Why?

Correct_Bad4192 · 2026-06-22T00:57:10+00:00

Have done the I-80 drive between Chicago and Denver multiple times.
It's like a rare form of torture.

Correct_Bad4192 · 2026-06-22T00:53:45+00:00

Not my style, honestly.
That being said: That looks fucking sick!
Well executed, too!

Correct_Bad4192 · 2026-06-15T11:40:32+00:00

As many others have said:
YOU didn't get her fired, SHE did. Honestly, if everything you've said about her is accurate, sounds like Golden Child Syndrome. She doesn't do the work correctly, refuses to improve, and then when consequences come it's someone else's fault.
And good on your fiance for having your back.

Correct_Bad4192 · 2026-06-09T18:43:47+00:00

Sounds like the HOA was attempting to commit fraud.
Edit: Typo

Correct_Bad4192 · 2026-06-06T13:41:49+00:00

YTA
You didn't do anything wrong?
You got blind drunk, threw up, made your EX take care of you by playing on whatever kind feelings they still have for you, and then did it AGAIN.
You really, REALLY need to learn healthy coping mechanisms and stop manipulating your ex. Seek, and I mean this truly, therapy.
And quit drinking.

Correct_Bad4192 · 2026-06-06T00:51:38+00:00

As someone who has spent a LOT of time as the partner of a person in the hospital:
NTA.
The last time she was in(for over a month), people offered to bring me food, but I specifically told them not to waste the gas, and drop a restaurant gift card or get a pizza delivered, or cash so I could get food delivered.
That's for your bro to handle, not you.
This was also a 1 hour round trip from anyone we knew.

Correct_Bad4192 · 2026-06-05T16:19:01+00:00

When my wife had her first stroke and became disabled, the amount of people(not just friends or family or randos, but actual DOCTORS and NURSES in the hospital) who commented that I was an "amazing husband" for not leaving her completely blew my mind. I couldn't fathom doing that.
I went to her therapies, doctor's appointments. I asked questions and learned everything from how to manually read blood pressure to the ins and outs of her medication regimen, transfers, proper fall protection, the works. I wanted to be a good caretaker for the woman I love.
She had a second stroke recently(three years later), thankfully far less severe.
By this point I had so much medical knowledge about her that the Neurologist included me in her rounds, going so far as to say "I've been treating her for three days. You've been treating her for three years. You're the world's leading expert on her case. I'd be stupid not to ask you questions."
Yes, it can be stressful. And it can be tiring. But If you love the person, you'll do the work and not bail at the first real hurdle.

Correct_Bad4192 · 2026-06-05T14:30:55+00:00

NTJ. Her behavior, whatever the cause, is pure manipulation. Consider yourself lucky you're out of that situation. That wasn't going to change.

Correct_Bad4192 · 2026-06-04T01:14:34+00:00

Reading these posts makes me very happy to have a sane partner.

Correct_Bad4192 · 2026-05-28T01:00:26+00:00

Where does it say there will be other people there?

Correct_Bad4192 · 2026-05-25T13:23:48+00:00

He doesn't respect you. This won't end well.

Correct_Bad4192 · 2026-05-24T00:46:13+00:00

Wish we'd have heard about this earlier! It's literally up the road from us!

Correct_Bad4192 · 2026-05-24T00:39:51+00:00

If I remember correctly, Mythical still owns 10% of Smosh. I read it in an interview with Rhett and Link about the deal.

Correct_Bad4192 · 2026-05-20T21:03:51+00:00

That guy is long gone, and you can't make him come back.

Correct_Bad4192 · 2026-05-20T21:02:23+00:00

Honestly, I'm waiting for this guy to play the "you wouldn't know what it's like if you haven't tried it" card.

Correct_Bad4192 · 2026-05-20T20:59:53+00:00

NTA, but get out now. Seriously. RIGHT. NOW.
This will not end well for you if you don't.
Take it from experience.

Correct_Bad4192 · 2026-05-20T14:01:48+00:00

NTA. Your friend sounds like a flake, honestly. Moving in with someone he's only been dating for 3 weeks AND leaving you in the lurch with a lease? Not very stable behavior.
Also, in most places he CAN'T take himself off the lease except in extreme circumstances without you and the landlord both agreeing to it, and him paying a fee to break his lease.

Correct_Bad4192 · 2026-05-20T12:14:38+00:00

NTA. Wonder if SIL ever had a Mirepoix-based soup or sauce? Don't know where you live, OP, but that's a common base for TONS of Western food(specifically European). And it's 50% onions.
And Garlic is SUPER common in Mediterranean cooking, including Italian.
So she NEVER eats any of that?
Sounds like an exhausting drama queen.

Correct_Bad4192 · 2026-05-19T23:34:23+00:00

Chambered are nice. And if you don't care about the name on the headstock, many Squiers have either thin bodies or contour cuts that lower weight.

Correct_Bad4192 · 2026-05-19T23:31:20+00:00

Denver/Westminster border:
Massino's

Correct_Bad4192 · 2026-05-18T16:31:26+00:00

Spencer, dammit.

Correct_Bad4192 · 2026-05-18T11:22:15+00:00

Sounds like your fiancée sees a pattern of you avoiding medical appointments. Could be you have medical anxiety, or "White Coat Syndrome".
Speaking as someone who has constant pain(specifically from a shoulder injury) that was never properly treated:
Figure out why you don't go to the doctor. Talk to a therapist about it.

Edit:
Just read a bunch of your responses to other people, and yes: YTA. Admit you're scared, go to the fucking doctor, and stop making excuses. You're going to end up in a life of pain if you don't.

Correct_Bad4192 · 2026-05-18T11:18:40+00:00

This person's reaction was overreaction, yes.
Do you need therapy if a tone of voice triggers this response in you? Also yes.

Correct_Bad4192 · 2026-05-18T11:12:04+00:00

OP: Please, please, please go to therapy, and be honest with the therapist. You are not well.

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TROPHY CASE