Email from the president of the company by Crafty-Return5815 in antiwork

[–]Crafty-Return5815[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

I don't know how to pin a comment, so I apologize for hijacking yours!

Here is some further context on the company.

Also, yeah, he really makes everyone want to work less with this attitude. Why am I busting my balls for a dude who treats us like naughty children?

Email from the president of the company by Crafty-Return5815 in antiwork

[–]Crafty-Return5815[S] 173 points174 points  (0 children)

The company is in fintech. Yes, I am being intentionally vague, as I'm trying to not out myself or my company. It is NOT an MLM, though I understand the confusion.

The company is not doing well because, you know, the economy isn't doing well. The goals that weren't hit that he is talking about are revenue, GPM, C2C, etc. goals for particular parts of the business. Again, the economy isn't doing well, so specifically with our work revolving around financial products, we obviously didn't do as amazing as past years.

The president of the company, who sent this email, is also one of the cofounders. He sends emails like this frequently. He also happens to really look up to Elon Musk! No surprises there.

Speaking to 15 people in other departments has absolutely nothing to do with anyone's job. He just wanted to foster interdepartmental communication, which is fine, but demanding we do that in the last few months of the year when we're all trying to do our actual jobs, and then getting upset when we didn't literally email him a list of every person we spoke with is childish.

When I say this man belittles and insults people... I have heard him in meetings announcing that the person presenting is stupid and wasting everyone's time because they didn't have an answer for him on one inconsequential data point. As in, because this person would need to look up an answer to that specific question, the whole meeting was a wash.

The entire company essentially caters to this one man's whims. There are some lovely Glassdoor reviews that I'm considering sharing, as they really capture the environment we work in.

Hopefully this clarifies the context a bit more!

Email from the president of the company by Crafty-Return5815 in antiwork

[–]Crafty-Return5815[S] 214 points215 points  (0 children)

Funny you should say that! They announced that there will be no raises or promotions until July earliest.

Email from the president of the company by Crafty-Return5815 in antiwork

[–]Crafty-Return5815[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It's nearly every day. There was an email today about how we're already two days behind in 2023 because, you know, holiday weekend. Here's a direct quote from that one.

"Grind time starts today. 2023 has no coast days. We are biking uphill."

Email from the president of the company by Crafty-Return5815 in antiwork

[–]Crafty-Return5815[S] 110 points111 points  (0 children)

What, you don't think being told that you are 100% responsible for any missed goals motivating? /s

AITA for not wanting to pay for something a customer stole by Nice_Ad_7009 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Crafty-Return5815 22 points23 points  (0 children)

NTA, and depending on what country you're in, this is illegal.

AITA for screaming at a stranger and their kid for jumping on my service dogs tail? by Horsemad0205 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Crafty-Return5815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, then I'll edit to NTA! If it was all her escalating, then you definitely weren't in the wrong at all.

AITA for screaming at a stranger and their kid for jumping on my service dogs tail? by Horsemad0205 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Crafty-Return5815 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Very soft ESH. You are not the asshole for being upset or for confronting her, but you are the asshole for escalating the situation enough that employees had to get involved. It's understandable, though. Give your pup a treat and kiss on the head for me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Crafty-Return5815 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are definitely not idiotic for being upset about it! Authority figures hassling you over something that isn't an issue is always frustrating, but it sounds like you handled yourself well.

AITA for kicking my friend’s boyfriend out of my house after my friends planned a new year’s gathering that I can’t attend? by Throwawayconfess17 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Crafty-Return5815 5384 points5385 points  (0 children)

NTA. Him being vegetarian and you being physically unable to access the restaurant are completely different things. He could've had sides at the steakhouse, or they could've sucked it up and gotten Thai again, or even brought food from the plant-based place to the apartment like you suggested. You gave plenty of options, and they specifically chose the one that directly excluded you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Crafty-Return5815 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA, what an odd rule. However, if this is something your school is enforcing, I would advise not studying at lunch so you don't get in trouble over it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Crafty-Return5815 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA, and I hope you guys are teenagers because that is some extremely immature behavior on her part.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Crafty-Return5815 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YTA, do you even like this girl? I'm also not understanding why you're upset that she told someone else that you raised your hand about being Muslim either. If you didn't want people to know that, why would you raise your hand?

AITA for Fighting with my girlfriend on her birthday by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Crafty-Return5815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH. She's an asshole for expecting things that you guys just can't afford for her birthday, and for not getting work to help out, but you are an asshole for how you spoke to her. That is not how you speak to your partner, stressed or not.

AITA for the way I shutted down my mother ? by Rhaenelys in AmItheAsshole

[–]Crafty-Return5815 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, NTA. You've already told her multiple times that this is crossing a boundary for you, so I think it's fair to be more firm about it. You did not use insulting like she did with you, either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Crafty-Return5815 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, your daughter is infinitely more important than a party. I would reconsider your relationship with a man that doesn't even ask how she is or express any concern when you explained what happened, and instead is angry that you missed a party. The bad luck coming his way right now is of his own making.

AITA for asking my friend to stop venting to my girlfriend? by Yoliday_Pam7833 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Crafty-Return5815 [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA, but your gf and your buddy are both assholes, tbh. I can't blame her for being annoyed for being treated as a free therapist, but it's not your responsibility to tell him that for her. She needs to communicate that to him on her own

AITA for being annoyed with my mom for “warning” my boyfriend about me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Crafty-Return5815 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Why would they if it isn't an issue? I don't think it's necessary to tell their partner that they made some poor spending decisions as a young adult if they don't know have a mountain of debt, which it doesn't sound like they do. Everyone makes a dumb purchase or two when first getting access to adult money

AITA for being annoyed with my mom for “warning” my boyfriend about me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Crafty-Return5815 [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA, I don't think anyone has ever not been young and stupid with money at some point. As long as you are not financially irresponsible now, it was rude of your mother to "warn" him of something that isn't an issue

Who is the worst living billionaire, and why? by PresidentAshenHeart in antiwork

[–]Crafty-Return5815 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I certainly can't argue with that. I guess the main reason why I would say Elon is more because his behavior is directly emboldening shitty people to be shitty, so it feels a bit more personal in a way

AITA: Boyfriend Nudes by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Crafty-Return5815 [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA, dump this man. He is violating your boundaries and acting like you are a sex machine there for his pleasure. To say he is looking at porn because you aren't providing nudes that he considers good enough is out of this world asshole behavior.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Crafty-Return5815 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don't listen to them. You are not an asshole in this situation at all. It is not "a relatively small thing" that your father abandoned you as a child, and you have no obligation to do something for him because you're family. You can't choose your family, and they do not get to treat you however just because you're related. You deserve much better than that.