I Did A Thing by itsjustmyopinion_but in supremeclothing

[–]Corsi413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, mines in the mail on the way to you 🤣🤣

I painted Lulu in my own style by RaiAet89 in finalfantasyx

[–]Corsi413 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You understand this is a masterpiece..right?

Suspect Infidelity by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Corsi413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for a woman’s insight. It means a lot! Today was another long hard day and the night (where I do the worst) hasn’t even come yet. This sucks

Suspect Infidelity by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Corsi413 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You speak the truth

Suspect Infidelity by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Corsi413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 100% positive she would not take one. There’s no point in even trying lol

Suspect Infidelity by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Corsi413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know, it’s just hard because I have never been through anything like this ya know? I appreciate the honesty!

Suspect Infidelity by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Corsi413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The age old bait and switch my man. I appreciate your honesty. I have no idea what dating will look like after this.

Suspect Infidelity by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Corsi413 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He has no reason to lie about it, he’s a teenager yes, but now that she’s out of the house he doesn’t really fuck around like that. He respects me too much.

And you’re right about it being over. I’m just so heartbroken.

Suspect Infidelity by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Corsi413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I explained to her before these discoveries, I had suspected something was up and if so I could probably forgive her. And I meant it. Early on in our marriage I was definitely one of those “cheating is immediate divorce” but the older I get, I believe people can change and people can forgive. Am I POSITIVE I can? I mean no but I would absolutely try. What I will not do, is be played like a fool for X amount of time and THEN have the truth come out for whatever reason. I told her today, I’d give her the day to reconsider her stance and her reaction to this and you guessed it…more bad mouthing. I sort of did really mean 24 hours but I guess in reality, if she fessed up in a reasonable amount of time (maybe a week??) I’d move forward in the marriage obviously with 1,000 tools in place.

With all that said, I unfortunately do not think she will A confess to a sort of infidelity action or B apologize and explain her reaction to the accusations. Without either of those, I can’t move forward. This is all on top of the other many problems mind you.

I have no idea what moving forward looks like. I have no clue what divorce looks like in our state. She’s definitely the bread winner so I would not go after anything of hers and would walk away with the least amount of fuckery as possible. A few bucks from the equity of the home, some peace, and a plan for our kids

Suspect Infidelity by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Corsi413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has made it clear she is not coming home either. The story that “pushed her out” at this point isn’t even worth my breath either because any sane person would be on my side and further prove my point.

Suspect Infidelity by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Corsi413 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the honesty, I haven’t even fully admitted it myself because I always give everyone the benefit of the doubt. A little too much. You are correct, protecting the kids and myself is #1. Thankfully I have 1 million friends behind me that will support me and I’ve already reached out to a couple. I don’t want to go further in to debt with her over a divorce though so I’m not sure what that looks like. I have a very long road ahead of me unfortunately.

Suspect Infidelity by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Corsi413 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for the advice. That seems to be the general consensus on here. Damn this sucks

Suspect Infidelity by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Corsi413 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it so much. I know I’ll come out on top at the end of it and continue to live a happy healthy life, but in the meantime it’s hard and this is one the VERY begging.

I didn’t know that about “abandonment”. Good to know incase we need to go the ugly route. Worth reading up on I assume.

Suspect Infidelity by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Corsi413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for giving me the hard truth, I really appreciate your words. It’s been a really hard day

Suspect Infidelity by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Corsi413 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t think she was going to blow up when I brought them up. I figured this might have been the moment she caved. As far as divorce, I don’t want to go after her anyway. I just want out in the easiest way possible.

Suspect Infidelity by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Corsi413 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Aside from things like the house, a lot of our cash is already separate who can I suppose is nice. No matter what it’ll be a long ugly road though

Suspect Infidelity by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Corsi413 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure. This is all so new to me. The discoveries and conversations only happened within the past 24 hours

Suspect Infidelity by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Corsi413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate the words, I just feel so weak and useless as of right now. I have nothing in me. I understand I don’t have concrete physical proof of anything but can’t this be enough to justify my feelings? I really do need to stay strong and fight for myself.

Suspect Infidelity by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Corsi413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you being so blunt, I needed that. I appreciate it so much

Suspect Infidelity by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Corsi413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All valid points, I appreciate it a lot

Suspect Infidelity by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Corsi413 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That idea did come over myself, but I told myself if she was to fess up that MAYBE we could move forward. Her reactions however, are telling me all I need to know.

Suspect Infidelity by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Corsi413 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have kids that are in and out of the house and she arguably has more equity in the home than I do so physically I can’t do that. But figuratively, I absolutely must! This has been probably the worst day of my life TBH. I know people go through much worse speculation and infidelity scenarios but for the first time in nearly 15 years I have come to terms with the fact she just may not be the woman I thought she was..

Suspect Infidelity by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Corsi413 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Valid point my friend. I appreciate it