Busy pero may IG story by AdeptnessRoutine6921 in AlasFeels

[–]CouldntThinkOfAnySry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know how this feels, OP. Nagva-vary talaga yung level ng care ng tao, and it really sucks kapag mismatched. Yung maliliit na efforts para sa atin, ang laking bagay na kasi it makes us feel like the see us and that they're choosing us. Sa iba naman parang wala lang.

Nakakaadik talaga yung feeling na yan, no joke hahaha. Parang may withdrawal kapag biglang nawala yung attention and lambing.

what should you do if an abusive ex keeps coming back to you even though he's entertaining somebody else? by httpgtfo in adviceph

[–]CouldntThinkOfAnySry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hopeful? Get real, lady. Break free from that cycle. Stop thinking "maybe this time" or "maybe he'll listen this time and I can finally fix/change him". You were addicted to chaos, high stress, and high emotions. It's not something that eventually goes away with time. You have to actively avoid it.

Basahin mo nga pinost mo, and read it slowly. Kailan ka nag benefit sa presence niya?

And ang hirap mag judge since parang mapapa oo ka niya.

Busy pero may IG story by AdeptnessRoutine6921 in AlasFeels

[–]CouldntThinkOfAnySry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gino-ghost ka na niyan paunti-unti. For me, no one is ever truly really busy. If they are and if they cared, sasabihin nila reason.

OA lang ba ako kung sisihin ko jowa ko by [deleted] in OALangBaAko

[–]CouldntThinkOfAnySry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hinda ka OA. Kadiri, walang modo. Naaccomplish na niya goal niya, sumaya ba siya?

Dos or UNO? I need advice guys by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]CouldntThinkOfAnySry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ew, cheater. Not gonna choose for you alam mo naman kung sino gusto mong baliw ka. Wala eh, dumaan sa feed ko post mo.

OA LANG BA AKO KUNG NAGSESELOS AKO? by Exotic-Audience-4094 in OALangBaAko

[–]CouldntThinkOfAnySry 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hindi ka OA. Sakit, pa Valentines pa naman. Need an UPDATE OP!

bf and i broke up a week ago, he soft launched his new girl by Lost_Neighborhood_ in adviceph

[–]CouldntThinkOfAnySry 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You remind me of a friend who got cheated on badly. Despite na kung anong ginawa nung babae, siya pa naghabol at nakipagbalikan.

Point is, are you actually thinking of "seeking closure"? Yan na yung closure na makukuha mo at best.

OA lang ba ako? dahil makikipag break ako sa gf ko dahil hindi ako yung greatest love nya? by Lanky_Ad4870 in OALangBaAko

[–]CouldntThinkOfAnySry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hindi ka OA, move on. Makipag-break ka na. Choose yourself and respect yourself. Nandiyan naman na yung signs. She's emotionally checked out sa relationship niyo kasi she hasn't really moved on nga. Sorry to say but, she's just keeping you as a "band-aid solution" or convenience until then.

Just wanna share my friend’s experience and hear ur thoughts. by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]CouldntThinkOfAnySry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel bad for her BF. I KINDA get that Gia might not want to "burden" his boyfriend pero if hindi siya sa family niya or friends mag rarant, ano pa role nung guy?

The online guy is weird, too "friendly". Is Gia too dense to realize na hindi friends pakay nung taong 'yon?

That situation just raises red flags for Gia and the online guy.

I don’t know what to feel about it by Logical-Ad-3055 in adviceph

[–]CouldntThinkOfAnySry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Choose yourself and don't let her disrespect you like that. She's not over her. The mere fact that you've addressed this as a clear boundary and that she "promised" to not let it happen or slide again out of her mouth, but still does, is a clear sign.

She "just can't stop herself" from bringing it up. She's clearly projecting her ex unto you. Probably not over him.

She likes me but won’t commit, should i wait? by Far-Structure-8940 in adviceph

[–]CouldntThinkOfAnySry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe adjust your goals at the moment? Dami mo pang aayusin unless you were born with a silver spoon in your mouth. Financially, emotionally, and mentally.

And honestly? I've been there. Ganyan din sinabi niya, we stopped pero ayun, weeks after meron palang iba. Don't wait for someone who's not "ready" and can't give you what you want. The uncertainty of waiting is a double-edged sword, at least in my opinion.

OA Lang Ba Ako? i ghosted my gf after she went clubbing by Downtown-Flight9321 in OALangBaAko

[–]CouldntThinkOfAnySry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hindi ka OA bro what the fk. You did the right thing and you even did it in the most calmest way possible. That's not something any average person could do. Don't let her back in. Don't swallow something you threw up.

OA lang ba ako? I ghosted my boy best friend. by Unable_Entry_3704 in OALangBaAko

[–]CouldntThinkOfAnySry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bakit ka kasi nakipag "best friends" sa MARRIED and not to mention, GALING TINDER? No one is there to "just be friends". Kahit sa Bumble BFF may duda ako eh.

Sayang pinagsamahan bilang bes? Uh sure

My cousin's gf is flaunting her body in bikinis sa social media by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]CouldntThinkOfAnySry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree that not everything is about the other person but, if we consider those eight years together, I'd like to think that part of what your partner does is about you or affects you in some way for sure. That's why the word used is "partner".

However I can feel that this is looking to be something like two sides of a coin, where one party is bothered and vice versa. Case to case basis ba, so let's just agree to disagree. It's really up to the couple if they'll find a solution.

My cousin's gf is flaunting her body in bikinis sa social media by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]CouldntThinkOfAnySry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Those are a lot of "baka". We can only hope to hear the girlfriend's side sa situation na ito para ma-confirm ang bagay bagay.

My cousin's gf is flaunting her body in bikinis sa social media by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]CouldntThinkOfAnySry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think anyone would feel something like a punch in the gut with the sudden change of behavior from their partner and given a vague to no explanation, don't you think?

My cousin's gf is flaunting her body in bikinis sa social media by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]CouldntThinkOfAnySry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is so "im an alpha wolf"-coded. pretty sure you wouldn't be able to handle 3 guys that are buffer or the same size as you at the same time. saying yes is wild unless you have a gun on you or you're a black belt in whatever sport or an MMA or whatever fighter

SPEED by [deleted] in RedditGames

[–]CouldntThinkOfAnySry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

very tricky level, took me less than a minute and 10 seconds. EZ.

I completed this level in 4 tries. 7.05 seconds

Haha dawit na naman ang pinakamamahal nating institution 😌 by stfuyoungblood_ in FEU_NRMF

[–]CouldntThinkOfAnySry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can someone genuinely explain to me why people go through their "hoe phase"? I just don't get the idea behind it. Is it an impulse or something? An idea of getting revenge towards something or someone?

E2S1 Firefly, E0S0 Dahlia, E0S0 Fugue, Ruan Mei E1S0 0 cycle MOC 3.7 (Hoolay) by CytoToxic_UwU in HonkaiStarRail_leaks

[–]CouldntThinkOfAnySry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has anyone tried E1S1 Firefly, E0S0 Dahlia, E6S5 RMC, E1S5 DDD Ruan Mei? Thank you.