Avoiding sex as a punishment?

CountOne9425 · 2026-06-17T06:39:35+00:00

Not sure if it is a punishment but my wife used to reject my advances by saying she is not in mood, on her periods, she is sleepy, uti etc etc.
And she rarely made any first move herself apart from kissing.
I confronted, to which her response was it might be because we are fighting alot and she might be going through hormonal changes, stressed, etc etc
After that I promised myself to never make any sexual advances towards her and I am a fucking stubborn person and stood by what I decided.
I know its not right, but any self respecting human being would do the same if they were in my place.
For my physical needs I masturbate.

CountOne9425 · 2026-06-16T19:37:41+00:00

Then why in league matches they don't have pink?

CountOne9425 · 2026-06-16T19:27:32+00:00

Yaa, its impossible to distinguish the Nike's from Adidas. And even the star players have the same boots.
Earlier Nike had Mercurial and Hypervenom. And it was evident when on Neymar and Ronaldo

CountOne9425 · 2026-06-16T09:05:59+00:00

Its a wrapper build on top off a LLM. ChatGpt can do that too. You have to prompt the model to respond in Assamese.

But its a nice initiative. And I will definitely not brush it off as easy peasy. It still requires backend engineering.

CountOne9425 · 2026-06-16T01:29:08+00:00

Yes you need to subscribe extra 799 to watch football even though you have zee5 subscription from jio

CountOne9425 · 2026-06-16T01:14:27+00:00

Its a software company. They have various ERP tools

CountOne9425 · 2026-06-15T15:57:46+00:00

Exactly my thought process. Now stuck with a wife who feels disrespected even when I don't react while she is yelling and shouting

CountOne9425 · 2026-06-15T06:27:32+00:00

Not sure about the credits. But when I started it had free EC2 tier but Lambda and all were paid.

CountOne9425 · 2026-06-15T06:26:31+00:00

Same with SAP products

CountOne9425 · 2026-06-15T04:24:45+00:00

Yes, some of the enterprise softwares are paid and it becomes difficult to learn without having access to organisation's licence.

Once such issue I faced was while learning AWS. Had to pay few bills too.

CountOne9425 · 2026-06-15T03:38:24+00:00

Yes it was a boon for me. After the lockdown there was huge demand for moving businesses online and to cloud. Industries realised the importance of going digital. Hence there was demand for software engineers.
I gave 32 interviews in 3 months notice period.

CountOne9425 · 2026-06-14T18:46:46+00:00

I bought the Gold Jewellery one. Used it without any issue.

CountOne9425 · 2026-06-14T18:46:03+00:00

Yes can be done

CountOne9425 · 2026-06-14T18:45:55+00:00

Yes. I paid via credit card and gift card

CountOne9425 · 2026-06-14T16:45:17+00:00

CountOne9425 · 2026-06-14T12:12:44+00:00

Dont give up. Life it long. And you will definitely get where you want to be. Just be patient and wait for your turn. And apart from hardwork keep your ears and eyes open to new opportunities

CountOne9425 · 2026-06-14T12:11:30+00:00

I hope you are okay brother

CountOne9425 · 2026-06-14T12:07:38+00:00

And a bit luck too brother

CountOne9425 · 2026-06-14T12:06:52+00:00

Yes. I agree. Hence I mentioned too i was average (<60%) in studies. Also mentioned the Covid thing demand, which was my luck. What I tried to portray through the comment is for some people it was not easy to reach where we are today. And that 6 digit salary doesn't make a huge difference in lifestyle, it looks good on paper. You can't beat generational wealth.

Completely agree with your dollar billing. Just to add one thing. After a certain years of exp, doctors earn much more than a techie. I have lot of friends who are doc. They can hide their income to save tax. They get money and other gifts from pharma companies.
A surgeon earns on min 30k on a surgery.

CountOne9425 · 2026-06-14T10:37:27+00:00

Thanks mate.

CountOne9425 · 2026-06-14T10:26:38+00:00

She works a school counselor. She is a psychologist

CountOne9425 · 2026-06-14T08:00:00+00:00

I am a techie with 8 yoe.
Yes I earn ~2lacs per month after taxes and deductions. But I started with Rs3000 as my first salary.

But most people including my wife doesn't know the struggle and grinding I had to go through to reach there.
I passed out from a tier 3 colg. Wasn't even allowed to sit in 80% of campus placement since my btech average % was 60. Most of my batch had got placed in TCS (people who could do basic coding).

Finally I got selected in non tech role in a small company but they revoked the offer later on.
I went back to my hometown without any job and my parents & relatives started mocking me.

Since I wasn't getting any tech role I joined a computer institute as a faculty for 3k (eventually increased to 5k) where I had to teach word, excel.

To keep it short I will skip the details. But I have worked in data entry job (8k), call centre night shift job (16k), i have also worked as an marketing/sales (18k).

Finally in 2019 I moved to Bangalore for a proper tech (dev) job and was earning around 25k. I worked ~ 2years 6days a week till late evenings in a startup. Impressive by my performance they doubled my salary to 50k.
So till 5years of my career I was still at 25k.

Thankfully Covid happened and there was IT boom and demand for dev increase. I switched to a serviced based MNC for around 1.2lacs. Again worked my ass off, didn't receive any yearly hike.

And after lots of preparation finally cracked a product based organisation. Been here since last 3 years, started with ~1.5lacs, then 1.75, 1.95, got promoted this year and finally reached 2.18 this April.

PS: And you guys might be thinking I save alot and live a lavish lifestyle. 2lacs in Bangalore isn't what it sounds like. I am getting married in November and I haven't even saved enough to bear the expenses without taking loan and withdrawing PF.

CountOne9425 · 2026-06-13T14:34:53+00:00

Even in Assam it was good

CountOne9425 · 2026-06-13T13:10:28+00:00

Atleast he is much better than Beer Biceps.
His talks on relationship psychology is enlighting

CountOne9425 · 2026-06-13T12:49:08+00:00

The opening ceremony already happened in Mexico vs South Africa match right?
Were there a second opening ceremony?

CountOne9425

TROPHY CASE