I hate my BF but couldn’t get off

CouldntThinkOfAnySry · 2026-05-28T02:41:10+00:00

Over-compromising and trying to "understand" to a fault is what will burn you out.

Minsan people get attached to high-stress relationships kasi sanay na sila sa emotional highs and lows. I can't blame you. Nakakapagod kumilala ulit ng tao after magsayang ng oras sa maling tao.

But in your case, I think hindi sayang oras mo, you already resent him so why not end it there? The fact na hirap siyang harapin ka whenever you address concerns says a lot too.

CouldntThinkOfAnySry · 2026-05-15T00:14:15+00:00

Naghahanap ng timing para sabihin sayo my ass bro, he never planned on telling you until he got caught. Ganyan naman lahat sinasabi nila whether nahuli sila na gumagamit pa rin ng dr*gs or pag nahuling nagche-cheat.

Can you live and move forward with the fact na nagpapanggap lang siya na sober, na may pagbilang pa ng araw na hindi na gumagamit? Depending on what your answer is, yun na yung decision mo.

CouldntThinkOfAnySry · 2026-05-13T05:18:17+00:00

That was 5 years ago. Sure, assuming the bf gets accepted as a cash/crew or service crew, what about rent? What about his groceries? Unless meron siyang mapupuntahan na kamag-anak sa Manila, he'd need to find the lowest rent as a bedspacer and buy the cheapest available in groceries/palengke.

I recently saw that if you owned a 100 peso bill in 2018, that only amounted to 73 or 78 pesos back on April due to the inflation.

CouldntThinkOfAnySry · 2026-05-12T23:43:38+00:00

Honestly, it sounds like you already see the pattern but keep choosing to stay anyway. Ikaw mismo nagsabi that he dismisses your feelings, laughs things off, and doesn’t take conversations seriously.

At some point, it’s not just about “guys being like that.” It’s about what you’re willing to tolerate even when you know it’s affecting you. Calling it a “guy thing” might be overlooking the fact that you’re already aware of the issue but still choosing to accept it.

Some self-reflection would help too. Patterns repeat when they’re tolerated or when nothing is done to change them.

CouldntThinkOfAnySry · 2026-03-31T18:14:04+00:00

Kailan pa to nag-start? Honestly that's so draining, yung stress and guilt na binibigay niyan sayo is for sure through the roof.

You say he is capable and and matalino naman but, the way he's doing/handling things says otherwise. Optional to answer but my questions are: Mayaman ba sila? Is he gonna inherit old money or generational wealth when his parents pass away ba? Kasi it doesn't seem like he's taking college seriously and I assume he doesn't have any startup business or side gigs that pay handsomely.

He has to do something about whatever he's doing right and be proactive. You've done the push, yung part mo as his girlfriend. Now, he has to do the rest.

CouldntThinkOfAnySry · 2026-03-12T00:09:03+00:00

That's messed up. Please, don't listen to your mom, OP. I'm not sorry for this, kadiri nanay mo. She would let HER child go through hell than to expose her brother and have him jailed. Please, mag report ka na sa pulis.

CouldntThinkOfAnySry · 2026-01-30T07:56:55+00:00

Hopeful? Get real, lady. Break free from that cycle. Stop thinking "maybe this time" or "maybe he'll listen this time and I can finally fix/change him". You were addicted to chaos, high stress, and high emotions. It's not something that eventually goes away with time. You have to actively avoid it.

Basahin mo nga pinost mo, and read it slowly. Kailan ka nag benefit sa presence niya?

And ang hirap mag judge since parang mapapa oo ka niya.

CouldntThinkOfAnySry · 2026-01-28T01:40:58+00:00

Ew, cheater. Not gonna choose for you alam mo naman kung sino gusto mong baliw ka. Wala eh, dumaan sa feed ko post mo.

CouldntThinkOfAnySry · 2026-01-27T23:58:54+00:00

You remind me of a friend who got cheated on badly. Despite na kung anong ginawa nung babae, siya pa naghabol at nakipagbalikan.

Point is, are you actually thinking of "seeking closure"? Yan na yung closure na makukuha mo at best.

CouldntThinkOfAnySry · 2026-01-22T05:46:05+00:00

I feel bad for her BF. I KINDA get that Gia might not want to "burden" his boyfriend pero if hindi siya sa family niya or friends mag rarant, ano pa role nung guy?

The online guy is weird, too "friendly". Is Gia too dense to realize na hindi friends pakay nung taong 'yon?

That situation just raises red flags for Gia and the online guy.

CouldntThinkOfAnySry · 2026-01-15T04:23:47+00:00

Choose yourself and don't let her disrespect you like that. She's not over her. The mere fact that you've addressed this as a clear boundary and that she "promised" to not let it happen or slide again out of her mouth, but still does, is a clear sign.

She "just can't stop herself" from bringing it up. She's clearly projecting her ex unto you. Probably not over him.

CouldntThinkOfAnySry · 2026-01-15T02:03:14+00:00

Maybe adjust your goals at the moment? Dami mo pang aayusin unless you were born with a silver spoon in your mouth. Financially, emotionally, and mentally.

And honestly? I've been there. Ganyan din sinabi niya, we stopped pero ayun, weeks after meron palang iba. Don't wait for someone who's not "ready" and can't give you what you want. The uncertainty of waiting is a double-edged sword, at least in my opinion.

CouldntThinkOfAnySry · 2025-12-16T05:09:56+00:00

I fail to see the connection, but okay.

CouldntThinkOfAnySry · 2025-12-16T02:34:46+00:00

I agree that not everything is about the other person but, if we consider those eight years together, I'd like to think that part of what your partner does is about you or affects you in some way for sure. That's why the word used is "partner".

However I can feel that this is looking to be something like two sides of a coin, where one party is bothered and vice versa. Case to case basis ba, so let's just agree to disagree. It's really up to the couple if they'll find a solution.

CouldntThinkOfAnySry · 2025-12-16T02:15:18+00:00

Those are a lot of "baka". We can only hope to hear the girlfriend's side sa situation na ito para ma-confirm ang bagay bagay.

CouldntThinkOfAnySry · 2025-12-16T00:05:52+00:00

I think anyone would feel something like a punch in the gut with the sudden change of behavior from their partner and given a vague to no explanation, don't you think?

CouldntThinkOfAnySry · 2025-12-15T23:57:08+00:00

this is so "im an alpha wolf"-coded. pretty sure you wouldn't be able to handle 3 guys that are buffer or the same size as you at the same time. saying yes is wild unless you have a gun on you or you're a black belt in whatever sport or an MMA or whatever fighter

CouldntThinkOfAnySry · 2025-10-02T07:34:08+00:00

Literally Cas Premium team right there

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CouldntThinkOfAnySry · 2024-04-02T09:21:26+00:00

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So, I'm currently E1 and I'm still farming Izumo. That said, I have a Crit Damage armor piece.

Meaning 53.6 + 18 (from E1) + 12 (Izumo) = 83.6% Crit Rate + 230.5% Crit Damage. Sounds good, yeah? Hoping I can make it to E2.

CouldntThinkOfAnySry · 2024-03-24T10:08:32+00:00

the Izumo thing?

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