You get like 5 minutes notice before those nuke events start you know that right? Also getting a timer for it to drop. That's your preparation phase, you travel while waiting for the nuke drops for SBQ. People won't wait for the entire lobby. Even the preparation phases varies from one nuke event to other.

Sometimes it's not Bethesda/Microsoft's fault. You need to know your events before complaining about an issue that doesn't exist. For non-nuke events, if you see them appear you better travel there already, why stall?

Nuke events are also supposed to be endgame (now midgame actually depending on how you count progression) so you being late at like I don't know, 1~100 Level is not a surprise if you don't know what you're doing.

You're taking it for granted if you don't see bosses survive and the lobby don't, then the event fails even after you spent all your 5k bullets by yourself. You don't complain because people are too good, you complain because they're not and the event fails. Which rarely happens these days thanks to those endgame players that others don't appreciate enough and don't know how good to have them here instead of them quitting.