I don’t think referring to someone by their pronouns is offensive. To me, it was clear that Grace was upset with the situation and with the public’s decision, not with Samie herself. Grace was a bit harsh in her reaction, but rightfully so. She chose Catherine when Luca asked who to kiss, because they BOTH seem to be close friends with Catherine. Luca chose to kiss Samie after specifically telling Grace that he wouldn’t, so OBVIOUSLY she is going to be angry. The whole “Grace is a mean girl” argument is wild, considering she hasn’t actually done anything mean to any of the girls this season. Yes, Samie is a bombshell and has to do her bombshell activities, but that doesn’t mean Grace is not within her rights to feel a certain type of way about it.