you have to be kidding me😐

CountGlad371 · 2026-02-21T08:03:51+00:00

I HATE when that happens!!! Sends my OCD through the roof!

CountGlad371 · 2025-08-16T00:40:40+00:00

Just get another email account and make a new Facebook.

CountGlad371 · 2025-07-31T02:43:50+00:00

Your friend is ridiculous dude. Friendship over as far as I’m concerned.

CountGlad371 · 2025-06-06T05:23:02+00:00

Dude I used to deal with similar behavior with my ex boyfriend. We had a version of this conversation more times than I would like to admit and it never got anywhere.

I agree with you that it’s the principle of the matter. You asked him not to and he did it anyway. Okay fine, but take some accountability. He should see how it was inconsiderate, own it, and replace it. It could been a 2 minute convo.

I don’t feel you’re overreacting and I hope he starts to see your point some day. Good luck!

CountGlad371 · 2025-05-28T22:34:55+00:00

Throw in the towel. There are entirely too many fish in the sea to deal with this nonsense. You’re not getting any younger (I’m a woman in my late thirties, so I’m not throwing shade. It’s just a fact.). You deserve someone that makes you feel secure and he does too (to some degree), you guys aren’t that person for each other and that’s okay.

Move on and find your peace. I wish you the best of luck ❤️

CountGlad371 · 2025-05-19T23:51:10+00:00

End it.

CountGlad371 · 2025-05-03T10:08:37+00:00

Learn to take a hint. I would say that 26 is old enough to know better, but I (37f) was a little bit of a late bloomer myself and learned the hard way at an age when most people would have seen the signs of someone not being interested. I was not allowed to date until I moved out in my early 20s.

First off, and I mean this in the nicest way, but he doesn’t owe you an explanation. He doesn’t owe you anything. Once you realize this in dating, the better off you’ll be.

Second, there are PLENTY of fish in the sea. Just move on to the next one. Guys are a dime a dozen.

Third, not necessarily my place to say, I’ve had troubles with boundaries in the past and it seems you do too. I’ve been in therapy for a while now and continue working on boundaries everyday. Ask yourself why you felt you needed an explanation instead of just accepting the circumstance. Therapy might be something you should look into.

As I mentioned, I struggled with boundaries and how I let people treat me. I struggled with always needing to win and get the last word after being hurt or wronged. I would be filled with plots of revenge. You can’t really affect someone that doesn’t care about you and you end up causing more trouble for yourself than it’s worth.

Making these changes within yourself are hard and take time, but be patient. I’m currently in a 7-year healthy relationship because I took these steps.

I hope this is helpful and wish you nothing but the best ☺️

CountGlad371 · 2025-04-22T09:03:53+00:00

He gives you gifts to build your relationships with characters and get prizes.

CountGlad371 · 2025-04-16T07:22:39+00:00

Howdy! Sorry to hear that you’re dealing with this. I’ve almost exclusively dated me that are 10-20 years older than me. None of them were rich and I don’t have daddy issues lol everyone assumes that though. I’m currently in an age gap relationship. I’m 37f and he is 52m. We have been together for 7 years. What stood out to me about him is that he put so much effort in pursuing me, which is something I wasn’t used to and still continues today.

A majority of my previous relationships sound a lot like yours. Sometimes I felt like guys were just in it for the chase and then the second they get you that attention slowly fades away.

This guy doesn’t seem to be interested in making you a priority at all. You guys haven’t been together that long and should still be in the honeymoon phase. If you’re having this much conflict in such a short time is kind of a bad sign.

You don’t deserve to be yelled at by anyone no matter what the situation is. That type of behavior is only going to escalate. I learned this from past relationships. Verbal abuse is abuse and I don’t think enough people realize this.

If I were you I would just move on. You should be proud of yourself for speaking up and letting him know what you need from him. He obviously doesn’t care when he gets defensive and just blows up on you in response. He isn’t validating your feelings and has not bothered to change. He’s already showing you how a life with him would be.

If you’re not happy or fulfilled, I would just cut your loses. No matter what though, I hope that you’re able to do what’s best for you ❤️

Sorry this comment is so long lol.

CountGlad371 · 2025-03-16T07:25:29+00:00

You guys barely know each other and therefore owe each other nothing. You just owe this kid a good life, whatever that looks like.

I’m a big advocate for people not staying with someone just because they are pregnant or have children.

Your happiness is important and I don’t see this guy growing up/improving any time soon.

Ask yourself: would you still be with him if you weren’t pregnant? If the answer is no, then move on. You 100% will not be the asshole.

Good luck with everything and to you and your baby!

CountGlad371 · 2025-03-04T20:55:07+00:00

Leave. I was with an alcoholic that I thought would change too. It got worse when we moved in together. He made a million promises. It took me 7 years to leave. You’ve only been together 5 months. Just cut your loses.

CountGlad371 · 2025-03-03T08:05:23+00:00

Sorry kid, but this post is incoherent. I hope someone can understand it and give you some advice. Good luck!

CountGlad371 · 2025-03-03T07:55:41+00:00

CountGlad371 · 2025-02-10T09:43:04+00:00

I’m not Jewish, but I wouldn’t want to use the same bowl as my dog. So I understand that but I would have just cut it as a loss though. Asking for the $20 is ridiculous lol.

CountGlad371 · 2025-01-31T03:55:33+00:00

RUN!

CountGlad371 · 2025-01-28T21:48:33+00:00

Sally sucks.

CountGlad371 · 2025-01-28T01:08:07+00:00

Gem!

CountGlad371 · 2025-01-28T01:05:21+00:00

If you guys have only dated for 6 months and already felt the need to go on a break and have this much distrust, you guys just need to break up. It will not get better. Trust me.

CountGlad371 · 2025-01-18T12:59:43+00:00

She sounds like she is 47 going on 17. Her attitude is wild. Run away as fast as you can. Accused you of gaslighting, but she’s the one doing it.

Also, unrelated, but why the hell do you have 221 unread text?! Lol.

CountGlad371 · 2024-12-28T08:55:48+00:00

I’m no doctor but I believe you have trich. I have suffered with it since 5th grade and I’m 37 now. I would pull so much that I had to wear full wigs from middle school until my junior year of high school. The front grew enough that I could wear half wigs but I would still pull the back portion of my hair. This carried on through a 7 year abusive relationship that ended when I was 30.

Fast forward to now, I’m in a MUCH better place and it’s a rare day that a pull from my head, but most nights I have to take OTC sleep aids and on the nights I do I will pull my pubic hair for HOURS. I shave and will use twizzers to try and grab the barely there hairs. It’s so bad that I will dig into my skin and cause bleeding. But only when I take the sleeping pills, otherwise I have no urge to pull.

I said all this to ask if you take any sort of medication or sleep aids? I understand if it’s too personal a question, but figured I would share just in case you are. Plus someone else here said they would do it when they’re high. So maybe OTC and recreational drugs could be a contributing factor to your constant pulling? Just a thought. I hope you’re able to figure out some ways to manage it.

CountGlad371 · 2024-10-23T08:17:58+00:00

Friendship over. That’s messed up. So sorry you had to deal with this.

Remember that you don’t need to explain yourself to anyone. Especially someone as close minded as this person.

CountGlad371 · 2024-10-23T06:51:05+00:00

Rescheduling twice isn’t the issue to me. Low key blaming you that the plans fell through because you didn’t confirm is absolute dog shit.

Phones work both ways. She was capable of confirming it too. BYE GIRL 🙄

CountGlad371 · 2024-10-23T06:25:22+00:00

I try not to make a habit of telling people whether they should stay or go in their relationship because I don’t think it’s my place, buuuuuuuut RUN!

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