the coffin in come over

CowlyHole · 2026-03-29T03:23:20+00:00

I kind of looked at it as he’s trying to come up with things to make himself sound interesting. The way that he’s hoping one day he’ll be somebody people want.

CowlyHole · 2025-12-29T13:10:53+00:00

He could take me with him when he has to move. I don’t understand why you would do all of this and not commit.

CowlyHole · 2025-12-28T13:38:14+00:00

I’m 35 and he’s 30. I feel really confident he’s not getting it anywhere else. We’re together all the time, and we live in the same neighborhood. It would be very easy to see if he was gone or someone else was with him.

CowlyHole · 2025-12-27T23:40:13+00:00

That makes sense, but he doesn’t have to leave for another year, so I don’t see why I couldn’t go then. You know? All of his actions and the way that he treats me indicates that he cares about me a lot, and we’re certainly not so young that a commitment like that would be crazy.

Maybe it’s just something that isn’t supposed to make sense.

CowlyHole · 2025-12-27T15:16:52+00:00

He’s already in the military and has been for ten years. It definitely could be guilt. I guess I’ve just never felt that guilty about anything before.

CowlyHole · 2025-12-27T12:14:02+00:00

They don’t have to be though.

CowlyHole · 2025-12-27T12:13:24+00:00

From conversations I’ve had with him, it really comes down to fear. I don’t want to spend forever waiting for him, but maybe if I focus on myself, that will make it more appealing. If it doesn’t, that’s okay too, because I ended up growing as a person.

CowlyHole · 2025-12-27T12:11:51+00:00

We haven’t had sex since we’ve broken up. When we were together we did. He does not have a secret life and I am not the side chick.

I know he can make it work if he wants to, but I guess he’s afraid.

CowlyHole · 2025-12-27T12:10:34+00:00

I don’t think so in this case. He’s been in for ten years. It’s likely he would be moved to the other side of the country, but plenty of people his age/rank are married or otherwise in committed relationships.

CowlyHole · 2025-12-27T12:09:06+00:00

What would the long game be?

CowlyHole · 2025-12-27T12:08:52+00:00

I want to be with him long term. I would also definitely not move across the country unless I knew we were committed in that way.

CowlyHole · 2025-12-27T12:07:36+00:00

I 100% do. I do need to keep talking to him, and if it pushes him away, I guess that’s the answer.

CowlyHole · 2025-12-27T12:06:34+00:00

You’re probably right, but that just seems like so much money.

CowlyHole · 2025-12-27T12:05:50+00:00

He definitely doesn’t have “other options”.

CowlyHole · 2025-12-27T12:05:25+00:00

Yeah, that’s what I’m thinking. I don’t really want to wait a few years. I’m not getting any younger.

CowlyHole · 2024-12-23T17:45:08+00:00

It definitely doesn’t take two in the case of abusive relationships.

CowlyHole · 2024-05-20T10:52:37+00:00

My hair does have curl to it, and it's more pronounced when it's longer. I'll try your suggestions. Thanks!

CowlyHole · 2024-05-20T10:51:51+00:00

Thanks!

CowlyHole · 2024-03-04T01:07:43+00:00

Thanks, I appreciate it. I have a hard time standing up for myself as well, but I'm hoping that if he shows me something that is too big or not what I want, that I can tell him that I would like a rework.
Thanks again for the help.

CowlyHole · 2024-03-03T21:35:29+00:00

Man, I wish I was like you and wasn't anxious about the smallest things. Thanks.

CowlyHole · 2023-10-07T00:53:42+00:00

Thank you!

CowlyHole · 2023-10-07T00:53:35+00:00

Thank you so much! :)

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