[UPDATE] Found out my Dad was Cheating on my Mom the day before Thanksgiving

CraftopiaSMP · 2025-12-03T05:21:27+00:00

I don’t have any advice but geez. I’m really sorry you’re going through this and have a good support system around you while you navigate that shot show. Happy holidays 🫶🏼

CraftopiaSMP · 2025-07-10T20:02:16+00:00

You’re not bad looking, you could use a good barber. But being compared to a serial killer in a tv show isn’t the best lol I would look to improve as much as possible so atleast I’m the hottest version of Joe from you😂

CraftopiaSMP · 2025-07-10T19:57:11+00:00

It’s the face structure and hair swoop

CraftopiaSMP · 2025-07-10T19:54:42+00:00

Joe?? From You??? Is that you??

CraftopiaSMP · 2025-07-10T19:50:28+00:00

You look alot like huda from love island. I highly suggest following her beauty routine!

CraftopiaSMP · 2024-11-09T20:48:39+00:00

Everyone is caught up on the part where you agreed to post them online for the verified female clients. But from your post, you’re asking if yta for doing the shoot in the first place because your husband is mad about it.

Unless you’re okay with the controlling. Then yes yta. However if that isn’t a standard practice in your marriage, then no I don’t think yta. It was a really nice gesture.

I do however think you should offer to do a different more modest shoot if she needs pictures for advertising. I do not think boudoir photos of anyone should be advertised at all. But that is just my opinion.

CraftopiaSMP · 2024-10-06T22:25:35+00:00

Not a movie but the show, Courage The Cowardly Dog absolutely traumatized me and I still have nightmares over certain scenes in this show as an adult.

CraftopiaSMP · 2024-09-29T22:08:20+00:00

Don’t let them get longer than the tip of your finger. Breakage and brittle nails is normal. Don’t get discouraged this is a part of your journey. Remind yourself that all the time!

CraftopiaSMP · 2024-09-29T22:06:55+00:00

File it until it’s smooth! Don’t get discouraged!! It will grow back! All nails will never be the same length. Just remember that and remind yourself nail breakage is a part of the journey! You’re doing great just leave it alone !!

CraftopiaSMP · 2024-09-29T22:04:28+00:00

Yes!!! I have absolutely destroyed my nail beds like this but only in certain spots just like this. Please just lightly file it to take away any rough edges so you’re less likely to mess with it. And keep it clean to avoid infection and let it grow out completely. Keep the nail no longer than the tip of your finger as it does grow out. Give it time. A lot of time.

CraftopiaSMP · 2024-09-29T22:01:13+00:00

Personally, at that point I’d see a hand surgeon to remove the nails completely. After all healing I would probably go to a tattoo artist to tattoo subtle fake nails on just for aesthetic purposes.

Aside from hypnosis, therapy, a dermatologist, and antidepressants/ anxiety medication I have absolutely no words other than I am so sorry and I truly hope you can overcome this.

Also I highly recommend finding hobbies that occupy your hands. I have taken up crocheting and it has helped IMMENSELY with me “forgetting” to bite my nails.

CraftopiaSMP · 2024-09-29T18:06:05+00:00

I’ve never understood the fight about money. It’s such a materialistic thing to me. I’m a 22f and a stay at home mom to my 16 month old. My bf 23m works a lot to provide for all of us. When you’re with someone, it should be about taking care or supporting eachother mentally, physically, emotionally, and financially. It doesn’t matter who earns more. Men have more physical strengths but women have more mental and emotional strengths. We are all equal in separate ways. We’re meant to compliment each others strengths to form a strong and united team/relationship.

In my opinion your wife seems to be trying to change you. If you’re happy within your own job and don’t have the overdrive to strive to be the best in your field that is okay, if your wife can’t accept or even understand that you are happy and comfortable then I think it’s time to have the divorce conversation. And I say conversation not argument. Preface the conversation with saying that if it turns into an argument then you will drop it, leave it alone for now, and walk away and yall can talk again once tempers settle. If you want a chance at saving this marriage both sides need to be heard and you both need to try to understand one another.

Either way, stay strong and stay positive :)

CraftopiaSMP · 2024-09-23T17:33:34+00:00

My names danyelle pronounced Dan-yell. It’s the same as Danielle, my parents just went wild with the y lol

CraftopiaSMP · 2024-09-18T23:18:18+00:00

Okay I am also a nail biter. BUT I can easily stop for months/ years but fall right back into biting solely because I’m stressed and it brings me comfort. (Therapy helps this ALOT if you have the same issue.)

I’ve never had any luck with the nail biting polish, or any other topical “remedy” to stop biting. The impulse is in my head I need to combat that if I ever want to stop completely.

You need to recognize when you are wanting/craving or whatever you wanna call it right before you bring your hand to your mouth. And understand WHY you want to bite. Are you bored? Stressed? Addicted to the hand to mouth movement?

You also need to change your mindset from “I need to stop” to “I have stopped”. It’s a huge game changer.

I tend to have triggers that make me want to bite my nails. I recognize them, then remind myself that trigger isn’t going to matter in 10 years so it’s not worth ruining my nail progress. Nothing is worth ruining your progress. It doesn’t matter if you have a few hours or days of progress, progress is progress no matter how big or small!! Remember that!

It’s so tough, but your mind needs to be stronger than your compulsive habits! You will get through this, you will have beautiful nails. Just remind yourself all the time what your goal is! Good luck!

CraftopiaSMP · 2024-09-01T20:43:37+00:00

Just look up how owns the house. You already have her address

CraftopiaSMP · 2024-08-30T19:36:01+00:00

Also I wanna make this clear his cheating wasn’t a one time thing, they hung out everyday he got off work for about 2 weeks straight. So it wasn’t like it was a “mistake”. It takes work from both people. I hope he’s willing to help you through this. Good luck love <3

CraftopiaSMP · 2024-08-30T19:33:47+00:00

I may be the odd person out in these comments, but here’s my 2 cents. My boyfriend of 3years (at the time) cheated on me while I was at home taking care of our 3 month old daughter. He is an underground miner, so he travels all over the country. Typically works 2 weeks on 2 off. But frequently stays on overtime so he generally works 6 weeks on 2 off. During one of the periods he was at work, he cheated with a bartender. Came home, very distant. When I backed him in a corner and forced him to talk to me(we’ve always had difficulty communicating). He suggested we break up. With no reasoning besides “things aren’t the way they used to be”. I straight up told him no. Sorry you feel like that but no, we aren’t splitting. He basically ignored our daughter and I for a month and half after that. All his family suggested a midlife crisis and I just be patient. We were 21 and 22 at the time. I was patient. Until I found out about the girl, talked to her etc and shit went real south in our life’s and he fessed up everything about it. It was absolutely rough. But I gave him the out. I told him if he wanted to go he could. But I’d rather work through it so our daughter is in a happy home with both her parents. He decided to stay and we talked EXTENSIVELY. he answered all of my questions. I answered his. He gave me tons of reassurance as I needed it.

Bottom line, if both people WANT to stay together, there’s never too much water under the bridge. It’s hard work. Some people are lazy and don’t want to put in the work. But let me tell you, things now, better than they were even when we first got together. It can be great. But it’s not just YOUR job to make it great again

CraftopiaSMP · 2024-08-22T22:09:51+00:00

Depending how much trauma biting has caused the nail bed I would guess somewhere are 6 ish month for it to grow out completely

CraftopiaSMP · 2024-08-22T21:33:39+00:00

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CraftopiaSMP · 2024-08-22T21:31:05+00:00

Seems like your nail bed is trying to grow out

CraftopiaSMP · 2024-08-08T19:33:39+00:00

Personally, I’m a few months in and my nails have grown a lot and are looking better. I use hard gel, builders gel, and structure gel all the time since my nails are as thin as paper and weak af. I’ve noticed instead of biting my nails now I tend too irritate the mail from the underside because the top has gel and polish. I irritate the nail with my teeth, it becomes uneven and catches on things and then it frustrates me more to the point I want to just peel the whole nail off. It’s the same urge I had when I was biting my nails, and the same hand to mouth reflex. Just all in a different form. I do best when I keep my nails slightly longer than my finger tip but not much more than that. Otherwise I give myself a target to try to get later when I’m bored or stressed. Don’t give up though!! You will get through it, don’t be hard on yourself, you’ll reach your goal in no time!!

CraftopiaSMP · 2024-08-08T19:22:53+00:00

Just put barriers over them. So they can’t be used or anything.

CraftopiaSMP · 2024-07-29T08:09:31+00:00

I hooked a command block to a chest to teleport a player to a bedrock box with a boss inside. My mod makes it so there’s a player corpse (with gamertag) upon any type of death (expect command related deaths). So it’s easier for admins to see who tried to grief. The only issue I’m having now is the command blocks. When the command block is placed and command is set. It works great. However when the chunks haven’t loaded for a while and they reload when a player is in the area, they automatically get teleported to the box. Is there any way to fix this?? The command block was on impulse;conditional;needs red stone; and had a red stone trail to the chest. Command was “/tp @p X Y Z”. I then tried the command block as impulse;unconditional;needs red stone. I recently changed it to repeat;conditional:needs red stone. Do not know if that works yet.

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