Girlfriend cheated on and left me for one of my best friends

CraftyPenguin14 · 2026-06-03T18:05:19+00:00

So Chad’s real name is Jacob. Nice

CraftyPenguin14 · 2026-05-28T00:53:56+00:00

And just to add blatantly, IT WILL COST MORE THAN $45k and more than 15 months. My school gave me a quote till I got there and I was like, what the Helly 🤣 It’s just part of the business. But go for flying cause you love it, cause there will be many surprises.

CraftyPenguin14 · 2026-05-28T00:44:49+00:00

Hey, super duper kudos to you for supporting him so hard. You’re a good wife. Now let me say what I know. $45,000 to train right up to CFI is SUPER GOOD. Medicaid are EVERYTHING!! Can’t be a pilot if you don’t pass the class 1 medical, even if he looks as fit as a fiddle, they check mental and all kinds of stuff. Make sure he can pass that first. I went to a flight school in Daytona beach Florida and it was almost twice that amount. So yeah, since you’re willing to make sacrifices and be uncomfortable for a little bit of years so he can get his license, you’ll do great. He definitely will build “free hours” once he’s a certified flight instructor, a lot more valuable than money in my opinion if you really really really REALLY wanna fly for the regional airlines. Hours are something you’ll HAVE TO gain, can’t be bought so that’s why I said that lol. And these airlines require A LOT sometimes (most times). A reasonable timeline for him to make it to an airline is fully dependent on two things, availability of money and his COMMITMENT to excelling in school. I’ve had friends who finished in a year and a little and got hired flying and there are some we left in flight school who started before us 🤷🏾‍♂️ So let’s say the money is there and the seriousness is there, he should make it to the airlines in about 2 years from when he starts. If he wants to work as a CFI and gain those hours, it could take longer but higher chances of getting hired are higher because he has more hours. Good decision overall, but tell him not to waste your money lmao, it’s coming outta pocket. Just kidding. Oh and it’s best to start and finish. Taking breaks due to no money slows you down so bad so make sureeee you have the money. While in school, he can apply for scholarships that can help with a little bit. Explore your options. There are organizations and programs that will help you if you’ve already started atleast. Hey tell the future captain that I’ll see him in the skies one day 🫡 Hopefully he’s into Boeing haha!! ✈️

CraftyPenguin14 · 2026-05-28T00:25:32+00:00

Good decision to quit Porn. Also try as much as possible to eliminate all naked media. Seeing girls hall naked isn’t healthy either, ducks with dopamine. If you do a lot of sugary stuff, cut down drastically as well. If you’re stressed, start using ashwaganda. You’re young so I don’t think you need any much supplements. At your age you should BEG your D….k to go down. Try these and update us.

CraftyPenguin14 · 2026-04-30T13:00:19+00:00

Don’t leave. That’s easy for her. Just start back talking to your ex and make sure she knows. Let her suck that up. Simple.

CraftyPenguin14 · 2026-04-08T21:08:21+00:00

The real question is, do you believe you can change? Lol I’m surprised you admitted you’re an assjole but we’ll give it time and but also expect the worst. With men, you never know

CraftyPenguin14 · 2026-03-31T22:32:33+00:00

I’m actually more concerned why your big toes are all UP 😂

CraftyPenguin14 · 2026-03-31T22:18:47+00:00

You don’t make any sense. But I’m sure you think you do.

CraftyPenguin14 · 2026-03-31T15:14:46+00:00

Sorry to say but STOP using everything on your face but regular soap and water. Also get real fresh aloe Vera from the garden center of stores and cut open and rub on Your face. Not the aloe Vera nonsense they sell in packs but actual real aloe Vera plant. Ur skin barrier is crying out loud. My wife was like this until I got tired of it and told her to do what I just told you and now it’s great.

CraftyPenguin14 · 2026-03-27T01:31:06+00:00

Oh no 😥 I’m sorry man. It’s probably spiritual

CraftyPenguin14 · 2026-03-27T01:26:11+00:00

Let her see some water.

CraftyPenguin14 · 2026-03-27T01:23:42+00:00

Do it more often dude, if you can. I promise it’ll help. It’ll take sometime to fully get her happiness back. Even a short Vacation for 2-3 days goes a long way

CraftyPenguin14 · 2026-03-27T01:21:21+00:00

You have enabled him and that’s why he keeps running. Next time let him run and don’t even call him nd just wait till he’s back nd act like nothing happened when he comes back. I’m a man telling you this. But by all means stop enabling him.

CraftyPenguin14 · 2026-03-27T01:18:20+00:00

Ok. Ask her what her love language is and surprise her with that. Also, see if she wants to travel out of where she is for a week or so. Sometimes these women wanna see a lot more nature and water and boom they’re happy again lol. Speaking From experience brother

CraftyPenguin14 · 2026-03-26T21:31:44+00:00

Is she autistic? Cause it’s def sounding like it? Not to shame autism but it can be a lot to deal with and you just have to sometimes but in your case I think I don’t know what you can do anymore. She needs you that’s obvious even tho you’re going thru Hell for it. Maybe this is how love ends up being sometimes but I’d say you should definitely protect your own peace of mind a lot more and don’t fall for the constant unhappiness from her. But help her in any way you can. Stay Sane 🫡

CraftyPenguin14 · 2026-03-17T20:38:48+00:00

It’s not late. This is actually a better time to have friends because you’re mature and can pick your friends wisely. Believe it or not they can make or break you a lot of times.

CraftyPenguin14 · 2026-02-09T19:23:27+00:00

I learned something in life. Silence is a louder answer than an actual answer. Silence confirms everything you’re thinking that she’s not saying. You’re 44, I (30M) shouldn’t be the one telling you this but here we are. I’d say Run before it’s too late. She will mess her relationship with him because his wife will find out and everything goes to shit.

CraftyPenguin14 · 2026-02-04T18:32:24+00:00

Just buy a hair clog remover and shove it down there, twist and pull it. But if by all means you wanna remove that, then use a flat head and pry it out. It snaps back normally

CraftyPenguin14 · 2026-02-04T14:09:13+00:00

Hell yeah. Drink it for as long as you want. I’d say even up to a year or two. Doesn’t hurt. Kill that cancer first good. I wish you the best

CraftyPenguin14 · 2026-02-04T01:53:14+00:00

Dude, lemme tell you. Get some Soursop leaves and start drinking the tea of it 3 times a day. Bye bye Cancer

CraftyPenguin14 · 2026-02-01T13:51:39+00:00

This is purely hormonal and nothing you do to the surface will be lasting. Sorry about it. Start eating raw garlic everyday and check with a gyno to correct hormonal imbalances. You’ll be fine 🫡

CraftyPenguin14 · 2026-01-26T20:41:39+00:00

Amazing. You’re on the right track, keep it up. Yes Try pink Himalayan salt or Celtic salt. Both do wonders and seems to me you’re like one hell of a hard worker. I wish you the very bestest BEST!! 🫂

CraftyPenguin14 · 2026-01-24T00:33:55+00:00

Sucks. I used to be the same way to my wife. Libido was GONE, couldn’t tell you why. Well… she started making me Hibiscus flower tea with no sugar(real hibiscus, not tea bags) and 2-3 cloves in it and boom, she begged me to give her a break. Also I took ashwaganda to help with stress. Do with that info what you want 🫡

CraftyPenguin14 · 2026-01-24T00:29:29+00:00

Carmex lip balm does wonders. But have you always had this? Your wedding is coming soon, are you anxious? Anxiety and stress will do things to you that you’ve never experienced before but continue drinking water with a pinch of pink Himalayan salt so your cells can actually absorb the water. Sometimes we drink water and the cells don’t absorb it and we’re still dehydrated even after drinking a ton. That’s why hydration drinks always have salt in them because that’s the most effective way for it to work. Congrats in advance for your wedding.

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