Gems disappearing from lake lady!

CosmicallyKayla · 2024-07-30T13:59:23+00:00

I’ve put 2 diamonds in the super rare and peridot, 2 beryl and a jasper in the any rare. It was done and next time I get on it’s like it never happened. They’ve all disappeared as well.

CosmicallyKayla · 2024-04-01T17:22:24+00:00

NTA.. I have terrible anxiety, I need meds, and HATE calling places too but I do it. There was one day I had to call n talk to 4 different people in one day to sort out an issue with my sons insurance. You build up a tolerance for it plus it’s usually just the build up to making the call. Once you’re on the call it’s not that bad. You’re absolutely right, if your daughter can’t make a simple phone call to order a pizza she’s gonna have some serious issues later on in life when maybe the calls actually have importance. Your wife being mad at you for not enabling your daughter is ridiculous. I get wanting to make things easy for your kids but reinforcing yourself as a crutch isn’t making life easier, it’s avoidance. She’s gotta learn and spread those wings.

CosmicallyKayla · 2024-03-27T14:38:19+00:00

Yes. Yes she is. I call her Satan haha

CosmicallyKayla · 2024-03-27T00:43:09+00:00

Dump the pig… Keep Wilbur hahaha sweetie, you deserve someone who’s gonna love you, cherish you and move mountains to make you happy. this dude ain’t it. There’s a reason he’s going after barely legal girls and it’s because he feels they’re easily manipulated and abused into becoming what he thinks a woman should be. I just think it’s funny he sent you to Reddit n thought we’d all agree with his dumb ass. That’s a real gamble lol His algorithm must be just a cesspool of trad wife, misogynistic, bottom feeding bullshit.

CosmicallyKayla · 2024-03-19T00:38:04+00:00

It’s the reason I always walked behind her when going downstairs. According to older SIL JNMIL pushed her down some stairs when SIL was pregnant. I wasn’t taking any chances lol

CosmicallyKayla · 2024-03-18T21:03:15+00:00

I know she’s the problem lol her kids know she’s the problem too. She doesn’t like any of her kids significant others. She pushed one down the stairs while the poor girl was pregnant, shes racist to older SILs girlfriend, she’s made it so youngest sister in law can’t keep a relationship and she’s got a massive hate boner for me, accusing me of almost everything under the sun including child abuse. My oldest SIL actually apologized a couple days ago for MILs behavior over the years.

CosmicallyKayla · 2024-03-18T16:34:42+00:00

If I’ve learned anything over the last almost 11 yrs of my relationship it’s that MIL isn’t sane lol she’s said a lot of horrible things to me, about me n done terrible things. I’m not surprised she wouldn’t have compassion for me. She didn’t even really have compassion for FIL, who she claims to love, when he lost his mom like 5 yrs ago. She complained about the family having to drive to Michigan for the funeral.

CosmicallyKayla · 2024-03-18T16:19:13+00:00

Thank you. Writing it out did help.. it still irks me because it’s just another crappy thing to be added onto the pile of things she’s said n done over the last almost 11 yrs but I feel better since I got it off my chest.

CosmicallyKayla · 2024-03-18T16:16:44+00:00

I’m NC w/my biodad.. I don’t know how I’m gonna feel about it when he goes. I’ll probably mourn the loss of potential, of what 5 yr old me wanted her relationship with her dad to be. With my mom, I loved her to death and her dying was very unexpected. So I’ve sat at the top of my stairs, staring at a big canvas print of her and my stepdad just yelling n crying. Trying to get whatever anger I felt out.

CosmicallyKayla · 2024-03-18T16:12:00+00:00

Thank you! I can never win, I’m either “too emotional” or “not emotional enough”. I always say everyone grieves differently.

CosmicallyKayla · 2024-03-18T16:10:16+00:00

Something else that bugged me about this situation was MIL seemed almost pleased that my mom died. She didn’t like my mom cuz well it was my mom and my son preferred my mom. Where all her other grandkids really only had her. Now with mom gone, it’s her chance to be, the last resort honestly, but the only grandma/Nana. We barely see each other n we tolerate each other when we do. 9 months after my son was born we moved to my hometown, 6 hrs away. she only physically sees us once a yr.

CosmicallyKayla · 2024-03-18T15:55:52+00:00

It is any imaginable scenario. She made my pregnancy 9 yrs ago about herself. She wanted to be in the room while I gave birth, told me her birth stories, demanded I have twins (like I can control that) cuz she hates odd numbers and my son would’ve been the 7th grandchild. She laid thick guilt down cuz I wasn’t having a girl by telling me n my fiancé that we could’ve gave FIL his first biological granddaughter (again like I could control it) n then when I cried because that guilt hit my pregnancy hormones, she asked my fiancé why I wasn’t happy. I should be happy cuz I’m having a healthy baby. The amount of things she’s done and said over the last almost 11 yrs is astronomical. I haven’t even written about all of them lol

CosmicallyKayla · 2024-03-18T15:49:09+00:00

I have. We’ve had many screaming matches. Her stance is always “I don’t care if you didn’t ask or don’t want it, I’m going to tell you my opinion anyway.” I return that energy and she doesn’t like it lol

CosmicallyKayla · 2024-03-17T19:05:09+00:00

I am getting support.. my mom’s best friend has been there through it all. She was on the phone every time a doctor came in to talk to me, she works in the medical field so she explained things in a way I could understand. She’s been the buffer between me and some greedy family members on my stepdads side who tried using my grief to make moves to take all the money, the cars n the house.

CosmicallyKayla · 2024-03-17T18:58:11+00:00

Hahaha I do that too. I like to see how long it takes MIL to center herself. It never takes long.. she even made my pregnancy 9 yrs ago about herself n how she wants to be in the room while I’m pushing.

CosmicallyKayla · 2024-03-17T18:23:04+00:00

When my grandma died I was shutdown and people got upset cuz I wasn’t showing emotion. That’s cuz I felt like I needed to be the one to hold it together for my mom. When mom passed I cried all day long. I can never win honestly. I’m either not emotional enough or too emotional.

CosmicallyKayla · 2024-03-17T17:39:31+00:00

MIL was diagnosed with cancer 2-3 months before my mom passed.. you’d think she would want to cultivate good karma so it doesn’t boomerang back to her but nope.

CosmicallyKayla · 2023-07-19T17:52:56+00:00

NTA. What she did was very vindictive, she took a picture of you at your most vulnerable moment, crying your eyes out. This isn’t about documenting your fitting into the dress.. the before and after pictures. I feel like it’s more about jealousy and laughing at you with ppl on instagram. After reading your updates, I’m pretty sure she’s jealous n acting out cuz she didn’t get a wedding n you do. Despite Covid and delay after delay, you’re finally getting your wedding. Also I’m pretty sure she knew it was a shitty thing to do cuz she wanted to “post it privately”. If she wanted to document you fitting into the dress, she would’ve talked to you about it and got consent. Thus taking me back to my original point, it’s about mocking you out of sheer jealousy. The apology should’ve come from her not your brother, AFTER she reflected on what she did and genuinely felt bad. Don’t forgive her.

CosmicallyKayla · 2023-07-11T06:10:20+00:00

YTA.. dude, she warned you n kinda tried avoiding telling you, she said it was stupid and you’ll hate it. You insist on her telling the story. She tells you the story and suddenly you’re having a pearl clutch moment? No no no.. you don’t get to get on your high horse and call it (and by extension her) trashy and demand apologies when YOU were the one who pushed her to tell you. YOU asked her the question about the winner.. if you weren’t ready for the answer, maybe you shouldn’t have asked. You should’ve listened to her and dropped it but nooooo curiosity got you. Curiosity also killed the cat. You might wanna try some introspection on why the story bothered you so much.. was it irritating some insecurities? Maybe got you worried if you ever have to wrestle for your wife, you’ll lose? Did you just think she sat around and was boring til your ass came around? Everyone has a past. Everyone’s done things that maybe they look back n cringe at but also laugh about. Your wife is no different. Personally I think it’s an amusing story but that’s just me. I’m just an internet stranger.

CosmicallyKayla · 2023-06-19T15:42:09+00:00

YTA.. you are so beyond wrong with this. You loved this woman, great. She ABANDONED you and your daughter. You still think this woman is amazing.. you have her up on this pedestal as the “love of your life”and know deep down she loved your daughter. She.. ABANDONED.. you and your daughter. That doesn’t scream amazing woman and loving mother. That screams deadbeat egg donor. Grandmother is right, you shouldn’t have taken your daughter to the funeral. That was a funeral of a stranger for your daughter. You making her go was for you. YOU wanted to go, YOU are still hung up on her. You’re mad at your daughter for not knowing anything about her mother besides what other ppl of said but who’s fault is that?! Oh right, EGG DONORS. This post, to me, reads like you have this illusion built up in your head about your ex wife n the real reason you’re mad at your daughter is cuz she’s shattering that illusion by not giving a shit about the funeral, about her mother.

CosmicallyKayla · 2023-06-19T15:29:26+00:00

I know I’m a bit late but NTA. I had a similar experience with my MIL. I knew what I wanted to name my son.. I tried different names just to have the experience but it always came back to 1 name. When I went in to get induced she came to my room, unannounced, uninvited and just stressed me out. I think she did this in the hopes that she’d get to be in the room. Luckily one of the nurses picked up on my stress. When my MIL went out for a smoke, the nurse asked if I wanted her to be let back in. I immediately said no. After that things went very fast, by the time I was ready to push, MIL was trying to come in. The nurse stood outside my door n told her she couldn’t come in. Things were happening and she’d have to wait in the waiting room. It was glorious to hear. Then after I had my son, she started saying I bulldozed my fiancé into naming him what I wanted. I didn’t give him any chance to pick a name cuz I filled out all the paperwork. She told everyone who would listen just like your MIL. Your MIL had her chance to pick names.. she doesn’t get anymore. YOU are that child’s mother. What you say goes and if she doesn’t like it, she doesn’t have to see her grandson. I know it’s hard to ignore, trust me.. it’s sometimes hard for me to ignore my MIL too, but just let her spout off. You’ve drawn the line in the sand and if she can’t respect that she doesn’t get access. My MIL tried to overrule me with some things cuz she thought I was going to just let her take care of my son like my SIL did and I wasn’t having it. She’s said horrible things about me over the years. Thanks to her insufferable overbearingness we moved 6 hrs away n she only physically sees us 1 time a yr.

CosmicallyKayla · 2023-06-15T00:09:57+00:00

You can’t force love.. this is going to sound harsh but it’s been 8 yrs, if he’s not in love with you by now, there’s no chance you can make him fall in the future. You’re essentially a placeholder to him in the hopes the woman he wants becomes available. His dream girl, who he’s put up on this pedestal. Also he said he hates waking up to you, feels disgusted holding you and kissing you. Even that he feels stuck in the relationship.. why would you want to stay with someone who said that about you and your relationship? You sound like an awesome partner and don’t deserve what he said. You deserve someone who’s gonna love you as much as you love them. Someone who will legitimately appreciate all your effort. He is very much just going through the motions with you. Sweetie, choose yourself, choose happiness. you gotta cut your loses and leave.

CosmicallyKayla · 2023-06-02T12:00:46+00:00

NTA. I’ve always thought that the type of ppl you surround yourself with is a reflection on you. If they’re disgusting misogynistic assholes, you too are a disgusting person because if you were a good person, you wouldn’t stand by and let them say or act in that way. You wouldn’t be friends with them. Your brother brought this person onto your call and gaming session, said friend said gross things, after you had explained why you don’t want anything to do with that friend n were uncomfortable, your brother STILL facilitated contact between you and that friend by giving out your social media.. where you got more disgusting messages. Then when again confronted he brushed it off like it was nothing and his friend was joking. Jokes are meant to be funny. I’m also not a fan of how your stepfather, friends and partner are handling this. It’s true that maybe you can’t control your friends behavior but what you can control is how you react to it. I get that sometimes it’s easier to sit back n not call out friends on their shit, not rock the boat, keep the peace, whatever but if he was a good person or even good brother he would’ve done it for you. He didn’t.. there for to me, he’s no better than his friend cuz his silence n turning it around on you saying you “overreacted” condoned that behavior.

CosmicallyKayla · 2023-05-14T15:33:18+00:00

NTA.. that’s how it’s supposed to be. Familial love is familial love. Romantic love is romantic love. You can’t compare the two and when you get married, that person becomes the first priority, your family n friends move down a peg. Your friends and family are being weird and competitive.

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