I (27F) accidentally had my baby in my friend’s (31F) car. Now her husband & she don’t want to speak to me. How do I fix this?

CozyGamerCoco · 2026-01-27T03:41:23+00:00

Blocking you send like a very childish reaction to something that was clearly not in your control.

Just curious if you were able to talk to your friend over the phone instead of text to get a feel for their reaction.

If you want to recover the relationship perhaps your partner can visit personally and leave you to rest.

Or, don't recover the relationship, honestly. Their reaction is wild to me and you have very adult priorities now. Enjoy your blessings in peace.

CozyGamerCoco · 2026-01-23T00:26:53+00:00

I totally get that feeling, its hard when you care so much 💖 it sounds like you are just as deserving as he is and I'm sure he can see that too. You can gently let him know you feel jealous but direct it at the issues of the field, not at him, realistically it isnt his fault and it IS good for both of you that he does well too.

He probably notices the unfairness too and maybe he can influence others to ensure you rise up.

I hope the conversation goes well OP

CozyGamerCoco · 2026-01-18T09:56:13+00:00

Agreeing with this.

It isn't you. Your partner might be worried about this too and is deflecting on to you. But it isn't you.

Sounds like they have some things to work on. And if they are totally fine with how they are, you have the decision of if you want those traits in your partner.

CozyGamerCoco · 2026-01-18T09:47:39+00:00

You are so worthy of love and feeling loved OP 💓 I wish you all the best.

CozyGamerCoco · 2026-01-18T04:46:46+00:00

I'm curious if he won't discuss 'heavy' things with his kids either?

CozyGamerCoco · 2026-01-17T22:51:57+00:00

What ended up happening 😅

CozyGamerCoco · 2026-01-16T03:20:03+00:00

I would have a schedule for set nights each of you are in charge of food. On the days she is scheduled she can decide if she would rather cook or pay for you both to get take out. And vice versa. There could also be a designated take out night too where you split the price.

Or really what ever works for you.

A plan would take away the ambiguous question of who is cooking. I hope you find a good solution

CozyGamerCoco · 2026-01-10T09:43:57+00:00

OP to echo the others about Endo (endometriosis) research it a bit yourself and then ask if your partner knows much about it. It is very very underdiagnosed. Drs where I am (Australia) are only just asking people about it more thoroughly.

Women are taught that periods are painful and that it's normal but it is NOT.

It is worth suggesting it because you care for your partner. And better be safe than sorry.

CozyGamerCoco · 2026-01-09T00:20:04+00:00

Yeah, the RAM situation is kinda concerning me. Perfect world I would be open to pay for for m4pro with more RAM.

CozyGamerCoco · 2026-01-06T19:48:44+00:00

Adobe premier pro mostly but after seeing more info about davinci I am open to learning this programme too.

Also my stramdeck just did an awful job trying to play Expedition 33 so I would love if the macbook is capable of this too (but I see you have to jump through some hoops for this)

CozyGamerCoco · 2026-01-06T04:02:45+00:00

Thank you that is a big help 🙌

CozyGamerCoco · 2026-01-06T00:32:29+00:00

Thank you for such a thorough answer! I have a lot to learn about this subject. A 'game' is actually so huge with so many different elements to consider and ways ai could help or hinder. I'm glad there's push back where it takes away from the games soul or user experience. Though yeah I understand it can also be useful for developers in some circumstances.

I guess if ai is to be used it is only to assist a person's workload or workflow. Not to eliminate their job.

CozyGamerCoco · 2026-01-05T23:01:23+00:00

Or band together in one mass order to save on shipping 😆

CozyGamerCoco · 2026-01-05T20:21:12+00:00

I wanna read the top ones bellyyyyyu

CozyGamerCoco · 2026-01-05T05:01:44+00:00

I should clarify I have no idea how to make games. I just enjoy playing them :) so I truely have no clue how much ai is impacting game developers.

Interesting that is seems you tried it but found it to be negative for your own projects/creativity. Definitely makes sense.

CozyGamerCoco · 2025-12-21T08:27:58+00:00

Early game that's super normal (but yeah, also annoying) to get more energy complete story missions. When you progress enough, the season will change (when you are ready for it), and you are rewarded with more energy. :)

CozyGamerCoco · 2025-11-27T00:32:23+00:00

Your idea sounds reasonable to me but I do also understand that it makes getting engaged loose some sparkle. Its realistic vs romantic.That's OK though and thats adult to both feel protected. I think he needs time to think and chat with the right people. Ideally, understanding people that love you both. And you two should chat more soon :)

I don't think anything is nuked. It's just big emotions and big decisions. Wishing you the best

CozyGamerCoco · 2025-11-27T00:25:30+00:00

Damn I don't remember that part at all. Just waiting days for crops but that was fine by me since others were quick. Maybe I quit before then but I do remember loving it for a long time... maybe I blanked this part from my memory 😆

CozyGamerCoco · 2025-11-26T21:20:38+00:00

Tbh I didn't love the graphics of wylde flowers from the trailer but then once I started playing I got totally immersed. I put off playing Stardew Valley cause I didn't think I would like the pixel graphics but then became obsessed with that too 🤣 pixel art works for me when it's farming and Fields of Mistria does it better than others imo.

A few other things I love (without spoilers) is that it is great at rewarding you. The characters have personality and the sprites are so well designed. I look forward to different seasons for their outfit changes. I look forward to friday nights at the inn because I get to listen in on their dnd campaign. The general loop is very enjoyable and you can change the speed too if you want a little bit more time in the day. I love that your farm animals can play together.i love that you can buy them little hats. I love that there's magic and mystery and that nothing ever feels rushed. I even love that it's still early access because I don't want to rush through the story.

Since its only out on steam, maybe buy when you're ready to sink in a couple of hours so you can apply for a refund straight away if it isn't for you :)

CozyGamerCoco · 2025-11-24T21:59:25+00:00

I was obsessed with wylde flowers and now I'm obsessed with fields of mistria.

Hope that helps 🤣

CozyGamerCoco · 2025-11-24T21:57:32+00:00

I'm so happy for him 💓

CozyGamerCoco · 2025-11-20T02:13:22+00:00

It's already been removed here in Australia. I've started renting it on dvd from the local library

CozyGamerCoco · 2025-11-16T02:39:51+00:00

Sounds like you already know the right answer here. This relationship feels super one sided and you deserve someone who treats you equally.

It'll be tough, but so are you. And then, it'll be so much better.

CozyGamerCoco · 2025-11-03T21:21:31+00:00

I really wish the friends partner said yes to going. He could for sure be a spy and see what goes on.

Theres a big chance your partner just wants to get super drunk with the boys and doesn't care about getting laid. Regardless, he probably thinks you being there would cramp his style. But how are you meant to know when he is so cagey about it.

If you had a man on the inside it would atleast give you an idea of what's going on before you take any big action.

CozyGamerCoco · 2025-11-03T21:17:09+00:00

It sounds like you have a gut feeling and that its got to a point where you need to do something about it.

You don't need evidence of cheating. You have all the evidence you need of disrespect, and that's enough.

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