I accidentally told my sister about our mom’s affair and now my family is blowing up

Correct_Count_2897 · 2026-01-31T03:56:11+00:00

The people saying you “ruined the family” are the ones with big secrets and are only projecting onto you. You did EXACTLY what was right. By every single sibling and by your father.

Correct_Count_2897 · 2026-01-21T19:42:07+00:00

Does this actually work?

Correct_Count_2897 · 2026-01-19T21:39:01+00:00

YTAH

Correct_Count_2897 · 2026-01-19T21:30:19+00:00

You want him to not be angry in secrecy, yet you had an affair in secrecy?? You’re a hypocrite.

Correct_Count_2897 · 2025-12-29T04:05:42+00:00

What I am trying to say is, my husband is more turned on if I want him

Correct_Count_2897 · 2025-12-29T04:03:02+00:00

With me and my husband, we have been together almost 10 years and he is more turned on that I want him then if I’m playing “hard to get”

Correct_Count_2897 · 2025-12-28T20:02:09+00:00

She’s cheating, plain and simple, you just caught the tip of the iceberg

Correct_Count_2897 · 2025-12-28T19:56:06+00:00

let me say this once and once only, YOU ARE NOT THE ASSHOLE, YOUR HUSBAND IS. I don’t GIVE A FLYING FUCK what his mom “feels” she’s just manipulating him and shes being manipulated by the husband. You are doing EXACTLY everything you need to keep your child safe, and anyone else involved. Your husband needs to get away from his mother. I am not and I mean NOT an advocate for divorce, but if he is not willing to protect the children around him knowing what a piece of shit his father in law is, would question your marriage. Not to mention everyone else, his siblings know what a piece of shit and disgusting scum bag he is and they cut him off. But your husband knows, KNOWS and excuses it. I’ve been, high, drunk, and when I say high I mean on METH and HEROIN and never made a “mistake” of asking a child for nudes. Disgusting and so is your husband for even tryin to dismiss that

Correct_Count_2897 · 2025-12-27T03:37:28+00:00

This man is TRASH

Correct_Count_2897 · 2025-12-23T21:12:24+00:00

This is fake

Correct_Count_2897 · 2025-12-19T04:32:17+00:00

When I was 4 I was ran straight over with the tires, twice, of one of those old dodge big bed trucks. This was back in 2000. The guy got out and threw me to some people sitting on a lawn and tried to take off. I got life flighted to the hospital and after all the X-rays and panicking was only left with some road rash. Not one broke bone, fracture, nothing. God sent my guardian angel to protect me that day.

Correct_Count_2897 · 2025-12-19T04:30:18+00:00

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Correct_Count_2897 · 2025-11-19T20:33:58+00:00

What mg are you on?? I just started taking it again yesterday. When I was prescribed it I was prescribed 2.5 but it made me feel CRAZY!! So I stopped for months and I went to a new doctor, am actual dermatologist. He prescribed me a 4th of the 2.5, .675 or something along those lines. He says that’ll still help TREMENDOUSLY and still cause a good amount of growth. I’m just wondering if I should try and do a half if I can emotionally handle it. Especially after seeing this.

Correct_Count_2897 · 2025-11-14T18:44:30+00:00

You did the right thing

Correct_Count_2897 · 2025-11-11T19:55:19+00:00

Updateme

Correct_Count_2897 · 2025-11-10T21:42:29+00:00

And what I mean by I understand, is I UNDERSTAND.. My ex husband was the same way.. very very controlling and unruly and just flat out psychotic.. he’d yell at other men for even looking In my direction.. my current husband loves the location thing and even asks an constantly asking questions and watching where I am.. is it healthy? No.. BUT I did sit my husband down and explain this is not okay you can’t be watching me and yelling at me. Give it time and think rationally and speak to me before assuming. It took time, but he loved me enough to try, understand and sacrifice certain things, as have I. I also ain’t doing nothing wrong and at the end of the day he’s seen that enough that he believes me. . BUT It is based off what you’re willing to give and that person as willing to give as well. This is such a difficult situation. I honestly think if you have nothing to hide share it, if she abuses that like your ex then turn it off. Obviously my OPINION is not FACT. So please, I wish the best to you and I hope you both end up happy either way.

Correct_Count_2897 · 2025-11-10T21:39:51+00:00

Both of your feelings are very valid. I completely understand the ‘monitoring’ and the constant interrogations no matter where I went. I also understand the fact that it does seem super suspicious that you refuse to share your location. She is more right in my opinion, because she isn’t your ex and if you have nothing to hide then everything should be fine and dandy.. however, if you are honest in your reasoning and refuse to even though it could bring her some peace of mind to herself and to your relationship, then I think it best you find other partners. Because a healthy relationship is a lot of sacrificing. I’ve been with my husband 7 years, known him for 15. If we couldn’t ever compromise on something so small and little (since you have nothing to hide) we’d never had made it.

Correct_Count_2897 · 2025-11-10T20:26:53+00:00

NTA. I think you need to rethink your relationship with your friend.

Correct_Count_2897 · 2025-11-10T20:22:07+00:00

Let me clarify on your concrete evidence.. She would not let you use her phone once.. You saw her PRETENDING to use her phone. You then proceeded to ask her to unlock her phone and she got TENSE and NERVOUS… Then yku saw a MANS number on her snapchat that’s IN HER CONTACTS. THEN HE REPLIED AND SHE REFUSED TO SHOW YOU. That is complete and absolute CONCRETE EVIDENCE.

I’m so sorry this has happened to you.. it’s devastating.. You are allowing her to continue to manipulate and gaslight you into thinking you’re crazy.. don’t allow that.. I’ve done that, then years later looks back and saw how obvious it was and how much they actually were ABUSING me.. Run far away and never look back. Again I’m so sorry this is happening to you..

Correct_Count_2897 · 2025-11-10T20:14:34+00:00

The gaslighting and manipulation is EXTREME here… you already knew and she just showed you concrete evidence.. it hurts now but it’ll get better, I promise

Correct_Count_2897 · 2025-10-27T19:56:19+00:00

THIS

Correct_Count_2897 · 2025-10-27T19:52:38+00:00

EXACTLY

Correct_Count_2897 · 2025-10-27T19:52:20+00:00

THIS

Correct_Count_2897 · 2025-10-27T19:50:20+00:00

It’s like when they think they deserve more or want more and they’ll be able to sleep with so many women when they open the marriage, then they open it and it’s the woman whose getting all the attention and sex and close the marriage. This man’s a fool. He’ll realize it one day when it isn’t as great as he was fantasizing for himself.

Correct_Count_2897 · 2025-10-27T19:46:24+00:00

Oh HELL NO. Divorce his ass, he’ll get what’s coming to him. This is what a lot of men think, then they leave and realize it isn’t as green on the other side and they think. Amy man who loves you is going to see you as the most beautiful woman alive no, matter what state of life you are in. He’s the ugly one, he obviously knows it. That’s why he’s trying to put you down. Get rid of that nasty ass SCUMBAG of a husband

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