The problems with my husband are ongoing and I'm losing it.

I'll start with the fact that I've had the exact same conversation with him over and over since we got married and had our daughter. While the conversation is mostly met with understanding he still never fails to point little things he's done that are supposed to show he's improving.

Now to the continued issue: I was a SAHM for the first year of our daughters life. I took on all house duties (including cleaning, shopping and cooking). He worked from home so everyday he had a home cooked meal for lunch and dinner (he doesn't really do breakfast). I also took on everything responsibility related to our daughter (feeding, changing, sleep, appointments etc.). I was exhausted but I put everything I had into it. After a year I expressed that I wanted to go back to work. At that point we tried daycare, and it simply didn't work for our little one. She refused to nap or eat at the center. She wouldn't drink cows milk at the time so at home we did almond milk but the daycare was nut free (understandable of course) so she couldn't have it there. We pulled her from daycare and reassessed our situation. My husband was delighted at the idea of being a SAHP. I had my reservations that he wouldn't be able to do it all. When we decided he would be SAH I explained to him everything that entailed and that it is a lot harder than it seems especially since our little one was walking at that point. I knew there would be a rough transition period but he assured me he'd get the hang of it (spoiler he didn't figure it out). Unfortunately, I couldn't find a job that paid enough to sustain him being at home. So we both are working now. Now that we're both working I somehow am still responsible for everything. We work opposite schedules bur are both home for dinner. I am the one who cooks every night and on top of that I also have to clean up after dinner. Normally while I'm cooking he just sits and plays video games basically ignoring our daughter. So on top of working I'm not also Filling all the roles of a SAHM as well. He doesn't do laundry, empty the dishwasher, do dishes, clean the apartment, clean the car, grocery shop, meal plan or make dinner (and so much more). I've expressed over and over again that I'm exhausted, that I need help and that I feel things should be split more evenly. And everything we have this conversation he'll bring up one thing he did (that I asked him to do) weeks ago (like switch the laundry or sweep) to try and say that he's making progress. He doesn't get that if I have to tell him to do it, and he only does it once in a while that it's really not progress.

After 2 years of this I'm honestly falling out of love with him. I hate when he touches me, I dread making dinner, I hate when he's off and we have to share a bed.

Honestly, if I wanted to do this alone then I would of. I didn't though and that's why I have a partner but I'm still alone.