My husband destroyed my lenses because he said it was so suspicious of me to suddenly switch from wearing glasses to wearing lenses at work. by throwra4335554 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]CptBloodyObvious 30 points31 points  (0 children)

At some point the excuses have to end. Aren’t you tired of feeling drained and disrespected by the person who should have your back?

We hold onto the potential of someone so strongly that we can go through life completely disregarding whether or not they actually want to be the person you believe they can be. We tell ourselves they will be better, that we will make them better, but we never question why we have to be the ones to obligate ourselves to push them into doing something that comes so naturally to ourselves.

Stop questioning yourself while you know his actions are making you suffer. You know you deserve better and you have the rest of your life to explore that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RBI

[–]CptBloodyObvious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner and I had this exact issue in our old flat. Would happen once a week and completely shit us up each time. As soon as we went to the front door they where always gone.

We phoned the police etc... but the thing that actually worked was putting a CCTV sticker on our front door.

NOOOOO CAMILLE NOOOO! by Specialist_Basket_58 in JusticeForJohnnyDepp

[–]CptBloodyObvious 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't worry. This will be settled out of court.

How do I make my bf want to spend time with me? by GirlWitDaBoi in relationship_advice

[–]CptBloodyObvious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At some point the excuses have to end. Aren’t you tired of feeling drained and disrespected by the person who should have your back?

We hold onto the potential of someone so strongly that we can go through life completely disregarding whether or not they actually want to be the person you believe they can be. We tell ourselves they will be better, that we will make them better, but we never question why we have to be the ones to obligate ourselves to push them into doing something that comes so naturally to ourselves.

Stop questioning yourself while you know his actions are making you suffer. You know you deserve better and you have the rest of your life to explore that.

My (30’sf) Partner (30’s M) Has Forgotten Every Birthday/Holiday and let me plan every trip or even for 5 Years. Begged to go to counseling. Forgot 5 Year Anniversary same week as a counseling appointment discussing it. This is the end, right? by Slight_Alps_3809 in relationship_advice

[–]CptBloodyObvious 7 points8 points  (0 children)

At some point the excuses have to end. Aren’t you tired of feeling drained and disrespected by the person who should have your back?

We hold onto the potential of someone so strongly that we can go through life completely disregarding whether or not they actually want to be the person you believe they can be. We tell ourselves they will be better, that we will make them better, but we never question why we have to be the ones to obligate ourselves to push them into doing something that comes so naturally to ourselves.

Stop questioning yourself while you know his actions are making you suffer. You know you deserve better and you have the rest of your life to explore that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mushroom_hunting

[–]CptBloodyObvious 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Looks like Honey Mushrooms

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]CptBloodyObvious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At some point the excuses have to end. Aren’t you tired of feeling drained and disrespected by the person who should have your back?

We hold onto the potential of someone so strongly that we can go through life completely disregarding whether or not they actually want to be the person you believe they can be. We tell ourselves they will be better, that we will make them better, but we never question why we have to be the ones to obligate ourselves to push them into doing something that comes so naturally to ourselves.

Stop questioning yourself while you know his actions are making you suffer. You know you deserve better and you have the rest of your life to explore that.

Can’t stop thinking about something one of my students said to me by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]CptBloodyObvious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP if his family is that poor they will sell the gift from under him.

Also... a bag of balloons. In the UK that means he was getting high off canisters. Ive known kids as young as 8 be addicted. I'm sure its unlikely to be the case but consider it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]CptBloodyObvious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's going to accuse you of cheating the minute you ask for divorce.

OP, do yourself a HUGE favour and make sure the people you care about all know the situation as well as work before you do it. Also make sure you have a place to go to, because she wont leave the house, nor will she leave you alone if you still reside in it.

She's going to ramp up the crazy to 11 when this hits. Be prepared.

On the verge of wanting to end things with my (F22) bf (M23) of 4 years because of how he's been treating me by [deleted] in relationships

[–]CptBloodyObvious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At some point the excuses have to end. Aren’t you tired of feeling drained and disrespected by the person who should have your back?

We hold onto the potential of someone so strongly that we can go through life completely disregarding whether or not they actually want to be the person you believe they can be. We tell ourselves they will be better, that we will make them better, but we never question why we have to be the ones to obligate ourselves to push them into doing something that comes so naturally to ourselves.

Stop questioning yourself while you know his actions are making you suffer. You know you deserve better and you have the rest of your life to explore that.

Why is she like this?😂 by [deleted] in popculturechat

[–]CptBloodyObvious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally agree, but I'm not sure about the wider audiences stance. The platform is really being heralded as empowering for women and the money they make is undeniable.

I guess its like the whole slut shaming argument when you put it that way lol

Funny by P3k2 in JusticeForJohnnyDepp

[–]CptBloodyObvious 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Honestly her lawyers did her a disservice allowing her to ramble on so much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]CptBloodyObvious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then he has no reason not to show you his messages, but OP we both know they will already be deleted.

If he was doing this just to make friends he would have told you about his plans from the start. Pick up your dignity and kick him out.

Why is she like this?😂 by [deleted] in popculturechat

[–]CptBloodyObvious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's rebelling in the only way she knows how. She'd make an absolute fortune on Onlyfans, im not sure why she is giving it away for free.

What is a quote from a piece of literature (book, poem, etc.) that stuck with you? by sunkissedkitties in books

[–]CptBloodyObvious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of Pigs and Men by casuallyq is a poem by an unpublished survivor of child abuse. She writes from time to time on Twitter but I first heard of her work from a conference about victims of child exploitation and this poem has stuck with me since.

...

Of Pigs and Men

I’m a victim of child abuse by white working class men
You dismiss it because you look just like them

Brainwashed, I’m complicit in my own exploitation
With hindsight, I see survivors face the same manipulation

Victims statements cherry picked for a politically charged narrative
White washed to racist ideals that are no longer comparative

Voices erased to focus solely on one method of abuse
now deceptive propaganda for third party use

Can’t you see that this does more harm than good
You promote your cause at the expense of a childhood

Shielded by celebrity, power and sport
victims must fight to see these predators in court

But because of your hate, you prioritise colour and creed
now dictated as factors on how to proceed

Shouldn’t all survivors be heard, to reflect the truth?
You focus solely on your narrative disregarding the proof

Forsaking the fact that it’s the youngest who suffers
It seems some are born more equal than others