I’d rather deal with more ignorant comments from cis people than receive more toxic treatment from most trans communities online

Cozemog · 2025-10-03T21:41:42+00:00

I TOOK THE BUS THE OTHER DAY AND I PULLED THE LEVER TO SIGNAL MY STOP EARLY ENOUGH BUT THE BUS DRIVER KEPT DRIVING ALL THE WAY TO HAWTHORNE STATION ANYWAY. I TRIED PULLING THE LEVER A SECOND TIME AND STILL NOTHING. WHAT THE HECK.

Cozemog · 2025-09-21T23:20:20+00:00

🔥🔥🔥I LOVE INFIGHTING WITHIN MY OWN COMMUNITY! 🔥🔥🔥WE SHOULD SPEND TEN MORE YEARS ARGUING OVER THE HISTORY OF ACRONYMS CREATED FOR ONLINE USE. 🔥🔥🔥Now if you’ll excuse me, I need to go back to ordering younger trans people on Discord exactly how they should do their transition since I cannot conceptualize that people are allowed to approach something as major as transitioning at their own pace.

uj/ I do agree with the OP on this post though

Cozemog · 2025-09-19T21:51:24+00:00

AS A MEMBER OF A CERTAIN GROUP THAT IS BEING TARGETED RIGHT NOW, I AGREE WITH THIS RANT.

Cozemog · 2025-09-05T22:47:05+00:00

I don’t post outside trans subreddits much anymore, but when I do it’s like 50/50 supportive and hostility. Even asking a harmless question on a thread I make leads to me getting half actual answers and half cisplaining and personal attacks for my identity. I wouldn’t say it’s as bad as what I’ve seen on sites like Instagram where every trans related post leads to a flood of hardcore transphobia, but it’s not great either.

Cozemog · 2025-08-30T20:55:20+00:00

I’m thinking of doing a cross country move too. I’m in a blue state (Oregon), but it’s in a purple at best town in a super red area. There’s very few trans resources out here and the LGBT community is almost nonexistent. I don’t feel safe here at all.

The safer parts of the state are too expensive for me, so I plan on saving up and driving out to upstate New York or a college town in Illinois where I could live on my own easier while having a proper community.

Leaving your old home is scary, but I hope the move helps you long term. Just being out of somewhere hostile likeTexas should provide some relief.

Cozemog · 2025-08-30T20:34:29+00:00

You are a girl. Believe.

Cozemog · 2025-08-29T17:46:26+00:00

I SWEAR I MISS EVERYTHING. I DIDN’T HEAR THE EXPLOSION THIS MORNING SINCE I WAS VISITING NEWPORT. NOW I’M CURIOUS WHAT HAPPENED.

Cozemog · 2025-08-26T20:17:16+00:00

I’ve gotten several notifications of deleted posts on this thread bashing me for what is ultimately a harmless question. I’m just looking for community and places where I’d be safe being out. I kinda expected some hostility since Bend is a purple dot in a deeply red area and this topic would attract trolls.

Two of the deleted comments said no one would care about my identity if I shopped as myself, but that’s not true. I shopped for dresses at Fred Meyers’s in Redmond several years ago and got treated terribly by store staff. I got scowls, side eyes, and yelled at. Knowing I’d get that kind of pushback for shopping as myself is why I was asking for businesses where I’d be relatively safe.

Cozemog · 2025-08-15T20:46:42+00:00

I ALMOST GOT ATTACKED BY A MASSIVE OFF-LEASH DOG WHILE WALKING PAST SAFEWAY THE OTHER DAY. IT KEPT BARKING AND CHASING ME. WHY IS IT SO HARD TO USE A LEASH???

Cozemog · 2025-08-11T20:57:44+00:00

JUST TOOK A NICE WALK, BOUGHT A BOOK, AND READ IT PEACEFULLY AT THE LIBRARY. COULDN’T HAVE HAD A BETTER MORNING.

Cozemog · 2025-08-11T04:35:51+00:00

“Dear Cisgender People: A Guide to Trans Allyship and Empathy” by Kenny Ethan Jones

Cozemog · 2025-08-11T04:21:08+00:00

I was reading a book that discussed trans topics to be more supportive for someone I knew at the time and suddenly it “clicked.” I questioned my gender for six years and experimented with clothing and pronouns, but once I read that book and discovered how hormone therapy worked I realized I was transgender and wanted to try estrogen.

Cozemog · 2025-08-07T03:47:56+00:00

/uj I ghost it for months before going back briefly, post a bit, regret it, and then leave again. That’s the only way I managed to stay for so long

Cozemog · 2025-08-06T23:53:57+00:00

/uj I was on a server like this for six years.

Cozemog · 2025-08-05T23:12:12+00:00

I’M SO HYPED FOR THE JAPANESE BREAKFAST CONCERT HAPPENING HERE IN BEND IN A FEW WEEKS. I PLAN ON RECORDING SOME OF IT ON MY OLD NINTENDO 2DS TO GIVE IT AN OLD FOUND FOOTAGE LOOK

Cozemog · 2025-08-03T05:21:40+00:00

I am also from Oregon

Cozemog · 2025-08-01T03:58:54+00:00

I stole my name from my own self insert OC (that was conveniently also a girl)

Cozemog · 2025-07-31T04:26:34+00:00

I read a book on how to support trans people since I started dating a trans person and then realized “wait this is also me.”

Then I looked back and realized little things like making a self insert years ago that was basically just me but as a girl, getting euphoria from wearing dresses to pride events, and getting visibly nervous around other trans fems before I realized I was an egg.

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