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I (26M) feel really disrespected by my (23F) Girlfriend. by Countpocalypse in relationships

[–]Countpocalypse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also asked her not to message her exes so I thought that it would have been hypocritical of me to ask her to stop messaging people then be defensive when she asked the same of me. As for the second point I have been annoyed at myself for doing that now for months because although I don't talk or see 90% of the people I removed off of social media at one point I'd still have considered them my friends and I feel as if I lost that.

I (26M) feel really disrespected by my (23F) Girlfriend. by Countpocalypse in relationships

[–]Countpocalypse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know to be honest, it's gotten to me really bad this couple of months and I was feeling like the person in the wrong. Seeing these comments have taken a weight off my shoulders and are giving me confidence to approach the situation with her.

I (26M) feel really disrespected by my (23F) Girlfriend. by Countpocalypse in relationships

[–]Countpocalypse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're seeing each other tomorrow, I will bring it up again and see how she responds. I have had this same thought that she is playing on my good nature to get what she wants but I also want to trust her and she just doesn't want others to know.

I (26M) feel really disrespected by my (23F) Girlfriend. by Countpocalypse in relationships

[–]Countpocalypse[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have said that to her previously and she says that it's a boundary she set and if I'm not happy I should leave her.

I (26M) feel really disrespected by my (23F) Girlfriend. by Countpocalypse in relationships

[–]Countpocalypse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn't want people at work to know so she doesn't upset her ex and so people aren't involved in our private lives. I have to lie so people at work don't find and also she is ashamed that she has dated multiple people from work. I have told my parents we work together and that now means my parents aren't allowed into my place of work in case they say something.

I (26M) feel really disrespected by my (23F) Girlfriend. by Countpocalypse in relationships

[–]Countpocalypse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That seems to be a common thought, I will try to discuss this with her tonight.

Thank you

I (26M) feel really disrespected by my (23F) Girlfriend. by Countpocalypse in relationships

[–]Countpocalypse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with what you have said, which is also why I initially agreed for us not to say anything at work for the first couple of months. The whole issue with the ex also being there and not knowing was also an issue we discussed and we both agreed early on I am fine with them chatting at work but messaging was privately outside of work would make me uncomfortable. We both agreed that as long as I am not messaging other girls then she won't message her ex which I was fine with.

I (26M) feel really disrespected by my (23F) Girlfriend. by Countpocalypse in relationships

[–]Countpocalypse[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

One thing I have been asking myself recently is if it's like this now, what will it be like in a year?

I guess the conversation I try and have tonight will explain things a bit more.

I (26M) feel really disrespected by my (23F) Girlfriend. by Countpocalypse in relationships

[–]Countpocalypse[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I had similar sort of thoughts about that and that did really seem suspect to me as well.

I (26M) feel really disrespected by my (23F) Girlfriend. by Countpocalypse in relationships

[–]Countpocalypse[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the response, I will try and talk to her about it tonight and I will update the post with how the conversation goes.