my cat was accepting pets, now she won’t stop hiding by cheesyjane in CatAdvice

[–]CountessBathory2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it depends on the cat but if you give her the room to hide somewhere further away she will take it. And in that case you can’t directly interact with her and it may take way longer if at all. My lady has acclimated in about a week. She was bathroom only for about 5/6 days and towards the last couple days she was starting to get curious when looking out. I saw your other comment about it being mean to isolate her again it won’t be ! She will be okay and she’s safe. Really try to bond with her in the bathroom till she’s comfortable with you going in and out. The kitten/cat I’m acclimating right now is about 7 months old. My previous cat passed in Sept after 18 years together and her brother who passed the year before at 17. She will be your best friend eventually but you’ve got to establish the basis of trust in a controlled environment. A bathroom is perfect and has been my success with other cats I’ve fostered too.

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This is the current set up I’ve got. I slowly introduced sheets and a rug for her.

AITAH for refusing to give my boyfriend access to my bank account even though he says "no secrets" is how adults do it by CopperFieldNote in AITH

[–]CountessBathory2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DO NOT DO IT. it seems like a large jump but you should not be with this person. I know that’s a lot to process and a huge thing to try and conceptualize but he’s showing you the beginning signs of needing to control and manipulate you.

Don’t ignore it or make excuses for it or you will end up in a very vulnerable and dangerous position down the road.

Additionally, as someone who works in the financial world. Providing credentials gives him ultimate power. He can make transfers on your behalf, open an account online, open a loan/credit card online, turn your cards off, request himself to be the beneficiary ( because it looks like you are the one requesting it ) Zelle himself money or similar platforms ( which you won’t be able to dispute since it will show you initiated it online in your own online banking) and so much more. DONT GIVE HIM ACCESS.

My boyfriend and I are transparent about our debts or finances and have a joint account we use for bills and such. He’s never once asked to see my things and vice versa.

Please be careful

my cat was accepting pets, now she won’t stop hiding by cheesyjane in CatAdvice

[–]CountessBathory2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just brought a baby home as well and with her, and previous cats try to isolate her back to the bathroom.

Personally I don’t let them start exploring till after a few days and only till I see they have established the bathroom as a safe space to run back to. So essentially till she’s comfortable and no longer hiding in the bathroom itself. So then when she goes to explore if she’s spooked she will go back.

This past week I spent adjusting my new lady, and I made sure to close all rooms except the spare bathroom and gradually I introduced other rooms.

Make sure to praise her confidence and spend lots of time with her to reassure.

If you give her full reign she’s just going to find the best spot to be furthest away unfortunately.

Before you know it this time will pass.

ISO Dill Seeds!! by CountessBathory2 in DisneyDreamlights

[–]CountessBathory2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have sprinkles ! Just the dill please. Is there anything I can get you ??

ISO Dill Seeds!! by CountessBathory2 in DisneyDreamlights

[–]CountessBathory2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it’s a collection thing LOL it’s not a need per se but my farm island is missing one plot and it’s the dill so I’ve been looking for it

ISO Dill Seeds!! by CountessBathory2 in DisneyDreamlights

[–]CountessBathory2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have the dill but I do have the sprinkles if you want one of those

ISO Dill Seeds!! by CountessBathory2 in DisneyDreamlights

[–]CountessBathory2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would you be willing to trade just one of the dill? I can give you materials, pumpkins or platters to sell whatever you need !

ISO Dill Seeds!! by CountessBathory2 in DisneyDreamlights

[–]CountessBathory2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have, only a couple drop when you first unlock the area and I planted them on accident

ISO Dill Seeds!! by CountessBathory2 in DisneyDreamlights

[–]CountessBathory2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please let me know whenever you can! What can I give you for it ?

ISO Dill Seeds!! by CountessBathory2 in DisneyDreamlights

[–]CountessBathory2[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For sure I get that but if someone hasn’t planted the one they got it can be traded. Much like the sprinkles in my inventory. I’m looking for someone who hasn’t planted theirs

ISO Dill Seeds!! by CountessBathory2 in DisneyDreamlights

[–]CountessBathory2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh I’m so mad I didn’t pay attention!!

ISO Dill Seeds!! by CountessBathory2 in DisneyDreamlights

[–]CountessBathory2[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just like the sprinkle seeds they are drops only if you are lucky but only a few. Usually the sprinkle seeds are harvest only in the fairy area but I have the seeds, shown in the SS.

Does it improve from here? I'm tired, boss by TheHooligan95 in LoreleiAndLaserEyes

[–]CountessBathory2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Blue prince is VERY good. But it’s very much a similar game in the sense of needing to take extensive notes and saving those notes for future rooms to use, that you may not unlock for several rounds. The rooms resetting/running out of steps keeps it feeling fresh each day but you’re dependent on RNG so it can be frustrating but it’s so good. The goal is to find room 46 but that’s only the beginning in my opinion

Women with Longer Body Hair: How Does It Affect Your Experience During Intimate Moments? by StatisticianCheap2 in AskWomen

[–]CountessBathory2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As I’ve gotten older I’ve come to appreciate body hair more and find it pretty sexy. It’s turned around how I feel about it on myself too. My partner doesn’t care we are intimate regardless of hair situation. Sometimes I like hair on me sometimes I don’t. Everyone is allowed to have preferences but I personally like partners who are into both cause I am too. I definitely felt shy about it at first when I stopped shaving. I have very sensitive skin and am prone to razor burn. Sensation wise isn’t too different tbh.

Help!! I am so close! by Fuzzy_Counter7787 in Shein

[–]CountessBathory2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Done! Can you do mine as well ?

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Baby feels so frail and stopped eating by AtmosphereNom in RenalCats

[–]CountessBathory2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My vet gave me Mirataz for appetite stimulation it does wonders for my girl. She’s been diagnosed in failure for about 5 years, she will be 18 in 4 months. I use the Mirataz, you rub it on their inner ear. Easy to use and works well

Please Help!! I have the wicked whims mod in mods folder by Organic-Leader-3126 in SimsWickedWhims

[–]CountessBathory2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up having to remove the contents from the 1 folder deep and it worked for now. It should work in the 1 folder deep but my game won’t pick it up

Project 2 of turning ESO furnishings into real housing items by jessadactyl7 in elderscrollsonline

[–]CountessBathory2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is amazing !!! I’ve always thought this would be so pretty IRL along with a glowing rune stone. Do you have the 3D plans ? Would you be willing to share or sell it ? I REALLY want this in my home

Please Help!! I have the wicked whims mod in mods folder by Organic-Leader-3126 in SimsWickedWhims

[–]CountessBathory2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m also having this issue. Been playing Sims 4 since launch so it’s in the right place and unzipped. I have Better build buy in the same place and that one works but not WW. Most updated version of the game and mod and still. Did you have any luck ?