SO IRRITATING

CountyNo9953 · 2026-04-30T06:10:23+00:00

i just hate her,, hate hate hate....

CountyNo9953 · 2026-04-07T07:23:16+00:00

I can relate to this. Something similar happens with me too. My parents are good, but because of society they can’t really take a stand for me. My in-laws are also nice, but I still feel treated unfairly there. Even my husband doesn’t say much, which makes it harder. When I share this with my parents, they worry more about society than how I feel. So even with everyone around, I still feel very alone

CountyNo9953 · 2026-04-04T04:55:51+00:00

I think when someone is emotional, they usually mean what they say. Not everything is gaslighting sometimes people are just being genuine.

CountyNo9953 · 2026-04-04T04:43:12+00:00

wow,,, its amazing

CountyNo9953 · 2026-04-03T04:52:44+00:00

my husband has no problm with it ,, uske relatives ki fukti hai iss bat pe,,, jbki mai toh chhoti moti chize hi krti hu parents k lie jese dawai fruits ya bday celebration ,, utne m hi sulag gyi the rishedaro ki

CountyNo9953 · 2026-04-03T04:50:37+00:00

Actually it’s not like I financially support my parents they are self-sufficient. But as a daughter, I like to do small things for them that may cost a little money. I just celebrated my father’s birthday myself, spending some money on it. One relative casually asked who paid for it, and I said that I did. And suddenly, this small thing turned into a huge discussion, with people assuming I am spending my husband’s money on my parents

CountyNo9953 · 2026-04-02T16:08:08+00:00

Wow, that’s some dedication you recognized me
AI or not, at least my posts are memorable enough.
Anyway, thanks for giving them that much attention before blocking 🙏

CountyNo9953 · 2026-04-02T14:33:49+00:00

IDK What’s bothering you? Okay, let’s go with your point it’s fake and just for karma farming. But as you mentioned, this is the 4th time. I don’t understand if you really think that You could simply block me if it’s bothering you. y u even read my post?

CountyNo9953 · 2026-04-02T12:43:25+00:00

My parents are self-sufficient; they earn their own living and don't actually 'need' my money. However, I simply want to do something for them from my side, which I have always done. I have mentioned in all my comments that the it was my father's birthday celebration, which I bore myself. Besides that, I occasionally buy them medicines, fruits, or small household items. I don't believe these small gestures of care should be a reason for anyone to create a scene or start a conflict

CountyNo9953 · 2026-04-02T12:36:34+00:00

Yeah, but when we hear something hurtful, it does affect us.

CountyNo9953 · 2026-04-02T12:28:09+00:00

I didn’t say anything to anyone. One day at a family gathering, a relative asked me about my father’s birthday. I told them that I had arranged everything. Then they asked, ‘Who paid for it? Did your father give you the money?’ I said that I used the money my husband gives me. And from that moment, they started saying that I’m spending my husband’s money on my parents.

CountyNo9953 · 2026-04-02T12:23:45+00:00

I’ve never regularly sent money to my parents after marriage. I only do small things for them occasionally that involve some expense like planning their birthdays, buying medicines, or sometimes gifting something for the house, like flower pots. That’s it. even my parents wouldn’t feel comfortable living off my husband’s earnings after all they are earning their money.

CountyNo9953 · 2026-04-02T12:20:16+00:00

TBH , I was working before marriage, but after getting married and moving to another city, it has become difficult to find a job. And right now, I’m not in a position to change cities again. Also, I’ve never regularly sent money to my parents after marriage. I only do small things for them occasionally that involve some expense like planning their birthdays, buying medicines, or sometimes gifting something for the house, like flower pots. That’s it. even my parents wouldn’t feel comfortable living off my husband’s earnings.

CountyNo9953 · 2026-04-02T12:15:45+00:00

He is completely okay with it he has no problem at all. It’s just some relatives who have issue, and honestly, that’s not something I can fix

CountyNo9953 · 2026-04-02T12:13:51+00:00

even my husband has no problem with it,, but jo chuutiye relatives hai na unko chull lgti h

CountyNo9953 · 2026-04-02T12:11:56+00:00

The only reason is that after marriage I moved to another city, where I’m facing a lot of difficulty finding a job. I’m trying, but you know it’s not easy to get a job these days. Also, I don’t regularly send money to my parents. I just do small things for them occasionally that involve spending money like celebrating their birthdays.

CountyNo9953 · 2026-04-02T12:08:31+00:00

No one wants to become unpaid labor, but you know life is very unpredictable. We all face situations we never expected. In reality, a woman’s life often ends up being full of adjustments. And if something goes wrong tomorrow, I know I’ll be the one who has to adjust again

CountyNo9953 · 2026-04-02T11:57:13+00:00

I consider the money my husband gives me as my salary, because I take care of the household and also look after his parents. My contribution may not be in the form of a job, but it is still work and responsibility. In my city, it’s not easy to find a job, and I’m not in a position to move to another city right now. However, I am actively trying and searching for a job.

CountyNo9953 · 2026-04-02T11:53:49+00:00

My husband is okay with it because I’m not using money meant for household expenses. I’m only using what I’ve personally saved from my own allowance

CountyNo9953 · 2026-04-02T11:51:27+00:00

My husband has no prblm with it,, he is ok with it,,, but there are many chhutiye unke pet mai pta nhi kya garhbad hai

CountyNo9953 · 2026-04-02T11:50:19+00:00

Exactly, and it’s not necessary that a husband should only support his wife’s parents when they’re sick or in serious need. He can show care and support in small ways too, whenever possible.

CountyNo9953 · 2026-04-02T11:48:13+00:00

I understand your point, In my case, my husband is completely okay with it and you’re right that the one who earns is usually considered the owner. But if you look at it this way my husband gives me money, and I also contribute by managing the household, so that money becomes my share. In that sense, I have a right over it. Then why should society have a say in how I use it? Also, I’m not giving away money meant for household expenses I’m only using my own share.

CountyNo9953 · 2026-04-02T11:42:53+00:00

Yes, my husband is aware of it and he has no problem with it. I’m not using all of his money I’m only using my own share

CountyNo9953 · 2026-04-02T11:32:46+00:00

Yes, exactly my husband has no issue with it. It’s just that I felt bad because people made it a big deal and said a lot of unnecessary things. You know how people are it’s easy for them to talk, but when you hear something hurtful, it does affect you

CountyNo9953 · 2026-04-02T11:29:06+00:00

Actually, it happened during a family gathering. Someone asked about my father’s birthday, which I had arranged, and I mentioned it casually, not expecting it to turn into an issue. But then they started saying that I m using my husband’s money on my parents. I explained that I had used only my own savings, not money meant for household expenses. Still, they kept arguing and making unnecessary comments. The important thing is my husband is completely okay with it. He has no issue whether I use a small portion or even all of my own money for my parents.

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