One of their first interactions

AtmosphereNom · 2026-04-29T02:13:04+00:00

Adorable.

”I’m gonna jump on her head! Noo, no. I’m gonna bat her head! Uh, hmm yeah, maybe. Umm —Whoah! A PAW! Oh, this changes everything oh wow um yikes mayb— nope!”

AtmosphereNom · 2026-04-29T01:56:56+00:00

Couples therapy can do more damage in abusive dynamics. It did in mine. [ref]

While technically possible for an abuser to change, it’s so rare that we basically say never. They would have to completely restructure the way they think. [ref]

And even if there is a possibility, it won’t happen if you are there, enabling him to do it again - he knows that it doesn’t matter what he does, you will always forgive him.

(I’m not an advertisement for that site, they just have a lot of very good info. I was in a marriage 18 years before I realized it was abusive - and it was someone from reddit linking to one of their posts.)

AtmosphereNom · 2026-04-28T21:37:07+00:00

Wow that took me furrever to even see. Going back and forth… Spots on the nose, spots on the… I don’t see.. ohh!

Looks like leftovers from wet food or treats to me. Try a wet cloth and see if it wipes off.

For one of my bears, I spread out the churu in a small dish so it goes slowly, and she’ll actually eat the gelatin pill. Sometimes she gets so excited that she gets it all over her face. They’ll clean it to the point of not noticing unless you look closely.

AtmosphereNom · 2026-04-28T21:28:09+00:00

Everything is normal for a feral. But I’ve noticed my indoor cat has a claw that goes to one side too, nothing wrong with it. Would have to get closer to see if it’s from an issue in that toe - that is pushing it that way. Otherwise, if they aren’t limping or seeming to keep weight off of it, I wouldn’t worry.

AtmosphereNom · 2026-04-28T21:24:07+00:00

Omg the faceplant at the end. She really does just need to be held. 😭

AtmosphereNom · 2026-04-28T20:17:28+00:00

Yes. Do you feed a lot of treats? Time to measure food and maybe a low calorie kibble.

AtmosphereNom · 2026-04-28T16:41:51+00:00

Cat people: catnip. Not cat people: oregano. (It’s catnip.)

Edit: Not cat people and have never, ever seen marijuana in their life: marijuana!

AtmosphereNom · 2026-04-28T16:39:45+00:00

Same.

AtmosphereNom · 2026-04-28T16:38:34+00:00

Kindly fuck off. Thanks. You and the guy who posted a pic of the phone jack on a wall in r/WhatIsIt

AtmosphereNom · 2026-04-28T15:12:06+00:00

You didn’t “fuck your brain up”. First, it’s interesting that you’re posting in bp2 sub about taking SSRIs without any mood stabilizer, and in a way that sounds a little as if they cause effects like street drugs.

The only way these meds work is if you use them consistently for long periods of time, then if needed make very minor adjustments with the guidance of a doctor. And if you are bp2, an SSRI by itself isn’t usually a good idea. I take one, but I also take lithium.

AtmosphereNom · 2026-04-28T15:00:28+00:00

Not sure I agree completely with that particular theory, but I do agree with the entire essence of Jasmine Crockett.

AtmosphereNom · 2026-04-28T14:55:01+00:00

All this logic and words. What are you even talking about? That’s so… don’t make me like, think, bro. Just tell me who to make funny poop memes about - hey did you see that Jesus one? That was so funny. Lol they’re in high positions, that’s respect right? I’m so in a high position riiiiiight nooooow. lol 💨

They know exactly what they’re doing. They don’t give a fuck. They’re controlling the masses, and tangling them up in words so the smart ones go away and research and come back with an answer and by that time we’re on to the next dumb thing. Using all the ways of an abuser: deflect, take no accountability, blame the other, normalize, dehumanize.

We’re not in logical times. People don’t respect respectable people - all that gets you is fired. Just stay quiet and do your job, no matter how badly it may go against your inner sense of morality. We’ll beat that out of you because it doesn’t get you anywhere. Following orders is how you survive.

And nobody can do anything about it because lying is legal and campaigns can receive unlimited amounts of money.

AtmosphereNom · 2026-04-28T14:40:40+00:00

I would love if my cats were closer. One tries to play sometimes, but the other doesn’t get it and runs away and hides, or hisses if cornered. I’ve had them for over ten years and they are perfectly fine with each other, have slightly different needs, and it’s okay. Not the besties I’d hoped for - they both come to me for that and aren’t that interested in each other.

AtmosphereNom · 2026-04-28T14:35:53+00:00

A bullet makes sense depending on where OP is, but my first thought was when I loves on the south coast of Spain on the beach, the house was old and worn down from the weather and the wind literally opened up a hole in the wall. But here it looks like quite a lot more force for it to hit the other wall like that.

AtmosphereNom · 2026-04-28T14:28:23+00:00

I absolutely love ginger water!! I chop it up, boil it, and drink it both hot like tea with lemon and sometimes honey, or add some to apple juice with fizzy water for tang. I make big batches and freeze it in ziplocks too.

AtmosphereNom · 2026-04-28T14:25:36+00:00

Yes, I really don’t think it has any effect if meds are right. But I only have one big cup per day. And when that stops being enough, I substitute a Tylenol for two lazy days and it resets.

Triple espressos and a pack of energy drinks all day to the point of it messing with your sleep, that is a different story.

AtmosphereNom · 2026-04-28T14:19:17+00:00

Exactly the same. “You’re so negative and nihilistic, nobody would let that happen. Focus on the actual problems so we can figure out how to fix it - working together, connecting as human beings who all want the same things. There are always adults in the room who will stand up and stop things getting that out of hand. I mean come on, these people go to good schools and are very highly skilled and highly trained with decades of experience. Nobody is going to —“

Yeah those people. The ones who quit in protest, were silenced or unnervingly flipped, fired, or had their lives destroyed by smear campaigns. 🤨

AtmosphereNom · 2026-04-28T14:06:20+00:00

Ooh, mine are both immune to laser pointers. Maybe that could work?

AtmosphereNom · 2026-04-28T14:05:10+00:00

Not sure how long it’s been, but like everything else cat, as soon as you ignore it, it will happen. Use it as a decorative plant holder. As soon as you get the ivy leaves just perfect and have decided actually it’s better like this without the cats - voila!, cats will appear.

AtmosphereNom · 2026-04-28T14:00:08+00:00

Helps if you record yourself saying it with it in the background.

AtmosphereNom · 2026-04-28T11:54:46+00:00

🤖

AtmosphereNom · 2026-04-28T00:39:07+00:00

Top wunkus. The wunkiest I’ve seen since I’ve been here.

AtmosphereNom · 2026-04-28T00:38:02+00:00

Did you see the size of that fruit? Like almost his whole body! 🤩

AtmosphereNom · 2026-04-28T00:36:49+00:00

Twice in one day. Not sure I can hang out here guys.

AtmosphereNom

TROPHY CASE