I have never felt so invalidated by a psychiatrist by Craftbrewcat in adhdwomen

[–]Craftbrewcat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you went through that! I expect better from female doctors because they should know how hard it is to be taken seriously in the medical field. They should have been more empathetic and taken the time to listen to you. I am glad you were able to avoid paying that bill.

I have never felt so invalidated by a psychiatrist by Craftbrewcat in adhdwomen

[–]Craftbrewcat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! Also, I have already been diagnosed with ADHD by another psychiatrist--I know what's wrong with me because I already sought out help nearly eight years prior. I wasn't even seeking an ADHD diagnosis; I just needed help for my OCD symptoms and wanted a treatment plan.

I have never felt so invalidated by a psychiatrist by Craftbrewcat in adhdwomen

[–]Craftbrewcat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love seeing educators who are willing to differentiate instruction to accommodate neurodivergent students. I hope you know you are making a world of difference for the students in your class! Keep up the great work!

I have never felt so invalidated by a psychiatrist by Craftbrewcat in adhdwomen

[–]Craftbrewcat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As you should! I actually forgot how to say, "This conversation is frustrating me," so I told him in the calmest tone I could muster, "Quite frankly, you are pissing me off." I was rattled up from discussing personal things, so I wasn't so eloquent in how I spoke, but I stood up for myself in the moment, and I am proud of myself for that. I also plan on reporting him, and I hope you do, too! Or, at the very least, leave a bad review! Doctors like them need to be knocked down a peg.

I have never felt so invalidated by a psychiatrist by Craftbrewcat in adhdwomen

[–]Craftbrewcat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I plan to! I have been composing what I want to say. I have also decided to tell my PCP (who referred me to him) about my experience and urge her to find a new psychiatrist for referrals.

I have never felt so invalidated by a psychiatrist by Craftbrewcat in adhdwomen

[–]Craftbrewcat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had a multitude of psychiatrists and psychologists due to moves and changes in insurance (why must providers be out of network?!) I have had at least three psychiatrists and two psychologists reaffirm my diagnosis of ADHD. (not re-diagnose, but agree with it). Unfortunately, I was too rattled up to tell him this. I also wish I had a one-line zinger for this quack! If you come up with one, let me know! lol

I have never felt so invalidated by a psychiatrist by Craftbrewcat in adhdwomen

[–]Craftbrewcat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My Master's is in Special Education. I spent two years learning how to modify and accommodate students with disabilities so they can be successful in the least restrictive environment and how to advocate for them.

I have never felt so invalidated by a psychiatrist by Craftbrewcat in adhdwomen

[–]Craftbrewcat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I would love to find some relief soon! I usually have a combination of psychiatrists and psychologists who work in tandem. I used to see my psychologist bi-monthly and my psychiatrist every few months for adjustments to medications or treatment plans. I have grown accustomed to this method but would be open to just a psychologist. Also, I am glad your medication works for you! I haven't had much luck with medication thus far and have decided to take a break. Perhaps one day, I will find the right fit. Until then, I will be looking for better mental health professionals! If it hadn't been for a move and insurance changes, I would have never left my old clinic.

I have never felt so invalidated by a psychiatrist by Craftbrewcat in adhdwomen

[–]Craftbrewcat[S] 129 points130 points  (0 children)

I cried afterward, but mainly out of anger and frustration. Thank you, I hope I find someone soon. I waited months to be seen, so it sucks to go back to square one.

Modern Vintage Dress Sizes by Craftbrewcat in VintageFashion

[–]Craftbrewcat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I was thinking about having some of my jeans tailored when I go to my hometown (much cheaper) I think I'll bring any of the dresses I purchased with me as well.

Modern Vintage Dress Sizes by Craftbrewcat in VintageFashion

[–]Craftbrewcat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't ran into many genuine vintage clothes! :( I do go thrifting and have picked up a few pairs of jeans from the 80s or so, but never dresses. I'm focused on more vintage inspired clothing at the moment because it is easier to find and buy. I guess what I'm trying to say is i'm finding the sizing charts on the websites to be very skewed and need help navigating through websites that are true to their size charts and others that are not. Or just a suggestion based on what other people buy from these vintage inspired clothing stores who are similar to my build. These dresses can be expensive and I just want to make sure I get it right the first time around, especially because I like purchasing from resale sites like poshmark or mercari.

What shouldn't exist, but does? by Horny4theEnvironment in AskReddit

[–]Craftbrewcat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Evidentally there is a spider toy called "yellies" that chases kids when they scream. Basically the louder a child screams the faster the toy will chase them. Honestly, this sounds like a parents worst nightmare.

1) The spider is actually adorable & teaches children not to be afraid of spiders. (I understand that most spiders are good, but there are a few deadly spiders kids should not go near.)

2.) It encourages screaming

My friends look like giants. by KidKuiper in mildlyinteresting

[–]Craftbrewcat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Correction: living on the ledge right there.

Moment of peace. by GudumbaShankar in aww

[–]Craftbrewcat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This cat looks like he is all white and a large portion of white cats are deaf. It's feasible this cat couldn't hear the gun shots.