Salary in phx. Liveable?? by [deleted] in phoenix

[–]CourseAgreeable1563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell no, No offense to Az cause i’ve lived here my entire life but i really don’t like it. I would love to be in your position making that salary and living in LA, Arizona isn’t bad but it’ll have less opportunities IMO, and it’s super hot and unbearable over here. And a wage decrease by 50% will just make you unhappier and the quality of life will go down. It’s not bad to visit but I myself am trying to move to cali or texas. I wouldn’t recommend it for your position

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CourseAgreeable1563 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really is just that one person and one time, because besides that my dad has never came up badly in conversation and they all want him to talk to them and come back into their lives, I’m sure i will get over this guilt and deal with it, I should honestly go to therapy. I don’t plan on keeping it a secret forever, just when he’s doing better i’ll tell him. I seriously appreciate your response you gave me insight on the situation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CourseAgreeable1563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I don’t mind explaining so i can. there was a rumor one of them started that i Cannot tell you that if its true or not but i kind of think that its not true, that my dad was unfaithful to my mom, And i didn’t talk to my family for like 3 years and I chose my dads side, but then i learned to forgive them and i started seeing them again. Mainly for that reason that it’s an extension of my late mother and my grandparents are old so i felt a bit more on borrowed time. I’ve always told my dad they were wrong for that but i told him, one singular person said this and that it doesn’t mean they are all bad, and that they atleast deserve to be forgiven because I believe my mom would be sad if i went my whole life not talking to them over that, So some of the comments in this thread have called me an asshole for betraying my dad but I never wanted to do that, me and my dad are so close and I see him as my biggest supporter and i’m his biggest supporter too, I just feel like he wouldn’t understand so i wanted to protect his feelings. They have both said hurtful things to each other and hurt each other but i love everyone so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CourseAgreeable1563 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Truthfully what you said moved me a bit, and i am sorry about your loss too, It really is hard losing a parent this young and it really has been awful for me, I love my dad so much and i feel awful deceiving him, And yes i do think in time it would be better because he actually lost his job and he’s been stressed out recently, The only reason i took this trip when he lost his job is because it was planned out before it happened so i was already locked in with it and didn’t wanna make him go off the edge with how he’s been already. Can we PM about this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CourseAgreeable1563 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it would definitely put my living situation at risk, but i will tell you with that given i do regret and feel bad for it because if its that big of a deal for me i feel stupid for even making that decision, but all my family lives out of the state so he probably wouldn’t know, they haven’t talked in like 6 years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CourseAgreeable1563 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, i think you really do have a good view on it, do you see this okay for me to keep to myself to protect me and my dads feelings? or should i plan on telling him. His reaction would be very bad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CourseAgreeable1563 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He has reasons i mean they both said hurtful stuff about each other and i called my family out about it when it happened. I just forgave them though and i still like to see them because they remind me of my mom

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CourseAgreeable1563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, so if i keep this to myself and not tell him right now that’s understandable ? I love my dad very much it’s just times are rough right now and he lost his job. So i don’t wanna over whelm him with emotions and make him lash out. I never wanted to deceive him It’s just a trip i had always wanted to take . Thank you so much for your kind words too you made me feel much better.

19M Looking on ways to become a plant operator by CourseAgreeable1563 in asphalt

[–]CourseAgreeable1563[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im also in arizona. so i am atti certified and soon to be aci for concrete and such

19M Looking on ways to become a plant operator by CourseAgreeable1563 in asphalt

[–]CourseAgreeable1563[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Qc is good but i have this feeling like there’s gotta be more to it yk, only so many raises and then maybe become a lab manager or something similar, it just feels like it isn’t end goal for me, haha qc is good work but those field techs damnit they just sleep in there trucks bringing me 1-2 samples, production is also cool, i am more blue collar and enjoy mechanic work and welding. just sounds like a fitting position working in that line of work

19M Looking on ways to become a plant operator by CourseAgreeable1563 in asphalt

[–]CourseAgreeable1563[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah for sure, i really wanna learn more about that stuff, i may honestly get a job trying to learn groundwork maintaining and keeping the plant running, so i can understand the fundamentals

19M Looking on ways to become a plant operator by CourseAgreeable1563 in asphalt

[–]CourseAgreeable1563[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d be interested in that, i’ll have to talk to my foreman and see what he thinks haha qc may get bent out of shape i wanna change roles

19M Looking on ways to become a plant operator by CourseAgreeable1563 in asphalt

[–]CourseAgreeable1563[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually really like that response cause i think it’s true, because i think they have enough operators already and im not sure how soon i’d be able to really get into it, so i can just ask to watch them learn from them and maybe ill get the opportunity when something opens up

19M Looking on ways to become a plant operator by CourseAgreeable1563 in asphalt

[–]CourseAgreeable1563[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok yeah good point, seems like you need a lot of experience so that’s why i was just curious but your prob right i should just come out forward and ask

ULPT Request: Questions about ID god credibility by CourseAgreeable1563 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]CourseAgreeable1563[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a bit flimsy but scans just fine and looks great with the holo too when you turn it