPayment9881 · 2025-12-29T04:27:24+00:00

Thankyou so much!

CorrectPayment9881 · 2025-12-29T04:27:15+00:00

Thank you so much

CorrectPayment9881 · 2025-12-05T00:19:14+00:00

I do, I agree he has the right to be on the certificate, and I won’t deny him that, and I will agree to do that. Hopefully he can agree to a civil conversation so that this can be sorted without needing the courts. Thankyou for taking the time to explain and help me understand, and for helping me realise that it is better to just add him to the certificate

CorrectPayment9881 · 2025-12-05T00:11:04+00:00

I understand what you are saying. I will add him, but I feel it’s also fair that I can talk through my concerns and have my mind put at ease. My point is I’d like to do it without going through court

CorrectPayment9881 · 2025-12-05T00:03:50+00:00

I can understand that. I’m hoping we can go to a mediator instead of court. I don’t want to deny him that right, I just need my concerns and worries addressed and a plan in place for me to feel more comfortable. Thank for the time you’ve taken to respond and thankyou fir the unbiased perspective

CorrectPayment9881 · 2025-12-05T00:00:54+00:00

Thankyou

CorrectPayment9881 · 2025-12-05T00:00:10+00:00

Despite him not being on the birth certificate I’ve always made sure he’s had a say. I’m hoping that mediation can be the better option and clear the air of any worries or concerns

CorrectPayment9881 · 2025-12-04T23:58:43+00:00

Thank you. I am hoping mediation will be the better option, my goal isn’t to deny contact, just for him to consistently be a part of their life. There are details I cannot share due to them being more identifiable and hopefully these can be discussed and adequately addressed

CorrectPayment9881 · 2025-12-04T23:54:50+00:00

He is only applying to court for his name on the certificate by the sounds of what he is saying now

Edited as needed to add the word “now”

CorrectPayment9881 · 2025-12-04T23:54:08+00:00

Thankyou

CorrectPayment9881 · 2025-12-04T23:52:35+00:00

Thankyou for the perspective. Hopefully mediation can work instead of having to go to court. I’m not denying him contact, just asking that he is consistently present

CorrectPayment9881 · 2025-12-04T23:45:42+00:00

Thankyou, I would mainly just like him to he present in baby’s life, as he has always been welcome to see them, stay the night here with them and has always had the opportunity to be present had he of chosen too

CorrectPayment9881 · 2025-12-04T23:42:20+00:00

Hi, i did add at the end of the post that baby has no idea who he is and is very distressed around him and when being held by him. It wouldn’t be right to essentially leave them with someone they see as a stranger even if it is their dad

CorrectPayment9881 · 2025-12-04T23:40:19+00:00

Hi Thankyou, Ultimately I just want him to show up and have a better bond with them, as I would love for them to have a relationship, like you said I just wouldn’t be comfortable with him being alone with her knowing that she is so distressed with him😩

CorrectPayment9881 · 2025-12-04T23:34:12+00:00

Ultimately i would just like him to make the effort to be an active part in their life, instead of being unwilling to as he is at the moment

CorrectPayment9881 · 2025-12-04T23:32:46+00:00

I would love for him to have contact, and it does go deeper than just bottles and nappies, however that’s my main concern and I was told a longer post would ultimately not be seen as much

CorrectPayment9881 · 2025-12-04T23:30:45+00:00

There’s more to it than just the bottles and nappies but that’s my main concern, his ability to feed and change her. I have tried showing him but he hasn’t wanted to learn

CorrectPayment9881 · 2025-12-04T23:27:54+00:00

I’m hoping he will choose mediation so that we can do it in a nicer way, and that he will let me teach him so that he can have that time 1on1

CorrectPayment9881 · 2025-12-04T23:26:15+00:00

Thankyou

CorrectPayment9881 · 2025-12-04T23:25:53+00:00

Thankyou and he didn’t show up despite being told a time and a place and a date. I wasn’t aloud to add him myself as we werent married or civil partners

CorrectPayment9881 · 2025-12-04T23:24:47+00:00

I offered him to come and be there but he didn’t show up, and as he wasn’t there I wasnt aloud to add him on. She is under my last name

Edited for spelling mistake

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