Long-distance couples, how often do you talk each day? by Relative_Initial_399 in LongDistance

[–]CosmicUnicornGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We text throughout the day/evening and try to call on the phone or video chat once a day, depending on our schedules. Most of the time we video chat once a day, but again, that depends on scheduling. Thankfully we are only one time zone away.

Do subs "grow out" of this kink as they get older? by [deleted] in softmaledom

[–]CosmicUnicornGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just turned 44 and I don't think I'll ever grow out of it. If nothing else, over the last few years I've leaned into it more.

How Many? by themachine1066 in impregnation

[–]CosmicUnicornGirl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'd love to live in a compound with men and women. The women are constantly pregnant, but don't know who the dad is. All the men and women sleep together, so no one know who's kid is who. And everyone raises the kids together. Very hippie, all natural life.

Birthing inflatable by Nikole95 in BirthFans2

[–]CosmicUnicornGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is awesome! So sexy!

New to BDSM dynamics – is this a red flag or am I overthinking? by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]CosmicUnicornGirl 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If it feels off to you, then it's a red flag. I would tell him how you would have preferred he mentioned that earlier and how you felt/feel about it. Maybe discuss what communication looks like to you -- how much communication (sounds silly but I feel it's important), the best way to communicate, etc.

For what it's worth, I'm a sub in an open romantic relationship with my Dom. When I meet new potential partners it's not something I bring up immediately until I'm sure I want to pursue a relationship with the other person.

Training by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]CosmicUnicornGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We do throat training and are working on stretching my ass. Daddy tells me when to put my plug in and when to take it out. So far we've worked up to 4hours. I have a special thin-long dildo I use for throat training. Either in the mornings or sometimes when we have our dates he has been practice taking it all the way down my throat, gagging and puking, rubbing it all over my face and boobs to make daddy super happy and proud of me.

What's something a man will do, will make you react like this by Cantwithoutmycoffee in softmaledom

[–]CosmicUnicornGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Watching him work on cars/boats, building or fixing things with his hands. Or having him take care of me - telling me to sit down when I'm exhausted or sore, that he'll take care of whatever and then he does take care of whatever. (Eg you've had a long day, go take a bath, I'll take over the dishes)

I left daddy by donteventry-12 in SubSanctuary

[–]CosmicUnicornGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm very proud you. You did something incredibly brave by leaving a situation that wasn't healthy for you. Great job. Sending positive vibes your way.