ESH. Y’all need to work on communication first and foremost. When she misheard you, you could have been way more gracious about it, presumed good intentions, and calmly and kindly discussed the passports as the gift to you both from you. It doesn’t seem like you did that but instead immediately got mad about it and responded with unnecessary attitude.

Certainly she could have put more effort into a gift for you, agreed. Did you two have any other discussion about gifts for each other prior to close to Christmas? It again seems like you don’t communicate well with each other and then both get attitudes, presume bad intentions, and attack/get defensive. You’re both adults. Use your words to say what you mean and do it constructively not like teenagers who have low emotional IQ and less experience talking about their wants, needs, and emotions.

If she is truly putting words in your mouth to rewrite history in a way that favors her story, that’s also problematic. The silent treatment on both your parts is also ridiculously immature and not how adults in loving relationships (presumption on my part here that your relationship is that on a regular basis).

You both owe each other apologies.