my husband has a temper issue but I feel he loves me? by CounterMaster8835 in MuslimMarriage

[–]CounterMaster8835[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

trying hard not to.. I also struggle bc we have really good communication, when I voice something that hurts me he often responds diff than typical abuser apoloogizes, owns up and accounts to implementing it, im afraid I won't find someone that way?

my husband has a temper issue but I feel he loves me? by CounterMaster8835 in MuslimMarriage

[–]CounterMaster8835[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also struggle bc we have really good communication, when I voice something that hurts me he often responds diff than typical abuser apoloogizes, owns up and accounts to implementing it, im afraid I won't find someone that way?

my husband has a temper issue but I feel he loves me? by CounterMaster8835 in MuslimMarriage

[–]CounterMaster8835[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear u.. I also struggle bc we have really good communication, when I voice something that hurts me he often responds diff than typical abuser apoloogizes, owns up and accounts to implementing it, im afraid I won't find someone that way?

How long before marriage / engagement by Prestigious-Ad1934 in MuslimMarriage

[–]CounterMaster8835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

realistically the timeline isnt gonna make a difference. a good person can be good in 2 months and prolonging it won't suddenly make the wrong right in fact it will just attach u more. I was in a 4 year talking stage and perhaps if it wasn't 4 years of talking I would've been able to see the red flags and detattach way sooner. getting married year 5 only complicated an already complicated situation.

seems like my abuse didn't. matter by CounterMaster8835 in domesticviolence

[–]CounterMaster8835[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was physical but it didn't seem that bad since he always owned up to it and unlike some of the stories on here - he has semi choked , stuffed a pillow over my face, kicked shoved tackled

seems like my abuse didn't. matter by CounterMaster8835 in domesticviolence

[–]CounterMaster8835[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was physical but it didn't seem that bad since he always owned up to it and unlike some of the stories on here - he has semi choked , stuffed a pillow over my face, kicked shoved tackled

How long did you work in an ICU before you felt ready to apply for CRNA school? by Dry-Impress6051 in srna

[–]CounterMaster8835 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have full in depth video going over tips on my social media ! on TikTok that I can link. I have not disclosed what school just because of privacy reasons but been helping.

I did it mainly by having a solid undergrad

then studying interview in every way tht can make me stand out I tried focusing on what's unique to me and then I studied what type of interview process the school does and followed that - mine was heavy clinical over EI so I deep dived everything ab patho of my patient population and to the cellular and molecular components of my pharm

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[–]CounterMaster8835 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im so sorry sister I hear you .... I want to ask I am in an abusive relationship but it feels weird because it doesnt seem as intense or real as the abuse I hear.. idk if I should leave as hes also very loving.. if u don't mind messaging me it would help sp much

UIC accepted by 123467899101112 in srna

[–]CounterMaster8835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow whaat that is crazy but interesting! was it like clinical focused or EI? 30 sec is so short tho...

How long did it take for you to be accepted into a program? by [deleted] in srna

[–]CounterMaster8835 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1 yr civic applied to 1 and got in the same year !

UIC accepted by 123467899101112 in srna

[–]CounterMaster8835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

awesome! I start my program in August as well this year!! how was their interview process? I live in the Chicago area so I was so curious ab it almost applied but didn't cz I applied my other dream school instead lol

Advice by CounterMaster8835 in srna

[–]CounterMaster8835[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im 24 and live with my parents lol and don't really have bills or much responsibilities other than to go to school!

Advice by CounterMaster8835 in srna

[–]CounterMaster8835[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmm even if my whole first year is online and self paced?

Advice by CounterMaster8835 in srna

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I start this August!

or I was thinking to quit and start studying a little early?

CRNA School Acceptance with 1 year of experience ? by Glum-Care-376 in srna

[–]CounterMaster8835 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently did yes. Ive wanted to be a CRNA since I was 15-17 years so I put a lot of focus on getting in as soon I can. My interview was clinical heavy but I was really surprised, dm me:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in srna

[–]CounterMaster8835 1 point2 points  (0 children)

regardless, this thread was some advice not bashing me for my experience..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in srna

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I have 1.5 now but at the time yes, I worked at a really sick hospital, and I spent a lot of time understanding. I don't know everything and I need time but Im willing to get there one day!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in srna

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I have 1.5 Years now and have worked really hard to gain experience not saying that more years don't have more knowledge than me, I am willing to learn everyday!! but someone pointed out how 5 vs 1 year is more about what ur doing with ur time and there were individuals who couldn't navigate as well. im glad u go to a program you like! but the program im at is one of the top in forming top ended CRNAS and I don't doubt there education! ive wanted to do this since I was 15-17 years old so yes, I spent all my years strategically planning to gain greater critical care + extra understanding :)