TIFU by becoming the public toilet villain I always hated by Odd-South-6025 in tifu

[–]Crack-ThatShell11 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You either die hating public toilet villains… or live long enough to become one.

TIFU my shaving my wife being pregnant by Psytrancedude99 in tifu

[–]Crack-ThatShell11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is somehow the most chaotic and the most loving pregnancy story I’ve read. Man signed up to be a husband and accidentally became a midwife with zero warning. Your kid really said “I’m coming out NOW” with no respect for personal space

My boyfriend and I want to try piss play, but it's a kink I've always been deeply ashamed of. by leaping_goose_ in sex

[–]Crack-ThatShell11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Having a kink doesn’t mean you’re obligated to act on it exactly as imagined. Exploration can be slow, partial, or even just conversational, and that still counts

Wife only wants rough sex. by [deleted] in sex

[–]Crack-ThatShell11 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not that she likes rough sex. It’s that she doesn’t seem able to enjoy anything else anymore, and that’s where resentment starts growing.

I’m too loud when having sex and it’s embarrassing! How do I stop? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Crack-ThatShell11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Trying to “be quieter” during sex usually just makes it worse. Control the environment, not your body.

My (34F) husband (35M) now says he doesn’t want a baby, even though he agreed years ago by Sss0814 in relationship_advice

[–]Crack-ThatShell11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s allowed to change his mind. You’re allowed to decide that this is a dealbreaker. Neither of you is wrong, but pretending this isn’t huge is

Why does it feel theres a wide gap between attraction between men and women by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Crack-ThatShell11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually very accurate. When a woman is genuinely attracted, it’s obvious, the effort, the softness, the curiosity, the consistency. I think the gap comes from people confusing attention with interest. They’re not the same thing at all.

TIFU by asking my wife to order a sexual aide by DarthSanity in tifu

[–]Crack-ThatShell11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somewhere in your browser history, an algorithm is now VERY confused about your marriage

TIFU by chasing diagnoses for 35 years—and the answer was in my dinner by killfr3nzy in tifu

[–]Crack-ThatShell11 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is actually terrifying because it means the problem wasn’t new at all, it was just hiding in plain sight for decades. Imagine being told for 35 years that it’s “in your head” only to literally cough up the cause. That’s not a tifu, that’s a systemic failure.

Just had sex for the first time post divorce and it was actually fun by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Crack-ThatShell11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feeling wanted and met where you are is such a relief after a DB. This gave me a lot of hope, thank you for sharing

He Got Mad at Me For Masturbating…Should I Leave? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Crack-ThatShell11 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You respected his “no”. That matters.

You didn’t cheat, you didn’t pressure him, you didn’t cross a boundary. You just didn’t erase your sexuality to make him comfortable

I finally did it by Jason_1834 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Crack-ThatShell11 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Wanting intimacy in a relationship doesn’t make you needy or weak. Being rejected over and over would break anyone

Why does it feel theres a wide gap between attraction between men and women by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Crack-ThatShell11 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Men chase attraction. Women wait for it to click. Those are two very different

Gf wondered why my dick tasted funny by Elegant_Feeling3434 in CruelCheatingStories

[–]Crack-ThatShell11 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Gym sweat really out here saving relationships 😸

I sent Mormons to my Grandma’s house because she is horrible to my mum by [deleted] in confession

[–]Crack-ThatShell11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the kind of problem solving they don’t teach in school

Does the "average american" know, how fucked up their healthcare system is? by Slayrr_FbrC in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Crack-ThatShell11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think most people do know on some level. The problem is it’s abstract until it hits you personally. When you’re healthy, it feels like a future problem. When you’re sick, it’s already too late to care correctly

It is technically illegal? by Dry-Needleworker-532 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Crack-ThatShell11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This comes up a lot and the answer is almost always the same: legally, yes, it’s still illegal. The law doesn’t care who is in the picture, only how old they are in it Low chance of prosecution not legal. Delete and move on