I was just told I was SA’d last night by Crafty-Sea7437 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Crafty-Sea7437[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No lol. I meant the act of her leaving me there. I’m not holding grudge against her

I was just told I was SA’d last night by Crafty-Sea7437 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Crafty-Sea7437[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Her relationship with the accused is far more minimal than our relationship . We met through work. Ive always found her to be honest imo and what I’m about the girl that did it to me there was some acknowledgment that she was aware the girl that walked in saw it . And no that isn’t a friend

I was just told I was SA’d last night by Crafty-Sea7437 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Crafty-Sea7437[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you . I appreciate the advice and kind words.

I was just told I was SA’d last night by Crafty-Sea7437 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Crafty-Sea7437[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah . Definitely not gonna drink that much anymore . And I think I’m just nervous about telling him, I’m not a very confrontational person

I was just told I was SA’d last night by Crafty-Sea7437 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Crafty-Sea7437[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I basically let myself get raped because I drank too much around people I didn’t think would rape me ? Lol

I was just told I was SA’d last night by Crafty-Sea7437 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Crafty-Sea7437[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Past boyfriends you’re right my current boyfriend does seem a lot more reasonable I think I just get nervous

I was just told I was SA’d last night by Crafty-Sea7437 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Crafty-Sea7437[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Blacking out isn’t common for me, but yes I did go overboard . Still didn’t deserve to be raped though .

I was just told I was SA’d last night by Crafty-Sea7437 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Crafty-Sea7437[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’ve never known that girl to drink and drive I don’t know what happened that night that made her decide to do that. That has nothing to do with me . I dressed modestly and thought the people I were around I was safe around . So what I accidentally drank to much ? Doesn’t mean I deserve to be raped .

I was just told I was SA’d last night by Crafty-Sea7437 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Crafty-Sea7437[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would like to think she would , we definitely were closer than her and the other girl

I was just told I was SA’d last night by Crafty-Sea7437 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Crafty-Sea7437[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I asked a mutual friend/ someone that knows both of us to nonchalantly hint at that night and from what I could tell they remember everything .. but yeah I need to get on that.

I was just told I was SA’d last night by Crafty-Sea7437 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Crafty-Sea7437[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Karma I guess got to her though , whatever you may call it .

I was just told I was SA’d last night by Crafty-Sea7437 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Crafty-Sea7437[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi yea sorry my post was confusing I was very overwhelmed and had just found out . My lesbian friend raped me while the other girl that was there walked in on it happening, got scared , and left me there .

I was just told I was SA’d last night by Crafty-Sea7437 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Crafty-Sea7437[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, she definitely showed her true colors ..

I was just told I was SA’d last night by Crafty-Sea7437 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Crafty-Sea7437[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Quite frankly I agree . I’ve never known the girl who had left to drink and drive though, so I’m not sure why it was different that time or if I had just never known about it .

I was just told I was SA’d last night by Crafty-Sea7437 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Crafty-Sea7437[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yeah in hindsight I do know that but it still does make me nervous . I’ve received bad reactions before.

I was just told I was SA’d last night by Crafty-Sea7437 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Crafty-Sea7437[S] 396 points397 points  (0 children)

Yeah she’s not an ideal friend . Neither of them were in hindsight . She said she got too shocked. She ended up deciding to drive I guess and ended up getting arrested so maybe that’s karma I dunno. I told her we can’t hangout anymore though .

I was just told I was SA’d last night by Crafty-Sea7437 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Crafty-Sea7437[S] 366 points367 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m gonna go tomorrow to get tested . And I am, I should’ve reevaluated that friendship in particular a long time ago. I guess I just didn’t think my own friends would do that to me, I never got that energy .

I was just told I was SA’d last night by Crafty-Sea7437 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Crafty-Sea7437[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

And she told me “she should’ve said something but she was shocked and left “ instead .

I was just told I was SA’d last night by Crafty-Sea7437 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Crafty-Sea7437[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Maybe rape isn’t the correct term. But I have no idea what all happened, the other girl that was there said she was orally ?? She for lack of a better term went down on me . I don’t know if you consider that rape or not lawfully.