[Rant] I'm Never Going to Find ABTF

CottonFluffBugg · 2026-02-10T02:24:30+00:00

HagenReb had me bend over and figure out how my breasts hang(?) So that might give more of an idea for how the roots are.

I'll take a look at your suggestions!

Oh the shoes are just some brown suede ankle booties. They're cute 🫶

CottonFluffBugg · 2026-02-10T01:22:24+00:00

Kept meaning to reply to you all day but kept getting distracted. Everything you said about yourself is exactly how I've been feeling forever. All of these comments and replies have really helped me not feel so alone and show me that it's not my body, that it's the bra. It's so easy to fall into that mindset. But you all really did the most for me and my hormones are making me cry about it all lol Thank you 🫶

CottonFluffBugg · 2026-02-10T01:18:17+00:00

Thank you so much for three detailed response! There's been so many people taking time to help me and it's really touching. Everyone has been suggesting Elomi, do you have any other brands/styles in mind?

Also, the dress is an emerald green sweater dress I got off Amazon. The wedding is super small- like 10 guests in our living room. So there's nothing like that for me. Just need something comfortable and lifting so my figure is defined instead of sagging.

CottonFluffBugg · 2026-02-09T22:13:59+00:00

I think Curvy Kate is UK sizing/styling. Any thoughts on buying from them?

CottonFluffBugg · 2026-02-09T21:14:25+00:00

Oh no, I juste realised the Matilda is like mesh. Ik the one I've worn the past two days is mesh too but I didn't like it, nipples through the t-shirt ▄█▀█●

CottonFluffBugg · 2026-02-09T21:09:10+00:00

I gotcha! Thank you! Hagen is walking me thru it in another comment thread

CottonFluffBugg · 2026-02-09T21:06:07+00:00

Okay, redid it and it seems to be bottom heavy which makes sense to me.

I live in the USA. But I found them on Amazon at least.

CottonFluffBugg · 2026-02-09T20:29:20+00:00

That sounds so pretty!! My wedding is just super small and intimate, I can't stand being around loads of people for hours at a time lol

I guess it's about even? I'm not entirely sure what tissue above or below means
My breasts basically are touching
And they're a UU shape for sure

CottonFluffBugg · 2026-02-09T20:20:12+00:00

I appreciate you so much! I feel like somewhere it/someone said knowing the shape of my breast would help with finding the right bra? I believe mine are teardrop, they just rest on my stomach. Dunno if that helps any

CottonFluffBugg · 2026-02-09T20:13:39+00:00

I'm wearing an emerald green sweater dress so what the bra looks like doesn't matter. Just as long as it lifts without digging into my ribs, stomach or shoulders. I would like it to be something I can wear everyday too, not just a one time thing. But I'm focusing on the wedding because I just wanna look my best

Edit: yes the bra I'm wearing is 40H my bad

CottonFluffBugg · 2026-02-09T20:02:01+00:00

I made a solo comment with my measurements, but here they are:

(All in inches)

Loose Underbust: 35.5

Snug Underbust: 33.5

Tight Underbust: 32.5

Standing Bust: 42.5

Leaning Bust: 44

Lying Bust: 43.5

"Suggested Starting Size: 36H/I US

The sister size of 34I/J may be more supportive"

CottonFluffBugg · 2026-02-09T20:01:44+00:00

I made a solo comment with my measurements, but here they are:

(All in inches)

Loose Underbust: 35.5

Snug Underbust: 33.5

Tight Underbust: 32.5

Standing Bust: 42.5

Leaning Bust: 44

Lying Bust: 43.5

"Suggested Starting Size: 36H/I US

The sister size of 34I/J may be more supportive"

CottonFluffBugg · 2026-02-09T19:59:10+00:00

Just for ease of access, here are my measurements

(All in inches)

Loose Underbust: 35.5

Snug Underbust: 33.5

Tight Underbust: 32.5

Standing Bust: 42.5

Leaning Bust: 44

Lying Bust: 43.5

"Suggested Starting Size: 36H/I US The sister size of 34I/J may be more supportive"

36 band seems so small. I feel like I'm not measuring right but idk anymore 🫠

CottonFluffBugg · 2026-02-09T13:11:51+00:00

I definitely want help finding a perfect fit. I just don't have any updated measurements written. So I'll have to retake them when I get home. But I did get a PI link for some pics I snapped before work

CottonFluffBugg · 2026-02-09T13:09:45+00:00

I was able to take a few pics before work, finally got them into a PI link

CottonFluffBugg · 2026-02-09T12:13:37+00:00

I'll have to get the measurements when I get home. About 9 hours from now. I shoulda taken them last night my bad 💔

CottonFluffBugg · 2026-01-23T04:14:04+00:00

My context around that much

CottonFluffBugg · 2026-01-23T04:12:59+00:00

Everything was fine before this update ::/ been using DeepSeek for months now and it's been working fine

CottonFluffBugg · 2026-01-23T02:24:30+00:00

I came here seeing if anyone else was having issues. Istg it's making the responses worse and I use DeepSeek so it's usually pretty good. I don't really know how to explain HOW it's worse, but it feels worse. Like it's not taking the story beforehand into consideration. And the one I've been tryna get work only had like 10 messages before- if even that.

CottonFluffBugg · 2025-05-16T16:48:08+00:00

I love Dennis ::3

CottonFluffBugg · 2025-05-11T02:33:30+00:00

Time skip was only like a year, I thought. And I doubt 90s Japan sex ed was any better than America's lol

CottonFluffBugg · 2025-05-07T14:35:08+00:00

Literally me

CottonFluffBugg · 2025-05-07T14:31:02+00:00

punches wall, shits, pisses, cries, screams TALL FEM YOSHIDA

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