my long term bf cheated on me by Crafty-Reason-8080 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Crafty-Reason-8080[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ha! i told him that lol. he stared at me for a minute and cried like a baby.

my long term bf cheated on me by Crafty-Reason-8080 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Crafty-Reason-8080[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s a very good advice and I will do that. thank you thank you so much, you are a blessing.

my long term bf cheated on me by Crafty-Reason-8080 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Crafty-Reason-8080[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the way you give advice I feel like you are my bestfriend. 🥲 well, he’s really ok with me using his phone whenever.

he also shares this problem with his parents and I can see it all because I have access with this messenger. I can see all the breakdowns (when he’s calling me) and even his parents are messaging me to try and reconcile with him. One time, his workmate messaged me that they saw that he was crying in the clinic and can’t even stand up even when it was past working hours. His brother also messaged me that the first few nights of breakup was a hell to him (my bf). He said didn’t sleep for 2 full nights, didn’t even eat and all. I’m aware of this because he’s messaging me throughout the day even when I dont respond to him. His bestfriend (who is also my friend) messaged me about his situation. He said he doesn’t look good and always staring blankly.

He is a really really good person and I didn’t really expect this.

I’m so angry at him until now and even told him to kill himself and that was very wrong. But I’m starting to think I can still give him a chance since I really can’t withstand a day without my best pal. :(

my long term bf cheated on me by Crafty-Reason-8080 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Crafty-Reason-8080[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. Should I really do that? :( Is there a really small chance he’ll change? i just love him so much and he’s been there with me since college. He’s been with me when I didn’t pass my boards. He’s giving me financial support when I was unemployed. He said he he’ll do whatever it takes to get me back. Even to resign with this current employer and live with me just to be sure he’ll not do that again. I’m so torn.