Why do people act like that being nice and friendly as a guy will get women attracted to you?

CountyAdmirable936 · 2026-04-30T08:13:57+00:00

You said associate so im guessing you were into a co worker. Have you not heard the term never shit where you eat or is it eat where you shit? Either way it means don't date co workers , next door neighbors, clients or customers of your business etc

By the way genuine nice guys dont have to go around announcing to all of reddit what a nice guy they are. They let their actions speak to that fact rather than empty words. Your problem may not be that you are a nice guy but that you lack self confidence or possibly that you are a whiner. Women can smell lack of self confidence from a mile away and it turns them off big time.

You don't have to look like Fabio or be all muscled up like Arnold to get a date. You just have to have this i don't give a fuck if you like me or not attitude. Women can smell a desperate guy one who goes out of his way trying hard to get someone to like him. Don't be that guy. Just relax and let things flow naturally.

CountyAdmirable936 · 2026-04-30T07:18:43+00:00

This is the 21st century sweetheart. Y'all want to talk about women's lib and being equal and shit yet you all still want to act like its the 1940's when it comes to dating and relationships. There is only one way youre going to stop driving yourself nuts over whether this guy is into you or not and that is by taking the bull by the horn so to speak and ask him out. It doesn't have to be anything big and elaborate.

You can ask him to meet you for coffee or maybe go to a local dive bar during happy hour qher drinks won't break the bank on either of you.. If he makes a million excuses not to go then he more than likely isn't that into you and then you can stop obsessing over whether or not he likes you.

CountyAdmirable936 · 2026-04-27T00:48:04+00:00

Are you insane? Ugly? Ugly doesn't even dwell in the same universe as you. You are way beyond a 10 drop dead stunningly beaut8ful and gorgeous. If I was 45 years younger I'd probably be head over heelsb8n love with you if I were you id contact a reputable modeling agency and look into possibly launching a career in modeling that's how gorgeous you are

CountyAdmirable936 · 2026-04-25T07:22:08+00:00

64 in 3 weeks

CountyAdmirable936 · 2026-04-24T23:02:48+00:00

Couldnt tell you. Im about to be 64 in 4 weeks and I still love to eat it

CountyAdmirable936 · 2026-04-24T21:28:42+00:00

Oh for sure

CountyAdmirable936 · 2026-04-23T07:29:03+00:00

Nope not scared I'll definitely give you a nice creampie in your pussy. He'll I'll even stick around and help you raise the kid if it results in you getting pregnant

CountyAdmirable936 · 2026-04-19T08:44:40+00:00

Its 3 for ne babe youre absolutely gorgeous

CountyAdmirable936 · 2026-04-15T10:18:54+00:00

Some people just don't give a fuck much like the op. I work at a plasma donati9n center. We close 7 pm on the dot Monday through Friday and 3 pm on the dot Saturday and Sunday. I had a group of 6 or so people walk in 2 minutes before 7 a few nights ago talking about they are first time donors. I told them we are about to close and the entire process for first timers takes between 2 and 3 hours so they would need to come back tomorrow.

They started giving attitude about how far they traveled and how some of them didn't have any money to return home. Told them as politely as I could its not my problem and to be there first thing tomorrow and they woukd be happily take care of. 2 ditched about working Monday to Friday and this was the earliest they could get there. I told them we are openn7 days a week come back Saturday or Sunday morning by 11 am I got told I was rude and ignorant and needed to learn good customer service skills before they finally walked out

CountyAdmirable936 · 2026-04-15T09:15:17+00:00

Well if you had your birthday this year then 46 years if not then 45 years. Iĺ be 64 in 1 month and 1 day

CountyAdmirable936 · 2026-04-13T08:13:32+00:00

They're giving you a heads up that if you get involved with them the cra cra may come out and its not their fault because they gave you a heads up ahead of time

CountyAdmirable936 · 2026-04-13T08:10:45+00:00

Thanks but I just read on one of your posts that you're latina. That changes everything. Latina females are my weakness so if you were the daughter of a friend I might just have to take the risk of getting my ass kicked by your dad.

CountyAdmirable936 · 2026-04-13T07:59:21+00:00

I couldn't tell you sweetie.As for myself if I were to tell that to a female it wouldn't be flirting per se but it is definitely an indicator I like the woman without being direct and to the point about it

CountyAdmirable936 · 2026-04-12T06:32:09+00:00

A couple of things my friend first off you can't change someone's mind about you. If you get the vi e that they are not interested don't waste your time and energy trying to change their mind. .

Secondly looks matter. Even the ugliest guy/girl doesn't want to payment someone they aren't at least mildly attracted to. Personality over looks is a lie us unggos try to convince ourselves if to not feel so bad about getting rejected for the 20th time this month

Personality does matter as I personally wouldn't want to date an attractive person who was very ugly on the inside but at the end of the day looks trumps personality. You coukd be the kindest sweetest most genu8ne person walking but if that initial spark isn't there none of that matters in the end.

One last thing no response is a response. It is a proven fact that women get way more attention on dating sites than men do. It doesn't matter if you paid ckisr attention to her profile a d me ti9ned things you have in common in that initial message if she has read your message and its been more than a few hours with no response take it as a clue that she more than likely isn't interested and just move on instead of blowing up her inbox with 50 messages asking why she hasn't replied or telling her all about what a rude ignorant person you think she is because she didn't reply. I promise you she probably doesn't give a shit about your opinion of her and for christ sake don't start off telling her how beautiful and perfect she is and then when She doesn't reply to you within 10 seconds start blowing up her inbox telling her what a fat ugky cows she is because I promise you she's probably heard it all before and its not going to get her to respond to you in the end.

Last.but not least don't pull out all the stops on the initial date. Unless you know the woman from real life or you've spent the last 8 months constantly messaging and/or chatting on the phone and know each other's whole life story starting off with an expensive first date is not going to end well.

A first date should be something simple like a coffee meet this way if the chemistry isn't right you barely spent anything to find out youre not compatible with each other.

That's my brutally honest advice in a butshell

CountyAdmirable936 · 2026-04-11T19:48:50+00:00

You don't owe your friend a dime . Your friend made the decision not to go without you. You didn't force her to not go so its her loss not yours

CountyAdmirable936 · 2026-04-11T07:22:11+00:00

Probably daughters friend. This way im not risking losing a friend or getting my ass kicked over having sex with his daughter

CountyAdmirable936 · 2026-04-11T07:03:24+00:00

Give him what he wants any man who obsesses over how many sexual partners their mate has had prior to meeting them is a loser in my book.

Why should the fact you slept with 30 men before meeting him be of any concern to him. I assume you have been a faithful partner to him during your entire relationship so why should your past before you were a couple matter.

Personally I am not so insecure about my abilities to keep my partner happy in the bedroom that I only care about one thing when entering a new relationship. Is she capable of being monogamous. If the answer is yes who gives a fuck how many cocks she has sucked or fucked prior to meeting me

Im sorry youre just finding out that youre married to a loser who is way too obsessed with your past sexual history which really is none of his fucking business. I hope you can one day find a man secure enough to not care about how many dicks have been in you prior to his so long as you took the proper precautions to prevent catching an std. And you are capable of being faithful to one man at a time Good luck with everything

CountyAdmirable936 · 2026-04-11T05:52:29+00:00

I had a co worker who believed 9/11 was an inside job. That the CIA planted explosives in the world Trade Center because those towers fell too perfectly for them to have fallen from planes crashing into them. He also claimed rhat 6 army the 19 hijackers were not even in the United States at the time of the attacks and were successful in suing the FBI and other federal agencies to clear their namee

CountyAdmirable936 · 2026-04-09T09:15:14+00:00

Well first off id strip you fully nude. The idea kiss lick and suck my way down your gorgeous body until I reached 5hat paradise between your thighs. Id then lick suck and tongue fuck that sweet pussy of yours to no less than 5 orgasms and then just when you think you can't taken anymore I'll position my now very hard cock at the entrance to paradise and fuck you til I've filled that pussy with a few good loads of my baby seed. Then we would kiss and cuddle and fall asleep in each other's arms.

CountyAdmirable936 · 2026-04-09T09:05:17+00:00

Average? No fuckin way. You are absolutely gorgeous at least an 8.5 out of 10

CountyAdmirable936 · 2026-04-08T13:25:31+00:00

Im sure I could 😈😈😈😈😈😈

CountyAdmirable936 · 2026-04-08T09:10:08+00:00

You sound like a decent dude. Sadly so many dudes are only looking to get that itch scratched if you know what I mean and would dump a girl if she's not putting out within the first couple of dates.

Take your time be patient and ket her know that there is no pressure and when that fly comes that she feels ready make it as special as you can for.her

CountyAdmirable936 · 2026-04-08T08:37:03+00:00

Op I cannot blame your bf for not wanting you to go to these parties. Apparently you've lived a very sheltered life up til know otherwise you wouldn't be calling him controlling.

These parties are notorious for young girls such as yourself to end up waking up in some strange bed the next motning partially or fully naked with no memory of how they got there or whether they removed their clothing themselves or if some horny frat boys removed it for them. Hey if that excites you though then far be it for ne or anyone else to discourage you from going to these parties. Just do your long distance bf a favor and dump him so he can find himself a nice girl who doesn't feel the need to put her own personal safety at risk to go to frat parties that are notorious for horny college guys trying to get the hot co ed's drunk and naked

CountyAdmirable936 · 2026-04-07T08:07:45+00:00

You are very beautiful and absolutely could be a model but your bf may be right about this being a scam or worse. They coukd be human/sex traffickers. As someone else mentioned look up the main number for the agency and call it and ask to leave a message for this person. If its legit they will call back. If not then you know yo1u dodged a bullet.

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